Come dire a qualcuno che ti piace (60 modi diversi)
You know how people say: if you love someone, let them know? Hah, if only it were that easy… right? The paura del rifiuto ci fa semplicemente bloccare di fronte alla persona che ci piace ogni volta che cerchiamo di confessarle i nostri sentimenti.
However, we don’t even have to do it directly because there are so many ways we can show them. So, stay with me, and you’ll learn some importanti consigli per gli appuntamenti su come dire a qualcuno che ti piace senza dirlo.
So che il solo pensare di confessare i propri sentimenti alla propria cotta è snervante.
Even if we aren’t afraid of rejection, we worry too much about whether we’ll get positive feedback or not, and it puts so much pressure on us.
On the flip side, it’s always better to prove your feelings to someone through your actions because words don’t actually mean a lot quando si tratta di amore e di emozioni così profonde.
Ok, now, let’s cut the chatter and get down to brass tacks.
Come dire a qualcuno che ti piace
Ovviamente, il modo più semplice sarebbe quello di essere sinceri e confessare i propri sentimenti alla cotta face-to-face. However, I know that for most of us, that’s not an option at all.
That’s why I made this little guide on how to tell someone that you like them without being direct about it. Also, just to ensure everything goes well, I will also offer you a few tips to help you deal with the outcome.
Fare un passo indietro
Prima di fare questo passo importante, è necessario fermarsi un attimo a riflettere. Dovete essere sicuri che vi piaccia davvero tanto quanto pensate e poi fare una mossa.
If you’re still rethinking it, don’t do it. That way, you can only hurt that person and their feelings.
Prima di tutto, lavorare sulla propria autostima
Dovete essere sicuri di voi stessi per fare questa mossa. Se avete autostima issues, you’ll think that there is no way that the other person feels the same about you, and it’ll discourage you completely.
Then, make sure they’re single
When you like someone, it’s completely natural that you want to find out more about them and conoscerli meglio.
Tuttavia, la loro vita sentimentale è ciò su cui dovreste concentrarvi. If you find out that they aren’t single, you should abort the mission immediately.
Let your body language scream “I like you”
Una parte molto importante del nostro modo di flirtare è quella che un po' tutti trascuriamo: la nostra linguaggio del corpo.
Maybe you didn’t know it, but a person can figure out a lot about you and your feelings just by observing the way you behave when you’re around certain people.
So, when you’re around your crush, you need to have that open body language. It simply means that you’re showing them that you’re open to them and that you vorrebbe che facessero una mossa.
Diteglielo con gli occhi
Contatto visivo è estremamente importante anche quando si tratta di flirtare.
When you’re talking face-to-face, make eye contact with your crush and try to maintain it as long as they don’t look away. If they’re into you, they’ll probably want to maintain it for as long as they can, and they’ll also probably smile very gently after one of you looks away.
‘Accidentally’ touch their arm
Dite alla vostra cotta che vi piace by touching their arm and making it look like an accident. They will probably see it as an accident the first time you do it, but after a few times, they’ll most likely get the message you’re trying to send.
Lasciate uscire la vostra natura civettuola
I’m sure you’ve already tried this one. However, now is the time to step up your flirting game to conquistare la tua cotta una volta per tutte.
Laugh at their jokes, even when they’re not that funny
Even if they’re the funniest person you know, I’m sure that sometimes they’ll tell a joke that won’t be funny to you or that you won’t understand.
However, the point is that you should even keep laughing at those lame jokes they tell. You’ll probably be the only one in the room laughing, so it’ll make them understand a few things.
Get in their ‘good friends’ circle
I think this one is quite simple. To show them you’re into them, you need to find out more about them. What are their likes and dislikes and things like that?
And to do so, you’ll need to become their friend first.
Ricordare il loro compleanno
Siamo tutti d'accordo sul fatto che ricordiamo solo i compleanni delle persone a cui teniamo veramente. Quindi, c'è un modo migliore per dire alla vostra cotta che vi piace se non ricordando il suo giorno speciale e magari sorprendendola con un piccolo regalo?
Date loro un soprannome carino
A nome dolce e romantico per un animale domestico will simply scream “I like you” to them.
Basta invitarli a uscire
Honestly, you have nothing to lose. If they accept the invitation, it’s a clear sign they like you back. On the flip side, if they reject you, it’ll also be a red flag that you should give up on them.
In ogni caso, avete vinto. So rifiuto hurts, but it’s so much better when it happens in the beginning before you fall head over heels for them.
Vedi anche: 6 Stupefacente Idee per il primo appuntamento
Indossare quel profumo che a loro piace tanto
Always try to look your absolute best when you’re around your crush. If they’ve complimented your outfit or your perfume, you should try to wear those things more often.
Concentrarsi sul tempo da trascorrere con loro
Prima di ammettere i vostri sentimenti alla vostra cotta, dovete conoscerla meglio. Quindi, trascorrere il tempo con loro è un assoluto MUST.
I complimenti sono sempre ben accetti
Vi starete chiedendo come dire a qualcuno che vi piace senza dirlo davvero. La risposta è piuttosto chiara: riempirli di complimenti. It’ll be impossible for them not to realize that you’re very much into them.
Lasciate da parte la vostra zona di comfort
I’m sure most of these things are out of your comfort zone, but the thing is, if you want to show your crush you’re into them, you really need to forget about your comfort zone.
However, it’s important that you feel comfortable
I know this sounds confusing. I just want to tell you that you should step out of your comfort zone a bit if you’re sure it’ll help you win over your crush.
Ma non dovreste mai fare cose che vi fanno sentire male con voi stessi, né per la vostra cotta, né per nessun altro.
Baciarli o abbracciarli invece di dirgli addio
This will simply show them that you don’t think of them as just friends.
Lasciare indizi ovunque
Don’t think that it’s enough for a piccolo gesto d'amore to make your crush realize you’re into them. Dovete inondarli di sottili suggerimenti per tutto il tempo, o almeno fino a quando non otterrete un qualche tipo di feedback.
Aspettare il momento giusto
Every relationship expert will give you this, in my opinion, the most important piece of relationship advice. It’s highly important how you do it, but it’s also important when you do it.
Unfortunately, I can’t tell you the exact moment you should do it. The fact is that no one can determine it, but once you get positive feedback from the other side and are a hundred percent sure of your feelings, you’ll definitely feel that you’re ready for this step.
La vostra prima volta deve essere speciale
No, I’m not thinking about THE first time, so tame those dirty thoughts of yours. What I wanted to say is that the first time you want to confess your feelings to your crush needs to be special.
As I mentioned above, you need to choose the right moment, but it’s equally important to pick a nice place to do it. It’ll probably be something that your crush will remember forever, so try to make it very special for them.
Siate sinceri e ammettetelo direttamente
How to tell someone you like them: it’s simple – just tell them. This is definitely the easiest way to do it. Of course, this is only if you’re brave enough to do it directly.
Ricordate, rimanete sempre positivi
Continuare a pensare in modo positivo, and positive things will start happening. On the contrary, if you’re pessimistic about the possible outcome, those negative thoughts will overwhelm you, and you’ll be too scared to take this step.
Even if you get a reaction you didn’t hope for, you still need to keep that positive attitude. Remember, c'è sempre qualcosa di buono in ogni male.
God always knows what He is doing. If He didn’t want to cross your paths, it’s because He wanted to save you from that person and possible crepacuore.
8 cose che non dovreste mai fare
Ci sono anche alcune cose che non dovreste mai fare o dire, perché potrebbero effettivamente allontanare la cotta. Quindi, se volete un risultato positivo, ecco alcune cose che non dovete mai fare o dire alla vostra cotta.
Fare un gran parlare di questo argomento
Prima di tutto, vorrei avvertirvi che dovreste Ridurre le aspettative or forget about them completely. You don’t know what the outcome will be, so don’t expect too much out of it because your own expectations may break your heart.
You’re just at the beginning of a potential relationship, and you shouldn’t really make a big deal out of it. If they’re la persona giusta for you, everything will be fine. And if they aren’t, well then, you’ll have to wait for the one, for your true soulmate.
Lasciarlo cadere proprio nel mezzo della conversazione
Questa è una delle cose peggiori che si possano fare. Può davvero confondere l'altra parte e allontanarli da voi completamente. And that’s the last thing you want, right?
Le dichiarazioni pubbliche sono un grande no
These kinds of things should really be handled privately. Again, you don’t know what the outcome will be, and if you get a negative one, you would only be embarrassed in front of all those people around you.
Quindi, quando desiderate confessare i vostri sentimenti alla vostra cotta, il modo migliore per farlo è mentre siete insieme e da soli.
Say “I love you” on your first date
Please, please, please don’t ever do this. I do believe in amore a prima vista, and even if it hits you, don’t confess it on your first date.
Trust me – you’re not ready to handle the outcome of a situation like this. Your date will think that you’re either crazy or a creep, and that will probably be the last time you’ll see that person.
Sapete come dice Tyra Banks: “You don’t have to have a ring on your finger to say, ‘Ti amo.'”
La maggior parte esperti di relazioni agree that you’ll just feel when it’s il momento giusto per dire quelle parole out loud, but it’s definitely not on your primo appuntamento.
Chiedete ai vostri migliori amici di fare il lavoro al posto vostro.
I know your pals and besties are always there for you, but you shouldn’t involve them in this. This is something you need to do yourself.
You don’t need any intermediaries that will relay messages between you and your crush. I vostri migliori amici deve restarne fuori, altrimenti potrebbe metterli in una situazione scomoda.
Usare l'alcol come coraggio liquido
Don’t ever admit your feelings to someone when you’re drunk. The next morning, when you sober up, you are gonna regret it for sure.
Also, the other side won’t know if you were telling the truth or if it was just the alcohol talking. You will definitely avoid each other for some time because your drunken confession will have created tension between you.
Aspettate che siano loro a esprimere i propri sentimenti.
Girls, I know that you’ve been told that you should always wait for the man to step up and admit his feelings first. But, listen to me, it’s such bullshit.
We’re braver than men, and that’s a fact. So, why would you wait for him to muster up the courage to approach you first? If you received any kind of positive feedback from him, I say go for it.
Take that step first and show him that you aren’t a coward, unlike him.
Datevi una scadenza
Don’t ever blackmail yourself with a deadline. It’ll only put greater pressure on you, and you’ll feel even more nervous.
Of course, you shouldn’t put it off for too long either, but don’t pressure yourself into anything. Before you take such an important step, you must be ready and a hundred percent sure your feelings are honest.
If you’ve been crushing on that person for a long time, then you’re aware that it’s the real deal and that your feelings won’t go away easily. That’s when you should start thinking about admitting it to that person.
Come dire a qualcuno che ti piace via SMS: 9 consigli efficaci
Sarà un gioco da ragazzi. In questo mondo moderno fatto di social media, appuntamenti online e app di incontriè diventato davvero più facile dimostrare a una persona che le piace.
Of course, you won’t just type “I like you” and send it to your crush, but it’s definitely ok to far sapere loro come ci si sente tramite un messaggio che farlo di persona.
In the following part of this article, I’ll teach you how to flirt with the person you like over text or social media. I promise that you’ll become a real texting pro when you finish reading this small guide.
Date loro il vostro numero
Of course, you can’t start texting with someone if you don’t have each other’s numbers. So, when your crush asks you for your phone number, don’t play hard to get o esitare a darli subito. Invece, dettate loro i numeri.
Don’t let them wait for your reply
Don’t play the ‘leave them waiting’ game. Your goal is to make your crush understand that you like them, right?
Then, reply to their texts straight away, and it’ll show them you’re a testa in giù per loro.
I messaggi di follow-up sono vietati
Well, this is the rule only if you’ve just started texting…
If you’ve been texting for a long time, then it’s perfectly okay to send a follow-up text every now and then. BUT keep those messages plain, non-demanding, and very short.
Let them know you’re thinking about them
Solo un semplice ‘thinking of you’ message can show your crush that you’re into them. If you don’t want to be so direct, you can start your convo with, “I was doing something that reminded me of you, blah blah…”.
Mettere "Mi piace" alle loro foto e ai loro post sui social media
This doesn’t mean that you should immediately add them to your close friends list on every social media platform you have and like basically everything they share on it.
Just hit the like button every now and then. It’ll be enough to show them they have managed to spark your interest.
Includete immagini nei vostri testi
If you’ve already been texting for a long time, you can send them a selfie from time to time. If they send a selfie back, it’s a very good sign anche loro sono interessati a te.
Mandateli regolarmente su Snapchat
Snapchat è il mio social media preferito. In qualche modo ti permette di scoprire dove si trova una persona e cosa sta facendo.
Well, that’s only if your crush is a Snapchat maniac like I am and sends a snap like every half an hour.
Inviate loro una canzone romantica
Questo è anche un ottimo modo, non troppo scontato, per dire a qualcuno che vi piace. Basta scegliere una canzone che spieghi tutto quello che volete dirgli.
For example, Ariana Grande – Into You. Is there a better song to let someone know you’re deeply into them? No? I couldn’t agree more with that.
Usate emoji flirtanti durante i messaggi di testo
Even though most people don’t take this seriously, emojis can really help you out when it comes to texting and conveying the right message.
So, if you never add an emoji at the end of your messages, it’ll make the other side think that they’re boring you. The truth is that if you don’t use emojis when texting someone, it can set a very cold tone to your convo.
20 semplici cose quotidiane per dimostrare a qualcuno che ti piace
Ecco come dire a qualcuno che vi piace, ma in modo non troppo rischioso. Potete fare delle allusioni e fare ogni giorno alcune di queste piccole cose che vi faranno capire quanto tenete sinceramente a loro.
1. Chiedere come stanno le cose FREQUENTEMENTE
2. Trovare sempre del tempo per loro
3. Sentire i loro sentimenti
5. Farli ridere
6. Cucinare per loro
7. Prendete i loro snack preferiti
8. Le sorprese sono sempre una buona idea per dimostrare a qualcuno che ci tenete.
9. Prestare attenzione e ascoltare attentamente mentre parlano
10. Baciarli e abbracciarli senza motivo
11. Inviare un messaggio casuale messaggi di testo dolci
12. Trasmettere i propri sentimenti in una lettera romantica
13. Don’t let them go to sleep without a goodnight text
14. Visita a sorpresa
15. Impostare una data di attività
16. Tenere la mano
17. Fare programmi per voi due soli
18. Mostrare interesse per i loro interessi
19. Presentateli alle vostre amiche del cuore
20. Diventare la loro persona di riferimento
In breve
I hope you enjoyed our article and learned a few tricks on how to tell someone you like them without actually saying the words “I like you.”
Be brave. Don’t let your fears hold you back or prevent you from doing things your heart tells you to do. Don’t ever allow your fears to make you lose the person you love.
Even if you don’t get feedback positivo, it’s no grande affare. Even if you get rejected, it’s really not the fine del mondo.
Tutto accade per una ragione. If they don’t get your message or give you ‘not interested’ feedback, it’s just a sign that they aren’t the right person for you.
Significa solo che bisogna aspettare quello giusto. Aspettare la tua anima gemella. Wait for the person you won’t even have to bother to show how you feel because they’ll be able to read it all from your eyes.
Let me tell you something… To be honest, I actually do believe in the saying we talked about at the beginning of this article. I would just add a few more words at the end of it…
If you love someone, let them know… Or, just let them go.
