6 motivi per cui non dovreste mai riprendervi un traditore
It’s so hard to find a faithful partner because it’s easier to cheat and hope the other one doesn’t find out than to talk to your significant other and tell them you are not happy or that you have a problem and you want to solve it.
La maggior parte dei miei amici è stata tradita almeno una volta nella vita, che loro sappiano.
And I always told them the same thing: “You can forgive him, but things are never going to be the same.”
And it’s true. You will never be able to forget what he did to you.
Every time he touches you and kisses you, you’ll know that he touched and kissed her, too. You’ll know that you weren’t the only one.
Living with that burden is not easy, and no matter how sorry he was, he couldn’t be sorry enough.
Non c'è assolutamente nessuna scusa che possa giustificare le sue azioni. E quello che alcune donne fanno dopo questo tradimento definitivo è riprendersi il suo culo dispiaciuto.
They do it because they love him and despite the horrible thing he has done, they still didn’t stop loving him.
But, don’t do that mistake because things are never going to be the same. Your love for him will change and it will fade.
Ecco i motivi per cui non dovreste mai riprendere un traditore:
1. He doesn’t love you enough
I know this is hard to hear, but it’s true. If he loved you the way you deserve, he wouldn’t have cheated on you.
It wouldn’t even have crossed his mind because you would have been more than enough. This way, he offended you and showed you he doesn’t respect you.
That is not love. Don’t fall for the mind game of convincing you that it’s your fault because you didn’t give him enough attention or you didn’t fulfil his needs.
There is a cure for that and it’s called ‘communication’. Too bad for him for not trying it sooner—now it’s too late.
2. Lo farà di nuovo
Se rimanete con lui, crederà inconsciamente che ciò che ha fatto non è poi così grave perché lo avete perdonato.
La sua mentalità cambierà e inizierà a fare cose che probabilmente ti feriranno perché gli hai dimostrato che puoi superare cose come questa.
That’s why he will probably do it again. He will cheat on you and turn you into an emotional wreck because he knows he can. He knows you love him and you will get over things which you wouldn’t normally.
3. Vi ha messo in imbarazzo
When he chose to cheat on you, he did it willingly and on purpose—which means that he hurt you on purpose.
His deed showed that he doesn’t respect you and maybe even thinks that you are too dumb to find out he was cheating on you.
He didn’t care what other people think. He didn’t care that others might have known of his infidelity and they laughed behind your back, or felt sorry for you, but no one ever had the guts to say it to your face.
He didn’t care for any of that. He embarrassed you and moved on with his life. Do you want to live like the woman who was played for a fool and took him back?
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4. Non lo dimenticherete mai
Può essere il vostro più grande amore, può essere il vostro mondo, ma sarà anche il ragazzo che vi ha tradito.
Sarà l'uomo che ha tradito la vostra fiducia, ha agito alle vostre spalle e si è preso gioco di voi. È una cosa che non dimenticherete mai.
You can try, you can pretend, but the moment he goes out and doesn’t text you back, you will be wondering if he is with another woman again.
Ricorderai tutto quello che ti ha fatto. Come quando ti sei ubriacata così tanto da cadere nel bar.
It wasn’t your proudest moment, but you will remember it forever. You will remember him cheating on you forever and it will bother you every minute of every day.
5. Non c'è più fiducia
His act only shows he didn’t give a shit about you. He was too selfish to take your feelings into consideration. It’s not like he didn’t have a choice.
Avete sempre una scelta e ha scelto di imprimere sul tuo cuore and break it. He chose to cheat on you—he didn’t think twice about it.
How can you be sure he won’t do it again? How can you be sure when he goes somewhere that he is not cheating on you again. You can’t. You know what they say, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”
6. Meritate di più
If a guy betrays your trust and does something like this to you, let’s face it—he doesn’t deserve you.
Quindi, perché sprecare il proprio tempo con una persona del genere? Perché sprecare il vostro tempo per cercare di renderlo migliore, per portarlo sulla retta via?
He will never change and he chose it to be like that. If he had cared, he wouldn’t have cheated.
Quell'uomo non vale i vostri sforzi o le vostre lacrime. Ci sono milioni di altre persone che ti terrebbero al sicuro tra le loro braccia, proteggendoti da tutto. Non gli passerebbe mai per la testa di farvi del male come ha fatto lui.
Don’t waste another minute of your life on a cheater because if he did it once, he will do it again. Period.
