Se non vuole stare con te, non costringerlo a restare

Mettete giù il telefono. Don’t send that text. Don’t make that call.

Don’t ask him to come over. Don’t beg him to talk to you. He doesn’t deserve your efforts.

Wipe away your tears. Don’t waste them on him.

Stop fighting so hard to keep him by your side. There’s no need to do that. You are just going to exhaust all your emotions.

Let him be. Let him go. If he comes after you, if he matches your efforts, maybe there’s still something there. Maybe you still have a chance. If he doesn’t, then it was never meant to be.

And I know it’s easier said than done, but there is only one truth when it comes to love—love shouldn’t be forced.

You shouldn’t go to such lengths to make someone see you. You shouldn’t beg for his time. You shouldn’t be deprived of his affection.

Keeping in touch shouldn’t be so damn hard. Being there for you shouldn’t be an obligation. It should be something he does willingly.

You can’t make him ready for a true and committed relationship if he isn’t there yet.

You won’t do yourself or him any favors by waiting. He might never be ready, and you will end up waiting for forever. You will be stuck in a bad relationship in which you lack so much.

You shouldn’t hold your breath that things will change either. You shouldn’t hope that he will treat you better and pay more attention to your needs.

You shouldn’t hope that he will become more invested in your relationship or more present. He was supposed to do those things and be that man a long time ago. If nothing changed so far, it never will.

You shouldn’t become a different person to farlo affezionare a voi . Dovrebbe amarvi e amarvi così come siete.

Dovrebbe accettarvi come avete fatto con lui, con tutti i suoi difetti e le sue virtù.

Love isn’t about making pieces fit; it’s about those pieces coming together naturally.

It’s so simple and so true, but we forget about the natural and effortless course of things. We forget that love comes from both sides. We forget to take because we are so used to giving.

Love shouldn’t be hard. It shouldn’t feel like a never-ending battle that we always end up losing. It shouldn’t bring us more tears than laughter. That’s just not right.

It’s just that we sometimes become so wrapped up in the idea of love that we really start thinking that love involves pain and suffering.

Vogliamo che le cose funzionino così tanto che accettiamo tutto ciò che possiamo ottenere, anche se si tratta solo di pezzi di ciò che meritiamo e di cui abbiamo bisogno.

It shouldn’t be like that, and you will realize that once you find your forever person.

Capirete perché tutto è dovuto andare in questo modo. Vedrete che avete dovuto baciare qualche rana prima di trovare il vostro principe.

You will see that love, when it’s real, simply flows.

Quando l'amore è reale, siete entrambi pronti. Si dà e si riceve. Ci si incontra a metà strada senza bisogno di forzare nulla.

Quando due persone si amano, gravitano l'una verso l'altra. Trovano il tempo e si impegnano senza che nessuno dica loro di farlo.

Lo fanno funzionare perché ENTRAMBI lo vogliono, perché entrambi provano un sentimento così profondo l'uno per l'altro che riescono a superare qualsiasi ostacolo.

Everything doesn’t always go smoothly, but love, affection and attention are never forced, and that’s the main thing.

E anche se tutto potrebbe non andare come lo avevate immaginato, quando avete la persona giusta al vostro fianco, otterrete qualcosa di ancora più straordinario di quanto avreste mai potuto prevedere.

Quindi lasciate andare chiunque e tutto ciò che deve essere forzato e liberate la strada per il vero affare. Aspettate l'amore che scorre.