Se ci tenesse davvero a te, si comporterebbe come tale

So che sei pazza di questo ragazzo. E naturalmente l'unica cosa che vuoi è che lui provi lo stesso sentimento per te. Desiderate che lui vi ami allo stesso modo in cui voi amate lui.

But your hope blinds you from seeing the reality. This false hope is causing you to lie to yourself and to see things that aren’t actually there.

Because if you look at things realistically, you’ll see the truth. And the truth is that this guy actually acts like he doesn’t give a damn about you. And if he treats you like he doesn’t care, you better start believing him.

So please, stop getting your hopes up and lying to yourself that this man has feelings for you. Look the truth in the eye and accept that if he truly cared about you, he’d act like it.

Please, stop justifying him mistreating you. Stop making false excuses even you don’t believe in, just to justify his behavior and his lack of emotions.

Stop convincing yourself that he is just emotionally unavailable right now and that things will change the moment he senses the depth of your love. That he lost faith in love and that you just have to prove to him that romance isn’t dead.

Stop telling yourself that he is just playing hard to get to make you fall for him even more. That he pretends to be this tough guy who doesn’t want to express his emotions or show you his vulnerability.

Smettete di convincervi che in realtà ha solo paura di quanto gli piacete e che sta scappando dalle sue emozioni. Che sia troppo timido per essere se stesso e che voi dobbiate essere pazienti con lui.

Smettete di convincervi che quest'uomo è emotivamente rotto or damaged and that you’ll be his savior. That you’ll be the one to heal his broken heart and make him fall for you.

Stop telling yourself that he is treating you this way because he has trust issues and because he’s been hurt in the past. That he just needs time to open up to you completely.

Smettete di convincervi che, in fondo, quest'uomo vi ama a modo suo, in modo speciale. Che questa è la sua capacità massima e che questo è solo il suo modo di essere.

Stop dissecting his every move and analyzing his every word in the search for emotions that simply don’t exist. Smettete di cercare un significato nascosto nei piccoli gesti del suo affetto e di scambiarlo per vero amore. Smettete di cercare indizi nei suoi segnali contrastanti e nei suoi giochi mentali.

If he wanted to call you, there doesn’t exist an earthly power which could stop him from doing so. If he wanted to see you, he would do so, no matter how tired or busy he is.

Perché in realtà le cose sono piuttosto semplici: se quest'uomo volesse stare con te, lo farebbe. Se vi amasse, ve lo dimostrerebbe.

Because a man who loves you for real will never play with your mind. His feelings will always be clear and he’ll always be completely honest about them. This man will never make you second-guess him and he’ll never leave you wondering.

You’ll never have to ask yourself whether this man really cares about you or if you are just imagining things. You’ll never have to decode his texts and phone calls, trying to read through his intentions and trying to find a sign of his emotions for you.

Quando un uomo ti ama davvero, you’ll never have to search for that love under layers of his indifference. Because you’ll be able to see it and to feel it in every second of every day, with every atom of your body and soul.

Stop lying to yourself and accept the bitter truth. This man doesn’t love you, never did and never will.

E sapete perché dovreste farlo?

Because you are better than that. And you deserve more than to settle for someone who doesn’t give you the love you deserve or need. And because you are strong enough to look the truth in the eye, no matter how harsh or painful it might get.