Sono innamorato? 11 segni evidenti che dimostrano che lo siete davvero!

Siete finalmente in una nuova relazione e il ragazzo con cui state è così sognante che vi sentite come un bambino in un negozio di caramelle.

Tutto ciò che volete è passare ogni momento con lui e il solo pensiero del suo sorriso vi rende così eccitanti!

Every time your phone beeps, you crave seeing his name lighting up your screen and every time you’re with him, the world ceases to exist.

Tutto ciò che fa è così incantevole e nella vostra mente, non può letteralmente sbagliare.

You can’t get enough of him and you idealize what you have in your head to the point where you’re not even sure how someone so perfect can actually exist!

What you two have is all kinds of wonderful but I’m sorry to break it to you—that’s not love.

L'amore è un po' più complesso e un po' più disordinato di così.

When you’re in amore , you see all of your partner’s shortcomings, yet you still amarlo , difetti e tutto il resto.

When it’s real love, you don’t necessarily think he is the most faultless human being on earth, yet you still wish to spend your life with nobody else.

Love is that feeling you have when you’re with that person and it just feels like home. It’s no longer a place but rather a feeling.

Wherever you are with him, it’s home and there’s nowhere else you’d rather be.

Love is a slow-burning, steady, flawed and overwhelming sensation and it’s what holds you firmly on the ground.

L'amore non è romanticare ciecamente questa persona e scegliere di chiudere un occhio sui suoi difetti. L'amore non è voler stare con lui 24 ore su 24, 7 giorni su 7, dimenticando gli altri vicini.

L'amore è impegno. L'amore è promessa. L'amore è trasparenza e amore è perdono.

When he messes up, you can swallow your ego, accept that he’s only human and push through it.

When you do something you’re not proud of, he does the same for you. You accept each other for exactly chi sei e non cercare in alcun modo di cambiare l'altro.

Love does not mean running away when things start getting heavy. Love does not mean quitting on your partner because you can’t handle real life.

L'amore si allea con questa persona e promette di essere presenti quando uno di voi vacilla.

And when you say ‘forever’, you mean it. It’s not just an excuse to have some temporary fling that feels pleasant and enjoyable, then disappearing when feelings get in the way.

Love is a promise of always being by this person’s side, no matter how hard the shit hits the fan.

L'amore è occuparsi dei loro bisogni quando sono a letto malati, incapaci di offrirvi altro che il loro amore.

Love takes over you unexpectedly and suddenly you realize there’s this other person whose needs you prioritize almost above your own.

It’s that feeling that if something was to happen to this person, you literally couldn’t breathe.

There are so many changes you feel within yourself when you’re in love and it’s almost impossible to explain them until you’ve experienced it yourself.

If you’re unsure whether you feel amore vero for your partner or if it’s just a temporary infatuation, here are some clear signs that indicate that you are truly in love.

Sono innamorato? 11 chiari segni che dimostrano che lo siete davvero!

Siete in grado di vedere tutte le loro imperfezioni e continuate ad amarli alla follia.

In movies, love is often portrayed as two people who appear absolutely perfect for each other, who see one another as flawless human beings and are completely smitten and blinded by that feeling for them that they can’t see them for who they really are.

Nella vita reale, l'amore è imperfetto, l'amore è impeccabile e l'amore è complesso.

L'amore è vedere il proprio partner come un essere umano normale che ha abitudini fastidiose, che può dare sui nervi e che commette errori.

Love is not going to be a picnic every single day. It’s going to take hard work to preserve it and not every day is going to seem movie-like.

There will be days where you won’t be able to stand to look at this person but at the same time, loving him will never be in question.

You’ll both mess up at times but the commitment you share will never be compromised.

L'amore è essere presenti in tutti i momenti più belli e straordinari, ma anche in tutte le cadute e gli errori.

Through good times and bad ones—you’re always there.

Volete celebrare i loro successi e sostenerli nelle loro difficoltà.

People who are in love are always beyond happy to celebrate their partner’s accomplishments.

E non perché sono orgogliosi di se stessi per aver accaparrato una persona intelligente e capace, ma perché provano una genuina gioia per il loro successo.

Mentre trascorrete del tempo con la tua persona e condividete tutti i loro momenti belli e brutti, diventate così legati a loro che qualsiasi cosa loro provino, finite per provarla anche voi.

Se loro sono entusiasti e felici che il loro duro lavoro sia stato finalmente ripagato, voi sarete altrettanto felici, letteralmente come se stesse accadendo a voi.

E se sono delusi e distrutti quando le cose prendono una brutta piega, partecipate al loro dolore.

All'improvviso, la loro felicità diventa la vostra felicità e la loro tristezza diventa la vostra.

Un'altra cosa importante è quando vi permettete di essere sostenuti quando VOI state attraversando un momento difficile.

You aren’t scared of letting them see you break into pieces but rather seek their comfort, knowing they’ve got your back.

That’s what love is. Being there come hell or high water and feeling secure enough to let them see your vulnerable side.

When you no longer have to wonder if they’ll still love you when you’re broken, you know you’re with the right person.

Vi sentite completamente inclusi nella loro vita e viceversa.

Check this scenario. You’re in a seemingly compatible relationship, you feel like there’s genuine love but you both keep parts of your life to yourself (or just one of you does).

You still haven’t met the important people in his life and you don’t feel like he wants you to.

There are certain things you don’t talk about because you know they’re off limits.

You feel connected but not one hundred percent, because there is still a part of him you feel he’s keeping from you.

If this rings a bell, it’s not really love, it’s an emotionally unavailable type of relationship.

But when you feel like your partner is making an effort to introduce you to all the key people in his life and you don’t have to pressure him to do so, that’s real love.

When you both want the other one to meet your family and friends, that means you are completely willing to include them in your life, as it doesn’t get any more serious than meeting the parents and then the rest of the gang.

Volete che il vostro partner conosca e veda da dove venite, come siete stati cresciuti e incontri le persone che vi hanno plasmato fino a farvi diventare la persona che siete oggi.

Volete che vi conosca esattamente per quello che siete, senza nascondere alcuna parte di voi stessi. Questo è un amore duraturo.

Il fatto è che deve essere uguale per entrambe le parti.

Both partners have to be interested in the other one’s life, otherwise it’s one-sided and it’s not genuine.

When you’re just as excited to meet his people as you are to introduce him to your own, your love is real.

Siete perfettamente a vostro agio nel non essere d'accordo con loro.

When you are extremely likely to agree on whatever they have to say, just for the sake of staying together, that’s a clear sign of infatuation.

When they say something you completely disagree with but fear that it might be a deal-breaker, you’ll just go along with it, because that way you secretly hope it means you must be in love.

Quando in realtà l'amore è l'esatto contrario. L'amore significa essere in grado di non essere d'accordo con loro senza temere che questo possa spingervi oltre il limite.

Significa essere fiduciosi in se stessi e in ciò che si ha, tanto da essere perfettamente a posto nell'affermare il proprio punto di vista, sapendo che si scontra totalmente con il loro.

This goes for both the little things, like what music you’ll listen to on your four-hour road trip or which coffee to get, to those big ones, such as which part of the city to find a place in and how you’d raise your future kids.

When you’re both able to openly and freely state your opinions on any matter and then try to work out the best possible solution and compromise that would work for both of you, there’s a real chance you two are truly in love.

Sentirsi sicuri e fiduciosi in se stessi e nell'impegno che si condivide sono aspetti fondamentali in qualsiasi relazione reale e solida.

You don’t depend on your partner to make you happy on the inside

Before you are able to love another human being, you must first know how to love yourself. I know, this sounds like such a cliché but it’s true.

If you expect your partner, and therefore the relationship you share, to fill that gaping hole you feel within yourself, you’re going to end up disappointed.

Prima di impegnarsi in una relazione sentimentale, è necessario sapere come rendere felici se stessi.

Devi assumersi la responsabilità della propria felicitàperché siete gli unici a sapere come rendervi felici dentro di voi.

You partner should definitely be someone who inspires the best in you but he shouldn’t be in your life solely because you need him to make you happy—that is in your hands.

When you are at peace with yourself and you know how to make yourself happy without needing your partner, you’re doing it right.

Being able to be vulnerable in front of your partner but still not expect him to pick up the broken pieces is a good sign you’re in a healthy relationship.

Quando si condividono i momenti belli e quelli brutti, ma si riesce comunque a essere un individuo, si è trovato il vero amore.

Volete davvero che le persone a voi più care lo apprezzino quanto voi.

Naturally, the most important thing is that you are perfectly happy and satisfied with the person you’ve chosen to spend your time and life with.

Nobody can tell you who is good for you and who isn’t, as you are the one in the relationship, not them.

And when you are finally in a good place and you feel like the person you’re with is the one for you, it comes naturally to want your family and friends to approve of him as well.

All it means is that your feelings are all-encompassing and this person has managed to fully capture your heart and there’s only one thing left to do before you truly know that this is it…

Incontrare i vostri collaboratori per il sigillo finale di approvazione. È una cosa importante perché rappresenta l'impegno, l'amore e l'apprezzamento che provate per questa persona.

Quando riuscite a unire i vostri due mondi in uno solo, con tutti sulla stessa pagina, non c'è niente di più piacevole per una persona innamorata!

You are attached to your partner and it’s only fair that your nearest and dearest should get a chance to see the person who makes you feel like you’re on cloud nine.

E quando finalmente si incontrano e le cose vanno come previsto, si prova un enorme sollievo.

Quando le persone che vi conoscono meglio approvano la persona con cui desiderate trascorrere la vostra vita, non c'è più nulla da mettere in discussione.

You feel like this one’s unlike any other guy you’ve ever dated

You’ve been with a decent number of guys.

A few of those were real relationships and some of them you even felt love for. But now, with this one, it’s a whole other dimension of love.

If you thought you were in love before, now, you’re as certain as it gets. You just know that he’s special.

Being with him is completely different to any of your previous relationships and you feel like you’re thriving since you met him.

Now, you can’t imagine being with anyone else! The thought of another person holding you in his arms and wishing you goodnight is beyond impossible.

The thought of spending a whole day in bed with someone else, cuddling, watching TV, talking about the universe… repulses you. There’s only him.

With him, you don’t care about perfection. You don’t care about the material stuff. And you don’t care about what anyone will think.

Tutto ciò che volete è passare l'eternità con questa persona, amandola alla follia e restando al suo fianco in tutti i giorni difficili.

There’s no one else in this world for you. Not anymore.

The most random things remind you of him and you can’t wait to tell him

You’ll be walking down the street, on your way to work, minding your own business, when suddenly, you’ll see a sign on a building that will instantly make you laugh, because it’s part of a private joke you two share and you’ll immediately have to text him.

A song will come on the radio as you’re driving to your mom’s and it’ll be a song that was playing when you saw him for the first time and feelings of happiness and joy will wash over your entire body.

It’s those little things that some wouldn’t even pay attention to but to you, they mean the world, because they are all part of a big puzzle that has shaped your relationship into what it is today!

Vi ricordate di lui ogni giorno e vi piace che vi venga in mente all'improvviso. La sensazione è semplicemente impagabile.

Sometimes, when we truly love a person, it doesn’t take a lot to be reminded of them.

They are already firmly engraved in our mind and it’s only a matter of time when you’ll be reminded of them by some, cute, random, little thing that only you two understand the meaning of.

Avete una leggera ansia da separazione

Sometimes, when you’re in love, it’s not uncommon to show signs of emotional dependency, jealousy and fear of being separated from that person.

It’s nothing overly alarming, as long as you don’t let it completely rule your world.

People who are extremely attached to their partner tend to get a little uneasy knowing they’ll be separated for a certain amount of time (no matter how long or short) and it can turn into feelings of anxiety and uneasiness.

It’s important that you can control this.

Allow yourself to feel what you’re feeling but deep down, you know that it’s all good and that it’s only in your head. You are powerfully connected and naturally, you don’t like being separated from them.

When you’re without this person, it may feel like you’re not whole and the fear of them leaving you will foolishly make you go a little stir crazy but as long as you know that it’s not as serious as you make it out to be, you’re good.

Love can do crazy things to a person. Sometimes, all you need to do is reel it in and you’ll be totally fine.

Nessuno può danneggiare la vostra relazione e il vostro partner torna a casa da voi, sano e salvo.

Una piccola dose di gelosia e di dipendenza non è altro che il segno che ci tenete e che la vostra relazione è un vero affare.

Si sente (positivamente) cambiata da quando sta con lui

Da quando ha iniziato a frequentarlo, ha sentito un'enorme crescita personale.

Vi sentite una persona diversa, una persona migliore, e le vostre priorità sono così chiare.

Continuate a notare le piccole cose di voi stessi che sono diverse, o forse anche chi vi sta vicino ha notato dei cambiamenti positivi!

Things that would normally bother you are completely irrelevant now; you no longer let yourself get wound up about things that you can’t change and you no longer feel like chasing some elusive sense of accomplishment.

You feel complete. You feel like you’re finally yourself and things are perfectly aligned, for the first time in your life.

La persona che eravate prima di incontrare il vostro partner e quella che siete ora sono persone completamente diverse.

This is not to say that your partner is the one in charge of who you are but rather that he has positively influenced your thoughts and actions in a way that doesn’t disrupt your life but makes it easy for you to live in it.

Ora che avete questo amore straordinario nella vostra vita, tutto è così chiaro.

Avete la vostra salute, la vostra famiglia, i vostri amici e il vostro uomo e tutto ciò che non è rilevante per il vostro senso di autostima.

For as long as those close to you are happy and healthy, you feel happy too. By knowing your partner, you finally know the meaning of true, inner happiness and you’ve never felt more alive.

Avete iniziato a pianificare il vostro futuro intorno a lui

Previously, whenever you found yourself daydreaming about what your future looked like, the face of the person you were with was always questionable, as you were never really sure if he was the one you’d be sharing your mornings with.

But now, you don’t see a future without him. Whenever you look ahead, whatever you see, both good and bad, he’s there.

Whatever your dreams are, he is a part of them and even if you tried, you couldn’t picture it any other way.

Volete che un giorno sia il padre dei vostri figli. Volete prendere una casetta in periferia con lui e fare amicizia con i vostri nuovi vicini.

Volete mettere su famiglia, sistemarvi e fare tutte le cose da adulti con nessun altro oltre a lui.

Even if you’re nowhere near making your dreams a reality. Even if things are tough right now, he’s still the one you want to find your future with.

With anyone else, it just wouldn’t be worth it. This person is the one you see yourself growing old with and making stupid jokes with.

This is the person you’re not afraid to get in some trouble with, because he is the only one who makes it all worthwhile.

Lui è il tuo futuro. E qualunque cosa accada, non volete nessun altro con cui trascorrerlo.