30 modi per far sentire una ragazza speciale (e innamorarsi di voi)

Volete dimostrarle quanto sia straordinariamente speciale per voi? Volete farle sapere quanto è bella e unica dentro e fuori?

Do you want to show her your utter appreciation, but you’re not sure how?

Don’t worry. It’s totally understandable. Your wish to farla sentire speciale is making you feel anxious because you’re afraid that whatever you do, it won’t be good enough.

But the truth is that it’s not at all difficult to make a girl feel special, and I’ll explain to you why.

If you’re wondering how to make a girl feel special, there is only one thing you need to remember and that is: Le piccole cose sono quelle che contano di più. Che cosa significa?

Significa che la vostra ragazza non si aspetta miracoli da voi, come molti uomini potrebbero pensare.

Le piccole cose fanno accadere grandi cose. La farete sentire davvero speciale con gesti dolci e facendo tutte quelle piccole cose che le ricorderanno quanto è bella e unica. Remember that you’ll make her feel special by doing all of it regularly.

Ascoltarla semplicemente, chiederle la sua opinione su certi argomenti, farle un massaggio, dirle quanto è bella con quel vestito sono alcune delle cose che le faranno battere il cuore e la faranno sorridere.

And what’s more beautiful in the world than seeing your girl truly happy and knowing that you’re the one who deserves the credit for doing so?

And what’s even more awesome than having everything you need on the list below!? Here are 30 awesome ways to show your girl she’s the most precious miracle in your life!

30 MODI PER FAR SENTIRE SPECIALE UNA RAGAZZA (E FARLA INNAMORARE DI VOI)

1. Trovare il tempo per lei

This one isn’t rocket science, and it means so much to the fairer sex.

Making time for her shouldn’t even be arguable. This is something that should come naturally to all men.

Quando si vuole far sentire speciale una donna, basta trovare il tempo per lei.

Indipendentemente da quanto sia fitta la vostra agenda o da quanto ci sia sulla vostra lista di cose da fare quel giorno, trovare del tempo per la vostra donna dovrebbe essere qualcosa di scontato.

2. Rendetela la vostra priorità

This one goes together with making time for her, and it’s also something that should go without saying.

Se volete che la vostra ragazza si senta speciale, fate in modo che lei è la tua prioritàe assicuratevi che lo sappia.

If you’ve already welcomed her into your life and you want to be an important part of hers as well, then you should come at the top of each other’s priority list.

Regardless of what happens, if you’re planning something serious with her in your life and if you’re planning to tie her to yourself, then she should always come first in your life.

That being said, you should also know that nothing will make her feel special more than knowing she’s #1 in your life. 

3. Accettare il suo

Ma accettarla davvero. Accettatela per quello che è. Accettatela con tutte le sue perfezioni e imperfezioni.

Accettare tutti i suoi gusti e le sue antipatie. Tutti i suoi difetti e i suoi piccoli rituali. Accettate veramente tutto ciò che lei porta nella vostra relazione.

Don’t just take her good sides. Take those you normally wouldn’t like.

Accept her wholly, not just parts of her and her personality that others might not. That’s how you show her she’s special to you.

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4. Don’t try to change her

Non cercare di cambiarla significa accettarla.

There will probably be things about her that you won’t like or things that you’d like to see. But just because you are portraying her in a certain way doesn’t mean that’s her truth.

So if she isn’t something you’d like her to be, don’t try to make her change. Leave her the way she is, and love her the way she is. That’s the way to make her feel special.

5. Apprezzarla

Never let a day pass by where you don’t notice all the things she does for you. Never let a day pass by that you don’t thank her for everything she does.

Apprezzate i suoi sforzi e notate sempre le piccole cose che fa per voi due.

By simply saying, “Thank you for doing that for me,” it will make her feel like the most special woman in the world.

6. Prestare attenzione a lei

If you think she’ll feel special if you neglect her, then you’re mistaken. No sane woman falls for those kinds of giochi mentali, sai.

Se volete far sentire la vostra ragazza speciale, prestatele attenzione.

Pay attention to her feelings, listen to what she’s saying to you and, most importantly, look carefully at what she’s showing you.

7. Cercare di camminare nei suoi panni

Non c'è niente che la faccia sentire più speciale del vedere il suo uomo che si sforza di capire il suo punto di vista.

Quindi, qualsiasi cosa accada tra voi due, qualsiasi cosa faccia, prima di decidere di fare qualcosa, prima di giudicarla, assicuratevi di vedere tutto dalla sua prospettiva.

Here, you’ll need to cultivate compassion, and show her that you feel whatever she’s feeling.

Never dismiss her feelings easily or take them lightly. She has a reason to feel the way she’s feeling, so hold her hand through whatever she’s going through.

8. Essere presente per lei alla fine di una giornata difficile.

I’m not saying she can’t fight her battles alone, but we all need someone’s shoulder to lean our head on after a hard day.

If you want to make her feel special, then be her safe haven. Be someone she knows she can count on. Be someone who won’t ask questions or make her feel worse when she tells him what happened.

Be someone with whom she’ll be able to enjoy the silence, someone with whom she’ll recharge her batteries, and someone who will send her a paragrafo "buona notte.

9. Interessarsi alla sua vita

If you really like this girl and want her to fall for you, you can’t do that by not knowing what’s going on in her life. So, show some interest.

Siate sinceramente interessati alle cose che le piacciono, alle cose che renderla felicenel suo futuro e in tutto ciò che la ispira.

Ask her how her day was, what her plans are for the next day, month, year or her entire life. If this doesn’t make her feel special, I don’t know what will.

10. Ascoltare i suoi problemi

Perhaps there will be things that aren’t so big of an issue, but to her, those things may be the heaviest burdens she has ever carried on her shoulders.

So before you say how it’s not that big of a deal, listen to what she has to say.

Make sure you’re the first person she’ll come to when she has a problem, and make sure she knows she has someone who’ll help her no matter how much she messes up or what happens.

If you want to make her feel special, then make sure she knows she isn’t alone in her mess.

11. Don’t let her down

L'ultima cosa che vorreste fare se volete far sentire la vostra ragazza speciale è deluderla.

She should know that you would never do anything on purpose that would make her feel bad. So show her you won’t ever hurt her, and be there when you say you’ll be there.

Don’t make promises you won’t be able to keep, and don’t turn your back on her when she needs you the most.

12. Essere un uomo adulto

Don’t play games with her. Don’t do things immature men or boys do. Admit your feelings to her.

Lift her when she falls. Stick to your word. Don’t keep your options open.

Take responsibility for your actions. And if you really want to make her special, treat her like a lady. Show her that you’re materiale del ragazzo.

13. Tieni gli occhi su di lei

Always keep your eyes on her. This can’t be stressed enough. The proudest woman is one who can say with confidence that her man only has eyes for her.

When you’re out together, don’t flirt with the waitress. Don’t check out other women, and don’t compare your girl with other girls.

Il modo migliore per farla sentire speciale è dimostrarle che avete occhi solo per lei.

14. Make sure she knows she’s the only one

When you really want to make her feel special, you don’t keep other options open.

Se la vuoi davvero, concentrati solo sul conquistarla e sul farla sentire speciale.

If you’re texting other girls and going out with other women, if you’re still online on dating sites, how could you possibly make her feel special?

Do it right, and show her she’s the only one. Remind her that she’s the one you want to be with and that she is truly special to you. Don’t just talk about it, do it.

15. Vecchio stile non è troppo smielato

Holding doors or opening them for her, paying attention to which side of the sidewalk she’s on, buying her roses, kissing her on the forehead or on the hand will never get outdated.

Bringing breakfast in bed, cooking for her, holding her hand in public and other things aren’t cheesy—they are the tools that will help you make her feel special.

16. Mostrare affetto pubblicamente

If you’re going to make her feel special when you two are on your own and then pretend like she doesn’t exist in public, then don’t bother doing it at all.

Ok, alcune cose dovrebbero rimanere private, ma il fatto che vi piaccia dovrebbe essere gridato pubblicamente.

Not only will you be telling the world how you feel about her, but you’ll also make her feel special if you take her hand in public, if you stand close to her, if you buy her drink or if you proudly introduce her as your girlfriend to your friends or other people you know.

17. Sforzarsi di andare d'accordo con gli amici e la famiglia.

If you really want to be different and special in her eyes, then it’s up to you to make things work between you and her friends and family.

Most likely those will be the people she cares about the most in her life, and by getting along with them, you’ll be showing her how special she is to you and how much she means to you.

18. Essere aperti e onesti

Se volete che sappia qual è la sua posizione nella vostra vita, dovete creare un posto speciale solo per lei.

You need to welcome her, and make sure she knows she isn’t just a fling. She needs to know that you’re always going to be upfront with her regarding everything and that you won’t lie to her.

Welcome her into your world, and open up to her. Tell her things you’ve never told anyone else. Show her you trust her. That’s how you make her feel special.

19. Farle i complimenti

But don’t let it be those compliments that anyone could give her. Make sure you compliment the things nobody else sees. Something that makes her special in your eyes.

E cercate di farlo anche quotidianamente. Questo rafforzerà sicuramente il suo ego e la farà sentire speciale.

20. Dille cosa ti piace di lei

Maybe you love how she bites her lip when she’s nervous or how she turns her head when she’s shy. Maybe you love her passion or you admire her kindness.

Whatever it might be, make sure you don’t keep it to yourself. Feel free to say out loud all the things that only you like about her.

21. Darle piccoli segni di affetto

Forse potete iniziare ricordando quali sono le canzoni che le piacciono di più e creare una playlist solo per lei nella vostra auto.

Anche postare di tanto in tanto una storia con lei farà il suo dovere.

Di tanto in tanto, compratele piccole cose come cioccolato o rose. Vantarsi di lei con gli altri. Organizzate appuntamenti. Fate di tutto per farla sentire speciale.

22. Ricordare le occasioni speciali

Never forget her birthday, and if you’re a person with a bad memory, then just keep a list of all important things and dates.

Surprise her for Valentine’s Day, remember when and where you first kissed her, don’t forget the date when you started the relationship, and always do something to celebrate those days.

23. Sorprenderla

It doesn’t have to be anything big, but organizing a romantic dinner here and there, sending her a storia romantica della buonanotte, having your room filled with candles and your bed with roses or buying her a bag or a dress she’s been talking about for a long time will do the job, too.

And I don’t even have to talk about a romantic getaway or a picnic under the stars. It might be from a movie seen too many times, but it always works!

24. Invia il suo primo messaggio

Don’t be one of those guys who waits before they double-text or those who wait for girls to prima il testo.

Assicuratevi che il vostro nome sia la prima cosa che vede sul suo schermo al mattino.

Mandatele un messaggio solo per sapere com'è andata la giornata o per dirle quanto è meravigliosa e quanto siete fortunati ad averla nella vostra vita.

25. Don’t forget the love notes

Stickers on the mirror, a small letter on her pillow, a message you tuck into her pocket while she isn’t watching or sending an email that tells her how much you love her will make her feel like she’s the only woman in this world.

26. Baciarla

As much as you can, as often as you can and wherever you can. Just a small, gentle kiss on her cheek, a kiss on the shoulder, a hug from the back and a kiss on the neck in front of everyone or when you’re on your own will mean the world to her.

Non lasciate che il vostro affetto si esaurisca e non lasciatela mai andare a dormire senza un vostro bacio.

27. Essere coerenti

Have something that’s special only for the two of you. It can be a cute goodnight message.

It can be a special coffee shop you go to every week, whatever you want, but something that will remind her of you even when you’re away.

28. Parlare del futuro

Questo è il modo migliore per far sentire la vostra ragazza speciale. Sapere che state progettando un futuro con lei e che volete vederla accanto a voi nei giorni a venire è un sussurro silenzioso del fatto che lei è davvero una persona speciale per voi.

That she’s the person you’re planning to spend your life with.

29. Chiedere la sua opinione sulle decisioni

Rendetela partecipe delle vostre lotte, decisioni e scelte quotidiane. Chiedete la sua opinione su ogni questione, perché volete davvero sentire cosa ha da dire.

Appreciate her opinion and thank her for being there for you just as you’re being there for her. By making her a part of your life, you will make her feel truly special.

30. Dille quanto la apprezzi per la persona che è.

Dille che sei innamorato pazzo di tutte le sue stranezze e i suoi difetti.

Dille che le sue imperfezioni sono ciò che la rende perfetta ai tuoi occhi e che non deve mai cambiare.

Fatele sapere quanto apprezzate tutto ciò che porta in tavola e quanto amate ogni singolo, piccolo pezzo del suo essere dentro e fuori.

If you do that, you will make her feel like she’s the only girl in the world, and there is nothing more special than that.

This list of obvious signs shows that you don’t need much to make a woman feel special.

To be honest, these are all the things a man who’s truly in love would be willing to do on his own.

Sono tutte cose che dovrebbero venirgli naturali. E queste sono tutte le cose che ogni donna merita di ottenere nella vita.

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