Non si può perdere un uomo buono, si può solo perdere un uomo che non era buono per te

Il nostro cuore può ingannarci e farci credere che dovremmo essere felici solo perché stiamo con qualcuno che amiamo.

It’s true that love is the most important thing in life and that is the reason why it should be treated respectfully. And in this case – it wasn’t.

L'amore è molto di più di un'occasionale Ti amo dette per abitudine e per le notti silenziose passate insieme mentre ci si sentiva soli.

It’s so much more than distracting yourself with another movie you didn’t really want to watch or calling your friends over to feel like something is happening.

E che dire dei continui litigi per cose insignificanti? Quando siete diventati improvvisamente così meschini?

You can say to yourself whatever you want but the truth is – he wasn’t the one for you. Something was missing.

If he was the one, you wouldn’t have felt alone and misunderstood while he was right next to you. You wouldn’t have felt like you needed to do something extra special to get his attention.

After some time, you’ll realize you were addicted to the feeling of closeness but not the love itself.

That’s what happens: people get addicted to feelings, to spending time with someone, to the way they make them feel… They get addicted to fantasies about what could have been when the reality is so very different.

You were in love, but your intuition told you something else. It just wasn’t ‘it’.

You had no goal; you weren’t working towards anything. There was no capacity for the love you want and need.

A love that’s not indifferent but loud and proud.

You have every right to have the love you want – it’s not just a fantasy. You can have the love that will make you happy.

Un amore che vi fa sentire gratificati ogni giorno della vostra vita.

Ma prima di tutto questo, per essere soddisfatti di se stessi è necessario accettarsi.

Dovete iniziare a praticare un'accettazione radicale di voi stessi. Siete voi a stabilire lo standard per voi stessi.

It’s about what you want and what’s good for you.

The man for you is out there – but first, you need to be good to yourself.

Quando vi sentite bene con voi stesse, l'uomo che entra nella vostra vita enfatizzerà il vostro splendore.

Remember: relationships are important, but you shouldn’t live for another person – you should live for yourself. Men add to your life, but they don’t make your life.

You should never put your worth in someone else’s hands. Only you can decide your worth and others can realize it or miss out on it – that’s not your problem.

Deep down in your heart you know you’re deserving of true love and you know it exists. You know yourself and what you’re capable of.

You know that there’s someone who will prove that love can be shared and that two people can respect each other without being dependent.

Troverete qualcuno che vi farà sorridere quando meno ve lo aspettate, qualcuno che vi capirà senza parole e vi farà sempre sentire al sicuro.

A man who will accept you as you are without question – because you’ll have nothing to hide.

Vulnerability is the way to experience love but only when you’re in a healthy relationship with yourself.

Don’t be afraid to be honest with yourself, and don’t step back to make someone else comfortable.

Don’t be like me and learn this the hard way. Don’t stay with someone you consider a good man just because everything’s okay. Quindi, cosa succede se è un buon uomo?

That still doesn’t mean he’s good for you.

You know what you need and don’t wait for it to come to you.

La cosa migliore da fare è stare sempre dalla propria parte.