Mi dispiace per la donna che ti amerà dopo di me

Sapevi che sono sempre stato un po' geloso. Non è una cosa di cui vado fiera, ma è semplicemente quello che sono sempre stata.

When we were together, my biggest fear wasn’t that you’d leave me, it was that you’d find someone else. I could never imagine you being with anyone else but me.

E pensavo che non sarei mai sopravvissuto vedendoti con un'altra donna.

When we broke things off for the last time, I told you I hoped you would never find a woman who’d love you.

E lo ammetto, ero arrabbiato, ferito e deluso quando le ho detto quelle parole.

E speravo, per paura e gelosia, che non sarebbe mai arrivata una donna che ti avrebbe amato come ti amavo io.

But now I am very much aware that a day will come when you’ll find someone. Someone who will love you the way I loved you, even when you are unlovable.

Qualcuno che vi amerà al meglio e al peggio, a prescindere da tutto.

And although this may come as a shock to you, I won’t be jealous of that woman. I won’t hate her and I am not afraid of the idea that she’ll exist one day.

Mi fa pena.

I feel sorry for this woman, whoever she will be, because I know you better than anybody. I know you’ll never change.

And I have no doubt that you’ll make her life a living hell.

In the beginning, she’ll be enchanted by you. She’ll think that all of her dreams are finally coming true.

She’ll think she has found her soulmate, that she has found her true happiness.

You’ll know exactly what to tell her and how to behave to win her over. You’ll say everything she wants to hear, just so you can have her.

You’ll present yourself as a loyal, reliable and trustworthy guy.

And before she realizes, she’ll fall for you. She won’t know that ama un uomo distrutto .

She won’t know what hit her but she won’t be able to control herself around you. She’ll think of you as the perfect guy who has everything she’s been looking for all along.

And the moment you feel that, the moment you feel you have her, you’ll change. Or at least, she’ll think you’ve changed.

But actually, you’ll only be showing her your true self.

It won’t happen overnight but from the moment you see how much she loves you, everything will be different.

All of a sudden, there won’t be a good morning text waiting for her. You’ll stop calling her to see how her day was.

All of a sudden, you’ll be too busy to see her and all of her problems will become irrelevant.

In the beginning, she will be your priority. You’ll leave everything and everyone waiting just so you could go to her whenever she needs you.

But the second she gets used to it, you’ll see it and you’ll change.

Suddenly, she’ll be at the bottom of your priority list and everybody and everything will become more important than her.

Suddenly, she’ll feel like she has to beg for your attention and love.

Quando se ne renderà conto, sarà troppo tardi.

She’ll already love you and she’ll try everything in her power for you to go back to your old ways.

She’ll wonder if there was anything she did for you to become like this.

And she’ll blame herself for every little fight, for every time you look at some other girl, for every time you leave her hanging.

She’ll lose her confidence and she’ll start thinking that she is not enough for you.

Ma non sa che questo è il suo vero volto.

Non saprà mai che avete sempre finto di essere qualcuno che non eravate, finché non avete visto che l'avevate in pugno.

Ed è allora che avete iniziato approfittando di lei È stato allora che hai iniziato a usarla in tutti i modi possibili ed è stato allora che hai iniziato a dare per scontato lei e il suo amore.

È stato allora che avete smesso di impegnarvi.

Little will she know that you’ll never love her in the way every woman deserves to be loved.