I veri uomini scelgono sempre l'amore a lungo termine rispetto alla lussuria a breve termine

Quando ci si guarda intorno e si vedono tutte le conseguenze della incontri moderniSembra che l'amore sia morto da tempo.

Nessuno cerca un legame vero o un legame profondo e tutti sono interessati solo a storie di una notte e a relazioni senza legami.

Tutto ruota intorno al sesso senza senso e sembra che ogni uomo che si incontra sia un fobico dell'impegno. Nessuno è interessato a trovare un amore eterno, qualcuno con cui invecchiare o con cui passare il resto della vita.

And consequently, you’ve lost your faith in love. You think of yourself as a hopeless romantic who believes in fairy tales that can never be real.

You think of yourself as an old-fashioned fool who keeps waiting for a romance that doesn’t exist.

But that is far from the truth. The reason why you think this way is because you keep running into immature boys who don’t have a clue about life. They don’t know what they want and never think about the future.

Contrary to them, real men are quite different. Don’t get me wrong—I am not saying that sex isn’t important to a mature man because it definitely is.

But a mature man will not put all of his focus into getting laid and he’ll never pursue sex just to satisfy his physical needs. Instead, he always puts sex into the context of love.

This guy won’t waste his energy on a meaningless physical connection, when he knows that real intimacy is much more. And that is exactly what he’ll look for.

Ricorda—a real man will always choose long-term love over short-term lust. He doesn’t have time to play games and he doesn’t enjoys the chase.

Vuole invece qualcosa di significativo e che duri nel tempo.

Cerca una donna che lo soddisfi in più di un modo, una donna che sia la sua metà a tutti i livelli e una donna che sia la sua compagna in tutti gli aspetti della vita.

Cerca una donna forte, perché è un uomo forte anche. E quando la trova, non cerca mai di sminuire il suo valore perché non è minacciato o intimidito dalla sua indipendenza o dal suo potere.

Invece, è orgoglioso del fatto che questa donna speciale abbia scelto lui rispetto a tutti gli altri uomini di questo mondo.

He is happy because he doesn’t only have a lover—ha anche un migliore amico e un compagno di vita.

Once he finds this woman, he’ll never throw away everything he’s built with her because of something temporary. He won’t allow himself to only be led by his instincts and he will never gamble with his relationship.

Instead, he will fight for it with everything he has. He won’t expect for his woman to be perfect nor will he be tempted by replacing her as soon as he finds another woman a bit more attractive.

This man will think of his woman as unique and he’ll always see her inner beauty before anything else. He’ll appreciate everything she does for him and he’ll be grateful for each and every one of her sacrifices.

He’ll be thankful for having such a guardian angel and he wouldn’t trade her for anything in this world.

This man will never think of taking his better half for granted and he’ll never assume that he can replace her in the blink of an eye because he is perfectly well aware of how lucky he is for having her.

A real man knows that love isn’t a fairy tale and he doesn’t expect for his relationship or marriage to remain in the honeymoon stage forever. He knows what life is and is aware that a healthy relationship needs to constantly be worked on.

Ed è esattamente quello che continua a fare—si impegna e cerca di stare vicino alla sua donna perché perderla è l'ultima cosa che vuole.

So please, don’t lose your faith because a man like this will come into your life.

And when he does, you’ll see that all of this waiting wasn’t for nothing and you will be more than happy that you è rimasta single finché non è arrivato lui.