La fidanzata perfetta è un mix di una stronza alfa e di un buon cuore

Quando si sente la frase "alpha b*tch" ci si sente un po' intimiditi, non è vero?

You instantly get the picture of a woman that just doesn’t give a damn about you and that rolls the way she, and only she, wants.

On the other hand when you hear ‘an alpha b*tch with a good heart’, you’re left confused. It doesn’t really fit, does it?

So, what’s the catch?

La b*tch alfa è questa bella e popolare, donna intimidatoria e sicura di sé che ha delle cose da fare nella sua vita da sola.

When being observed by somebody unknown, one could argue she’s the best kind of woman out there, but the worst girlfriend material. But once you get to really know her, she’s not so bad.

Alpha personality is something you develop through the years—some might even be born with it—and eventually, it grows to be a part of you.

Lavorate duramente per stare in piedi con entrambi i piedi nella vita, e poi arriva un uomo che vi chiede di abbandonare tutto e di dedicare il vostro tempo solo a lui?

Well, anybody would’ve screamed f*ck off immediately. Maybe that’s the reason alpha women are considered to be self-centered.

La realtà è molto diversa.

Lei è 100% sincera con chi è. She doesn’t hide her strong personality and she doesn’t fake that she needs you.

She doesn’t pretend to be weaker just so you’d fall for her. She’s the one to hold the saddle strap of her life and nobody else gets to do that for her.

È indipendente, ma può comunque contare su di voi.

She won’t be scared to cry on your shoulder when she has the need.

It’s the same with being strong—if she welcomed you into her life as the man she loves, she won’t hide nor her strength nor her weakness in front of you.

She’ll challenge you to be a better man. She’ll throw all these little hints trying to lead you to the better version of yourself.

She’ll constantly grow and she’ll be the one to pull you up with her.

Sometimes, it seems like she’s a pain in the ass, that she demands so many things from you and that you’ve reached your limit, but you’ll never break.

Perché she’ll be there to help you.

 

 

She won’t let you accontentarsi di meno nella vita perché ha un buon cuore e si preoccupa per voi.

Vive nella corsia di sorpasso e ha un sacco di cose da fare.. She’ll never settle for being an average person and she is the one to always strive for more.

But that’s what’ll keep you interested. You’ll be the one to run with her and you’ll have so much fun.

Essere una persona passiva non sarà mai un'opzione per voi.

Non avrà mai bisogno di voi. Niente di ciò che avete da offrire è irraggiungibile per lei. There isn’t a thing she can’t do without you in this world.

You don’t need to pay her bills, you don’t have to fight her battles, and she can live without you. She will never need you, ma lei ti vorrà.

Vorrà il vostro amore e tutto ciò che avete da offrire perché le rendete la vita più bella. She will never need you, but she will want you and she’ll make sure you know you’re worthy of her.

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She won’t give up on important things in life. You might think her career is the only thing she’ll try to keep in life, but that’s where you’re wrong.

It’s not the career she wants to keep, it’s everything. She’s capable of keeping whatever she pleases in her life.

And if you are important to her, she’ll do everything to prove you that your place is next to her. She won’t be the one to break your heart.

She’s extremely loyal so there won’t be any need for your jealous scenes. Just because she’s surrounded by a bunch of men, it doesn’t mean she wants them.

She wants you and she’ll make everyone aware of that. She won’t be scared to be perceived as weak for loving a man—instead, she’ll be proud of it.

You know what else? She’ll beat her enemies with something even better—she’ll never hit as low as they do.

She won’t let herself go. She knows what self-respect is and how important it is and she’ll never let it go.

She’ll always stay true to herself and she’ll expect nothing more or less from you. She’ll let you be yourself if you let her be herself.

If you don’t try to tame her, she’ll know how to return the favor.

You don’t need to worry about her—she can do it herself perfectly. What you need to do is love her and let her be her.

Only then will you get the chance to see who she really is. Every night, you’ll thank God for creating her the way she is and you’ll pat yourself on the back for knowing how to love an alpha woman.

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