Devi amarla nei suoi giorni difficili come in quelli belli

Amatela quando si sveglia e la prima cosa che fa è controllare se siete svegli, baciandovi delicatamente sulle labbra e assicurandosi che ora lo siate.

Love her when she’s having a good day and there’s nothing that can bring her down.

When she’s singing along to her favorite jams, dancing awkwardly (but adorably) and making funny faces, inviting you to join her.

Love her when you’re driving along the highway at night-time, coming back from an unforgettable road trip, and she’s desperately trying to stay up to keep you company while you’re driving but her eyes are slowly giving in… and you realize how much you adore that person right there.

Amarla quando realizza qualcosa di straordinario.

Quando si sa quanto ha lavorato duramente e quanti ostacoli ha dovuto superare, alla fine il lavoro e la dedizione sono stati ripagati e lei è al settimo cielo e salta di gioia.

Amatela quando è sdraiata a letto accanto a voi, con le gambe avvolte intorno a voi, i capelli scompigliati e senza trucco.

Quando è cruda e vulnerabile, ma più che a suo agio nell'essere autentica mentre ti stringe forte.

Love her on the nights out where you’re having so much fun, almost peeing from laughter, enjoying each other’s company like two best buddies, often unable to speak from laughing too much, and then coming home and just looking at each other like only two people in love know how.

Ma sappiate anche che l'amore è più che amare la tua persona when they’re making it all seem so easy and effortless.

L'amore è qualcosa di più che amarli nei loro giorni migliori, quando sono facili da frequentare.

More than ever, you need to love her when she’s going through a funk. When she doesn’t want to wake up in the morning and doesn’t see any point in going about her day.

When she feels like she’s been hit by a train which has left her immobile and without the motivation to get herself in order.

When her mood is nowhere near her usual perky self and she’s taking it out on you.

You need to love her when anxiety gets the best of her and she’s insecure about herself.

Understand that this is something she can’t control but also needs to get out of her system in order to get better.

Don’t retaliate when she starts a fight for no reason. Let her get it all out and drain the negativity from inside her mind by yelling at you for a little while.

You can take It, knowing that she’s going to apologize in a few days when she’s okay again.

She doesn’t like this side of herself any more than you do. Always keep that in mind.

But sometimes it’s going to get the best of her and she’s not going to handle it right. And that’s okay. We all have our crappy days.

Let her have hers and before you know it, you’re going to be back on track.

Love her when she’s out wasted with her girlfriends and calling you to pick her up because she can’t even stand. Don’t lecture her.

She needed this night out to let off some steam and forget about the shit that’s actually making her this anxious.

Love her enough to know that when she tells you to back off and leave her alone, she doesn’t really mean it.

Lasciatele spazio, datele un po' di tempo per uscire da questa situazione di disagio.

She needs to figure out what’s making her this miserable and when she does, she’s going to be okay again and you’re going to be glad you were there by her side.

Quando la vedete in difficoltà di amare se stessae amarla il doppio. Non lasciatela mai essere troppo dura con se stessa, perché sapete quanto questa donna sia davvero straordinaria, gentile e amorevole.

Just because she is unable to see it right now doesn’t mean you should forget about it too. This is when you love her and support her more than ever.

She is tired of feeling this way, too. She needs your strength and understanding that she is not perfect. She is not without flaws and she doesn’t want to be.

È semplicemente un essere umano suscettibile di errori e sta facendo del suo meglio.

Dopo tutto, è la ragazza di cui vi siete innamorati. Ora siate presenti per lei in tutte le sue imperfezioni, proprio come lei lo è per voi.

Love her, hold her and don’t expect what she can’t give you. When needed, give her the benefit of the doubt.

È stanca di cercare di essere perfetta per tutti, lasciatela essere imperfetta con voi.