Se vi vuole davvero, vi inseguirà

If a guy you like is interested in you, he will do whatever it takes to win you over. Don’t comfort yourself with ideas he’s just a ragazzo timido and that’s the reason he doesn’t chase you.

È semplicemente ridicolo. La verità, per quanto dura, è che probabilmente non è interessato.

It’s better to settle this ‘dilemma’ once and for all. Get out of the bubble you’re living in because you’re only making it worse for yourself.

Accept the fact that he is not that into you—and that it is totally fine. Dopo tutto, non tutti sono destinati a tutti.

Nessun uomo può resistere a non agire quando vede qualcosa che desidera. Gli uomini sono così.

Gli uomini amano inseguire e se avete catturato il suo sguardo, non aspetterà un momento di più e vi inseguirà perché vi vuole.

Nessuna distanza è abbastanza grande da impedire a un uomo di ottenere ciò che vuole, quando lo vuole davvero.

You have to stop chasing wrong men! You’re only breaking your own heart and he won’t give a damn. It’s all the same to him. He will have a good time.

He will lead you on and play with you for as long as he wants and when he gets tired of it, he will just turn around and leave. No regrets. Nothing. But you—you will be crushed and broken.

Smettete di innamorarvi di uomini che devono pensare due volte se gli piacete o meno. Smettete di innamorarvi di uomini che trovano sempre scuse diverse per non incontrarvi.

Isn’t it suspicious that every time you want to see him he has a ‘thing’? Either he is working or his family is in town or he had promised something to someone earlier. That is just not right. That is total BS!

Un uomo a cui piaci e che vuole passare del tempo con te lascerà tutto e tutti solo per stare al tuo fianco, per guardarti negli occhi e per tenerti la mano.

A man who wants to be with you will be constant. He won’t act differently when he is and isn’t around you. He won’t send you mixed signals and make you beg for his attention.

Ignore boys who want to make a complete fool out of you. Ignore those who don’t care, who only want something on the side. They are not worthy of your time nor your love.

Dovete conservare queste emozioni per qualcuno che le merita davvero. Dovete conservare il vostro amore per un uomo che ti inseguirà e non si fermerà mai, perché ti vuole più di ogni altra cosa al mondo.

Lasciate perdere il amore a metà. You don’t need it. You don’t deserve it.

Don’t allow yourself to be manipulated by someone not worthy. Don’t give him the time of day. Don’t let him play with your emotions and with your mind.

Don’t let anyone trick you because you’re smarter than that. You know what you want and you know what you deserve.

Do you really want an immature mama’s boy to come and destroy all that you’ve been working on your whole life?

Keep your self-worth and keep your respect because you’re going to need it.

Because there are so many battles and crazy adventure before you. Don’t waste your energy on someone who doesn’t deserve it. You know what you’ve got to wait for?

Wait for a man, a real man and not a boy. Wait for someone who erases all the insecurities you have, someone who won’t make them even bigger.

Aspettate qualcuno che gridi il vostro nome a squarciagola, che sia così orgoglioso di voi ovunque vada.

Wait for someone who will understand that even you can’t smile all the time, that even you have to have your bad days.

Wait for the man who won’t use your bad moments against you, someone who won’t take revenge because he is frustrated. Real men don’t do that, only boys do.

Real men respect you despite the not so great things you do. Real men understand that life isn’t an easy game to play.

Vi meritate tutto questo e anche di più. Scappate dall'amore unilaterale. Non correte mai verso qualcuno che dovete inseguire. He’s not worth it.

Believe me, staying alone is so much better than being in an ‘almost’ relationship, than chasing someone who plays with you.

Staying single is healthier physically, emotionally and spiritually than getting your heart broken by someone who never truly cared for you, someone who will let you down because he wasn’t serious about you from the beginning.

Rimani da sola perché il tempo giocherà a tuo favore. Ci sarà un uomo abbastanza coraggioso da inseguire una donna bella e forte come te.

Lui ti merita. Aspettatelo.

Maria Parker è anche autrice del nuovo libro Her Way, “On Getting Over A Narcissist”.