Se una ragazza vi tratta come un re senza anello, non prendetela per buona
Siamo onesti: non hai mai dato a questa ragazza molti motivi per amarti.
Non le hai mai promesso di passare il resto della tua vita con lei, non le hai mai dimostrato di essere completamente impegnato con lei e non le hai mai dato la sicurezza di cui ha bisogno.
You have never shown her that you are all in—that she can count on you through good and bad days, through sickness and health and through thick and thin.
You have never given her assurance, something to help her know that she’s the one for you.
Non vi siete mai assicurati che questa ragazza sappia che siete entrati nella sua vita con il intenzione di rimanere—that she isn’t a temporary girl you’ll turn your back on the second someone more convenient comes along.
Non l'avete mai trattata come la vostra priorità numero uno o non le avete mai dimostrato quanto sia importante per voi.
Tuttavia, in qualche modo, questa ragazza ha trovato la forza di amarvi come nessun altro.
Despite the fact that you don’t try around her the way you should, she is still putting all of her efforts into this relationship, trying to make it work.
And the best part is that she isn’t looking for anything in return. She doesn’t expect you to change overnight and to become the man you are not.
She doesn’t need your gratitude and she doesn’t want you to spoil her because she doesn’t consider her behavior extraordinary—she is convinced that this is just the way a girl should treat the man she loves.
Tuttavia, il minimo che tu possa fare è apprezzarla.
If nothing else, you could show her that you respect her love, her sacrifices and everything she’s doing for you.
Because trust me—this girl is one of a kind. I know you assume that you’ll find another her around the corner, if it happens that you lose her.
Che è solo una ragazza di passaggio nella vostra vita e che è facilmente sostituibile.
You might think that she doesn’t feel unwanted just because she isn’t some drama queen who demands to be the center of your universe.
That she doesn’t need you giving her back all the love you’ve been getting from her just because she isn’t needy and desperate.
That she doesn’t feel emotionally neglected just because she doesn’t go around begging for your love.
Remember this—just because this girl has dignity and just because she is proud enough not to chase you to give her what she deserves, it doesn’t mean that she is foolish.
It doesn’t mean that she doesn’t see that she deserves much more and it definitely doesn’t mean that one of these days, she won’t stancarsi di rimanere al tuo fianco.
Sì, siete convinti che non ci sia nulla che possiate fare per farle smettere di amarla.
That she’ll never leave your side, no matter what happens and that you can spend eternity playing these toxic mind games with her.
Well, guess what? You couldn’t be more wrong. The truth is that this girl is one in a million.
Che she is someone you can’t afford letting go e che nessun'altra donna ti sopporterebbe come fa lei.
Sì, è forte e autosufficiente, ma ha anche un'incredibile capacità di amare.
Most importantly—she knows how to love YOU. And let’s face it—you are anything but easy to love.
Quindi, cosa stai aspettando esattamente per cambiare strada e vedere il suo valore?
Che cos'altro deve succedere perché lei rinsavisca e guardi le cose in modo realistico?
Why do you keep on taking her for granted, as if she’ll remain by your side forever?
Why do you continue treating her like shit, as if she’ll never get tired of your immature behavior?
Why don’t you finally start appreciating her presence before you are forced to feel her absence?
Why don’t you see what you have in time before you are forced to realize what you’ve lost?
Credetemi quando vi dico che non avete più tempo, perché uno di questi giorni sarà troppo tardi.
One of these days, she’ll realize that you’re not worth the trouble and she will walk away from you.
E quando prende la decisione di dire la sua addio definitivo, there won’t be anything you could do to change her mind.
