Ecco come convincere un ragazzo a confessare i suoi sentimenti per te

Passate sempre più tempo con lui, vi sentite nervosi ed eccitati ogni volta che dovete vederlo, ma non è ancora successo nulla.

Ti senti come gli piaci and there are signs that he does, but he simply isn’t making that first move.

You’re wondering how you should play this to get him to tell you he likes you. Follow our advice and you’ll soon know how he feels.

Divertitevi con lui

You’re at the very beginning so keep things light, breezy and fun. Show him how interesting you are to make him want to explore things further with you. 

Relax and use this flirty, exciting period as best you can. Nothing beats the beginning of a crush and the excitement you feel when you’re not certain how you feel about each other.

Sfruttate tutta l'adrenalina per divertirvi come non mai.

Listen to him and don’t be judgmental

Se volete che vi confessi che prova qualcosa per voi, dovete fare in modo che si senta abbastanza a suo agio da aprirsi ed essere vulnerabile con voi. 

Ascoltate attentamente quando decide di raccontarvi la sua vita e le sue esperienze e cercate di essere il più possibile comprensivi e gentili.

Se vi aspettate che si fidi abbastanza da farvi conoscere i suoi sentimenti, fatelo sentire in grado di farlo.

Dimostrate di avere a cuore i suoi interessi

A tutti i ragazzi piace una ragazza che si interessi dei suoi hobby e che sia interessata alle cose che piacciono a lui.

Of course you shouldn’t pretend to like something you don’t, but I’m sure there’s something – otherwise you wouldn’t like him at all.

Show him that you’re interested in the things he loves and suggest doing them together if you think that it could be something you’d enjoy.

Esprimere gratitudine per le cose che fa

I ragazzi vogliono sentirsi apprezzato. Per metterlo a suo agio nel condividere i suoi sentimenti con voi, mostrategli il vostro apprezzamento e la vostra gratitudine per le cose belle che fa per voi.

Allow him to feel good about himself when he’s around you.

Prestate attenzione al suo linguaggio del corpo

A guy who really likes you will show you he does, even if he doesn’t tell you directly. His face and body will face you, his eyes will be wide open when you’re speaking and he’ll be slightly smiling almost constantly.

Even though he hasn’t directly told you he likes you yet, he’s already told you with his linguaggio del corpo. Try to be as approachable to him as he is to you and show him that you’re responding positively to his feelings.

Iniziare a prestare un po' di attenzione innocente al suo amico

If this has been going on for a while now and it doesn’t seem like he’s going to make that first move, you can try this little trick.

Speed up his “getting brave enough to tell you’’ process by innocently flirting with his friend. He’ll get scared that he might lose you if he waits for too long and will finally make a move.

Don’t let him know you like him too soon

You don’t want him to be too sure of your feelings for him, so it’s best to keep him guessing.

I’m not saying you should pretend to be an ice queen, but don’t be too open about your feelings, the same way he isn’t open about his.

Incuriositelo e chiedeteglielo, in modo che non abbia altra scelta che confessare i suoi sentimenti per scoprire i vostri.

Chiedeteglielo direttamente in un modo super carino

If you’re usually really straightforward or you’re getting tired of waiting, you can simply confess your feelings and ask him about his.

Make sure you don’t make this too serious, and choose a charming, playful approach instead.

Wait until you’re enjoying a fun moment together and say something like: “You kinda like me, right?” or “I really enjoy everything we do together, I hope you do too.”

In questa situazione, un ragazzo a cui piaci davvero risponderà come ti aspetti, condividendo con te le sue emozioni.

Essere sempre se stessi

Make sure you don’t seem desperate for his attention and don’t ever do anything that isn’t who you are just to get his attention.

You want him to like you for who you are, not to like a version of you that’s completely fake.

Don’t get lost in the game of making him like you and remember that you’re looking for un ragazzo con cui puoi essere te stessa.