Le donne forti hanno bisogno di uomini ancora più forti

Spesso si sente dire che le donne forti intimidiscono gli uomini. Non è vero. Non intimidiscono tutti gli uomini.

Sono solo intimidire chi è più debole di loro.

Il che non è una sorpresa. Gli uomini che parlano e non camminano non hanno nulla da offrire a una donna forte.

They can’t feed her with false promises and shallow stories—at least not for long.

A strong woman demands action and substance. That’s why she needs a man who’ll be even stronger than she is. She needs a man who will give her as much as she’s giving to him.

And let’s face—it she doesn’t need much. But respect, trust, genuine feelings and a proper dosage of affection would suffice. Sadly, most of the time she is missing even that.

She needs to see that the man she is with isn’t scared to pull up his sleeves and build the relationship with her. She doesn’t need him to do all the work. They will invest equally.

Love has to be reciprocated and nurtured, otherwise it’s all in vain. There is no point in forcing things or being the one who pulls most of the weight.

She has already done that. It never works. She doesn’t want to find herself once again in the middle of a relationship she feels lonely in, a relationship in which all her efforts are paid back with half of somebody else’s.

Se chiedete a una donna forte, un uomo che si impegna è il più sexy uomo vivo. Lei ammirerà immediatamente la sua iniziativa e sarà stupita dalla sua perseveranza.

A man who won’t back down at the first obstacle and is willing to get out of his comfort zone and do just a bit more is the right man for her. He will make her feel safe and sound.

He will gradually lower those walls she has built over the years. He will be patient and won’t mind taking it slow. He knows that good things take time.

He will be there to remind her that she doesn’t need to carry everyone’s burden. That from time to time it’s ok to relax, lower the pace and enjoy life.

Tende a essere dura con se stessa ed è il suo peggior critico. Un uomo forte la calmerà.

He will reassure her and tell her that she doesn’t need to be perfect and on top of things all the time.

He will teach her that not everything needs to be planned ahead and scheduled. Sometimes things which are done in the heat of the moment, things you don’t think about doing and you just do, are the best.

Quell'uomo saprà che non chiederebbe mai aiuto, and that’s why he will help without asking her. She is used to leaning on herself, and this will all be unfamiliar.

However, once she gets used to it, it will be like a breath of fresh air, a change for the better which she’s always needed.

Sa che lui è lì per lei anche quando non è fisicamente presente. Durante tutta la sua frenetica giornata, il suo bacio e il suo caldo abbraccio saranno qualcosa che lei attenderà con ansia.

She knows that even when he is around, she is more than able to stand on her own two feet, but that doesn’t make him any less important. She still wholeheartedly wants him in her life.

Lei lo sa:

“Even Superwoman sometimes needed Superman’s soul” (Sia)