Se la ami davvero, non distruggerla

Quando una donna apre il suo cuore all'amore grazie a voi, sta uscendo dalla sua zona di comfort.

Ignora tutte le sue paure e insicurezze e decide di fidarsi di voi, a prescindere da tutto.

She tears down the walls around her heart which she’s been building for years and she lets you in all the way, even though she promised not to do that ever again.

She decides to put her faith in you and to believe that you won’t do her any harm.

Quando una donna ti ama, per quanto sia forte e autosufficiente, ti sta anche dando molto potere su se stessa.

Ti sta dando tutta se stessa e con questo ti sta dando la possibilità di spezzare il suo cuore.

IIn un certo senso, ti sta dando l'opportunità di ferirla e di rovinarla.

And it is just up to you if you’ll take that chance. It is up to you if you’ll use her and take advantage of the fact that she is wearing her heart on her sleeve.

Sta a voi decidere se amerete davvero questa donna. But just remember one thing—you don’t destroy the ones you love.

Quindi, per favore, don’t break her heart if you love her. Because she’s been through something like that in the past and she couldn’t stand having another heartbreak.

Don’t make her beg for your attention. Se la amate, dimostratele la profondità del vostro amore.

Don’t make her feel unloved or unwanted. Don’t ruin her confidence and don’t ever compare her to other girls.

Se la amate, trattatela come se fosse l'unica donna con cui potreste stare.

Dimostratele che vedete quanto sia unica e speciale e che siete orgogliosi di avere accanto a voi una donna così.

Don’t treat her like your last resort because she will always put you first. This girl ought to be your priority and the last thing she deserves is to be treated like a second choice.

Please, don’t make her feel like your last resort or safety net.

Don’t expect her to deal with your emotional baggage. Don’t expect her to be your personal savior and the one who will fix you, while you break her.

Don’t treat her like a rebound relationship because she is much more than that.

Don’t treat her like qualcosa di temporaneo. Quando questa ragazza fa entrare qualcuno, vuole che duri per tutta la vita.

She isn’t looking for just a good time and she isn’t looking for meaningless relationships. Instead, she wants you to love all of her.

She wants you to be her partner in every sense of that word and if this is something you can’t offer her, please walk away in time, before you enter her heart completely.

Don’t play games with her perché lei capirà subito le vostre intenzioni.

No, she won’t think of you as the bigger man if you pretend to be this tough guy who is incapable of loving because that will only chase her away.

Don’t try to send her mixed signals because she doesn’t have the time or the energy to waste on decoding you and your actions. Just be honest with her.

There is no need for you to hold back your emotions or to hide your vulnerable side because I promise you that she’ll never use them against you.

Don’t allow her to be l'unico che ci prova. If you love her, make her feel that love. Show her that you care because it is the only way she’ll believe you.

This girl won’t justify you for not treating her right because she knows that your love is shown through your efforts around her.

Don’t make her chase you. Because she never will. And it doesn’t have anything to do with the fact that she doesn’t give a damn about you.

Vedete, questa ragazza conosce il suo valore e non permetterebbe mai a qualcuno di umiliarla facendola implorare per il suo amore.

Don’t try to control her and don’t try to manipulate her because she knows who she is and she knows she doesn’t need you, even though she loves you.

She’s worked hard to become the woman she is today and she won’t let anyone change her.

E soprattutto, if you love her, don’t ever let her go. Because trust me—this is the girl you find once in a lifetime.

A girl like no other and a girl you’ll be searching for in every other woman, if you happen to lose her.

So please, do your best to keep her around. Because if you do, she’ll show you what it means to be loved and she’ll show you that she is worth it.