Come fare sesso più spesso

Siete soddisfatti del vostro vita sessuale? Pensa che dovrebbe fare sesso più spesso? Se sì, cosa le impedisce di farlo?

Jobs, schedules, a modern lifestyle and some other factors greatly influence the quality of our sex life. It doesn’t matter whether you’re single, married or simply living with a partner—sex is essential for your well-being and you can never have too much of it.

So, here are some tips to help you crank those numbers up. Buckle up and let’s get started!

1. Conversare in modo piacevole e produttivo con il partner

Try to remember the last time you almost engaged in the activity in order to find out why you didn’t proceed to do it. This might give you a better insight for future engagements. Do not point fingers at each other. Just try to have a nice, adult conversation and feel free to express yourself. Perhaps this one conversation might lead to something more productive (if you know what I mean).

2. Pensate alla vostra storia medica e al vostro stato di salute generale

You’d be surprised by the impact that medical issues may have on your sex life. Some people have naturally decreased hormones that affect their sex drive. If you have such an inconvenience, you should consult your doctor, Google it or ask some close friends for advice.

3.  “I have a headache.”

Just the idea of you thinking that you’re sick or have a headache makes you less willing to engage in vaporoso attività:

Michael: Oh, hai un profumo così buono, piccola.

Stacy: Oh, please, give me a break. Look at me. I’m disgusting. I’m covered in paper tissues. My nose is running, my hair is a mess…

Michael: Well, OK.. I guess… If you say so, baby.

We can see that Stacy doesn’t feel good about herself because she is sick. She thinks she looks horrible but as we can see, Michael is still interested. If Stacy agrees to have sex with Michael, she will feel better in the end and the symptoms will eventually decrease. The same goes for headaches.

4. Il richiamo della natura selvaggia

Here’s an interesting one. The concept is simple. Devise a mating call that when one partner imitates it (a certain animal) the other follows them with their own response that implies yes or no. For example, monkeys have a specific mating call. You can implement this sound. It’s funny, amazing and it gets the job done. It’s much simpler and it’s more entertaining to make this sound than just say: Let’s fuck!

But don’t get me wrong. If the situation is just right, the words Voglio scoparti adesso è tutto ciò che serve.

5. Sorprendersi a vicenda

Don’t expect your partner to initiate it every time. You can also contribute by surprising him with new lingerie or by just appearing out of nowhere, naked and giggling, and run to the bedroom. Trust me, he will follow. Also, you can spice up your sex life with some new positions with your partner. You would be surprised how one new position can uplift your desire for future climaxes.

Si possono anche fare dei tagliandi birichini, come ad esempio ‘no panties day’ o solo il numero 69 su un foglio di carta dovrebbe essere sufficiente. Siate creativi!

6. Scegliere una data e un'ora

If all else fails, bring out an old-fashioned calendar, circle a date and write down the time. This might sound disturbing because it ain’t spontaneous and it feels like a chore but this anticipation is what makes you bubble down there, between your legs.

7. Ne ho bisogno di più!

Dovete inculcare nel vostro cervello che il sesso è molto importante per entrambe le parti. Vi aiuta ad affrontare la giornata senza stress, a pensare con chiarezza e a fare tutto ciò che fate dopo, in modo allegro. Le cose che potrebbero avervi stressato prima dell'attività si ridurranno al minimo dopo l'attività. Con questa idea in testa, sarete più propensi a impegnarvi più spesso.

Quindi, uscite e divertitevi. Fate il giro della vostra vita!