Perdonarsi per aver amato la persona sbagliata

If you don’t hold grudges against anyone, why are you holding them against yourself? If you’re able to forgive the people around you for doing things unintentionally, why can’t you forgive yourself? You didn’t know he was going to hurt you.

You didn’t know he would take you for granted. You didn’t know!

Quindi, perdonate voi stessi per innamorarsi della persona sbagliata.

No one will tell you that they’re messed up when they meet you. No one will tell you all about their faults, flaws or demons when they meet you.

And no one will tell you that their love is not the love for you. And there’s no way knowing if you don’t give it a chance.

And I know that you hate yourself for giving the wrong people chances, I know you’re angry with yourself for staying with the wrong people.

But you’re not a quitter and you never have been. When you love, you love wholeheartedly. And when you choose someone, you do it every single day with your entire being.

And that’s what makes you so special, that’s what makes you so amazing.

Non lasciate mai che le persone sbagliate ve lo portino via, perché quelle giuste sono dietro l'angolo del vostro cuore spezzato.

Perdonare se stessi per essersi fidati delle persone sbagliate.

Non sai mai chi si giocherà la tua fiducia e chi la terrà al sicuro. Non sai mai chi ti rispetterà per esserti fidato di loro e chi ti tratterà come uno stupido.

But imagine how sad and lonely your life would’ve been if you had pushed everyone away and held it all inside yourself.

Imagine how pressured you would have felt and how fed up you would’ve been. Let it all go and let it all out.

Ci saranno sempre persone che vi mostreranno che la fiducia è difficile, ma ci saranno anche persone che vi mostreranno che they’re worthy della vostra fiducia.

Perdonare se stessi per aver fatto entrare le persone sbagliate.

Quando si lascia entrare qualcuno, si confida che terrà al sicuro il proprio cuore. Quando lasci entrare qualcuno, gli permetti di vedere le parti più profonde e oscure di te.

And sometimes it doesn’t work out. Sometimes they don’t know how to hold you, sometimes they don’t know how to share silence with you. And sometimes they don’t want to learn.

Ma ci saranno persone che saranno onorate di tenerti in braccio di notte. Ci saranno persone che saranno onorate di amarti e di ascoltare il battito del tuo cuore.

Ci sarà qualcuno che vi bacerà sulla fronte e vi sembrerà che abbia baciato la vostra anima.

Qualcuno che vedrà tutti i vostri difetti e li bacerà comunque. Qualcuno che vi aiuterà a raccogliere tutti i vostri pezzi rotti e a baciarli insieme. Perdonate voi stessi per aver lasciato entrare le persone sbagliate, in modo da poter dare una possibilità a quelle giuste.

Perdonare se stessi per aver amato la persona sbagliata.

I know it hurts, I know you feel stupid for loving someone so bad. I know you’re angry for letting yourself fall for someone so shallow and mean. But you didn’t know. And don’t let him hurt you any longer.

Don’t let his toxic words poison you any longer. Let them go, let him go. Forgive yourself for loving an idiot, because it taught you something much more valuable.

It taught you that it’s not love if it hurts. It taught you that there is a bunch of assholes out there who are only interested in playing with your emotions and heart.

Vi ha insegnato che ci sono psicopatici, fuckboys and shit-boys who don’t know how to love. But just because they don’t know how, it doesn’t mean you’re not worth it.

So, don’t deny yourself the chance of meeting someone who will be everything you ever needed and everything you never thought you needed, because you’re still mad at yourself.

Don’t let all those idiots from your past chase away your happiness.

Lasciateli al loro posto e date fuoco a tutto. Vi meritate di più che rimanere bloccati nel passato con le persone sbagliate.

Look to the future with the right ones. Even if you have to be the One for yourself, it’s still better than lost in the past.