15 segni inconfutabili che siete davvero innamorati di lui

True Love Or Perfect Illusion? Sometimes, when you’re in a long-term relationship, there comes a point where you’re no longer sure of your feelings, and you start questioning everything to the nth degree.

Other times, you’re just getting to know the guy, and you don’t know if you can call your emotions for him amore vero o solo un'infatuazione temporanea.

E a volte bastano dei segnali chiari come il sole per capire che siete davvero innamorati della persona che vi interessa. persona giustaQuesto vi dirà con certezza e vi toglierà ogni sospetto una volta per tutte.

Innamorarsi is oftentimes an inexplicable sensation of a feeling. But how do you know if you’re merely daydreaming or if the little things about him are truly making your heart skip a beat?

If you’re sure you want him, there’s a way to get him. La sua ossessione segreta è la vostra migliore occasione per farlo vostro, per sempre.

I would best describe the feeling as an exhilarating descent from a high cliff where you cannot see the ground, but you also don’t want to as the ride itself feels all kinds of amazing!

We’ve all been in enough relationships to be able to determine the severity of your emotions when you fall in love.

But at the same time, I’m sure we’ve all experienced the painful side of love too. For me, it was the first time I let my guard down to the wrong person.

Schermare il nostro cuore da un ulteriore dolore ci impedisce di investire pienamente in nuove relazioni. E tutti i consigli sulle relazioni will be of no use if you don’t let yourself feel that way again.

I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve let myself fall in love too easily and got hurt in the process, but what I’ve come to realize is that if I don’t risk it, I’ll never really know if I’m missing out on that once-in-a-lifetime type of love!

Inoltre, con Script di infatuazione, potete assicurarvi di prendere tutte le misure giuste e non rimanere mai più delusi.

There are great signs that can easily tell you if you’re really in love with the guy or if it’s just something elusive that will pass within a few short weeks, like in all those rom-coms.

Here are some signs that will reassure you of your feelings and make you see that what you’re feeling is in fact true love!

15 segni inconfutabili che lo amano

Ti rende calmo

La prima cosa che si associa all'amore sono probabilmente le farfalle nello stomaco.

Avete presente quella sensazione che fa fare gli straordinari all'ormone dello stress?

Ma l'amore è in realtà qualcosa di completamente diverso.

Of course, it’s great if your boyfriend excites you, but that only means that sei innamorato con lui.

D'altra parte, se avete una relazione con un ragazzo che vi fa stare tranquille, questo è uno dei segni che lo amate davvero.

This man represents peace for you and not in a bad way. It doesn’t mean that he’s not fun to be around or that he’s boring, only that he has such an impact on you that he can make all of your problems disappear just by smiling at you.

You’re way past the love bug stage, where your heart rates went crazy in each other’s company all the way from your first date up to just recently.

Il solo pensiero di lui le provocava insonnia e perdita di appetito e gli eventi più banali la mandavano nel panico.

Ora, la sua presenza vi porta calma e pace. Sì, avete un amore compassionevole, ma che vi dà un senso di sicurezza travolgente.

Ti fa sentire forte

Uno dei segni rivelatori del fatto che amate davvero un ragazzo (e che lui vi ama) è il modo in cui vi sentite intorno a lui.

Quando si ama un uomo, egli ci dà un tipo speciale di forza e di potere.

You simply feel that there is nothing you can’t do when he’s by your side. And that’s true love.

Questo ragazzo vi dà forza e l'amore tra voi due vi mette le ali.

Vi motiva semplicemente a essere migliori, senza mai cercare di cambiarvi. E la cosa migliore è che lo fa senza nemmeno provarci.

La sua presenza è più che sufficiente per farvi sentire così. Oltre a sentirvi più forti che mai, vi sentite al sicuro con lui perché sapete che il suo amore vi protegge.

Quando una persona amata è in grado di farvi sentire forti con la sua sola presenza, sapete che è una persona speciale.

With him beside you, you simply love life more than ever because you’ve never felt more alive and happy to be living to your fullest potential with him around.

Ti fidi di lui

It’s always challenging to trust someone. But trust is often closely connected with love and you’ve trusted this man since you met him. It doesn’t mean that you blindly trust everything he says, but that you know he is trustworthy.

And that’s a good sign of his long-term potential. You simply feel like you could trust this man with your life. You can rely on him and his support is all you need in life.

Inoltre, vi fidate del suo giudizio e della sua opinione e li rispettate anche quando non siete d'accordo.

You fight like best friends, but make up like lovers. You know that every little argument you have is only going to bring you closer because you trust that he’s always trying to make the best argument for your joint happiness.

Life isn’t endless rom-coms where all you do is watch your favorite TV shows on Netflix, drink wine from your local grocery store, and have sex.

There’s a lot of real stuff that happens in between, but you’re no longer scared to face them. The trust you feel with him makes you excited about the future.

Volete che tutti quelli che vi circondano lo conoscano

When you love a man, you’re also proud of him. He doesn’t have to be Mr. Perfect, but you know he’s perfect for you.

Quindi volete che tutti intorno a voi sappiano che grande uomo avete al vostro fianco.

Volete che tutte le persone importanti per voi, anche la vostra famiglia, conoscano meglio questo ragazzo, in modo che tutti possano amarlo.

You know that in every healthy relationship there comes a time where you meet each other’s families and friends, and you feel like that time is now.

Your friends and family are important to you and so is he, so you secretly hope that they’ll all get along great.

Even his little quirks are adorable and fun, so you don’t mind him being his true self around them.

You just know that everyone you care about will love him the way you do (minus the sexual part) and be happy you’ve found your guy! And this is one of the biggest signs that you love this guy. If you didn’t, you wouldn’t dream of introducing him to your people.

I suoi bisogni sono importanti per voi

When you love someone, you want that person to be happy. It’s the same with romantic relationships.

One of the signs that you really love a guy is that his happiness means the world to you. If he’s miserable, you’re genuinely messed up as well.

Pertanto, siete pronti a fare numerosi sacrifici solo per vederlo sorridere (e per essere il motivo di quel sorriso).

His needs will become a priority to you and you’ll never again be selfish around him.

It’s impossible for you to be happy and satisfied if he isn’t, and that’s one of the signs of true love.

Let this be the telltale sign you love him. When he’s happy, how do you feel?

If it’s genuine happiness, than it’s real love on your part. But if you’re really unfazed at his emotions, it’s probably a superficial thing.

Quando le persone hanno una relazione sana, i bisogni del partner diventano i propri.

Love does that to people – it’s what makes a true, compassionate love.

Si può immaginare un futuro con lui

Uno dei segnali che indicano che si ama davvero un uomo è che si riesce a immaginare il proprio futuro con lui. Quando una donna ama davvero un uomo, i suoi ormoni si scatenano.

All of a sudden, you can’t wait for him mettersi in ginocchioe si può immaginare di vivere con lui in una casa con una staccionata bianca in periferia.

You catch yourself thinking about starting a family with this guy and you’ve even named your imaginary dog.

If this is the guy you could picture yourself having children with, you definitely love him and there’s no doubt about it.

When your mind is unsure of your feelings, it’s never going to let you get so far as to imagine a whole future alongside this man.

It’ll keep you from doing that as a sign of precaution, and you’d be taking it really slow, just to be sure.

But when your mind has a life of its own and you already know what your days would look like and who’d get up first to make pancakes for breakfast and take out the dog, honey, you’re testa in giù!

Take your time and don’t rush anything because if the signs above are valid for you, there’s no doubt you are completely and irrevocably in love with him.

Controllate i vostri messaggi di testo un milione di volte al giorno.

You know you love a guy when you can’t go 15 minutes without obsessively checking your phone.

Non vedete l'ora di vedere il suo nome illuminare il vostro schermo. Il solo pensiero vi fa esplodere di pura felicità.

Questo perché è diventato un migliore amico to you. Knowing that you’ve got a life partner as well as a best friend and a lover in him is hard to believe to be true, but it is. You really got that lucky!

Seeing a text from him immediately alleviates any pain you’ve been feeling because he makes it all disappear in a second.

Your days of daydreaming about that perfect guy are over because he’s finally yours.

Vedete piccoli ricordi di lui ovunque intorno a voi.

You’ll be walking to work and the billboard you see every day will suddenly remind you of him.

Why? Because it’s for a huge concert that you’ve been talking about attending for ages.

And now he’s in your thoughts every single morning on your trek to work (and you really don’t mind).

You’re on a night out with your girlfriends, and you’re having a ball, when suddenly, there’s a song on that immediately makes you want to take out your phone and ring him up.

It’s the song you listened to five times that one day when you just couldn’t decide on what to listen to next.

And now, whether you like it or not, it’s kind of become one of your songs!

And it makes you smile whenever you hear it because you’re immediately reminded of that day and how much fun and laughter you shared.

Il tempo trascorso con lui non sembra mai tempo sprecato

Even if it’s just for five minutes, those five minutes will be the best part of your day without a doubt.

You can be walking to a grocery store and literally just be stocking up for the following week and you’ll find yourself so content in that very moment.

You know it’s amore vero quando ogni secondo con lui sembra troppo breve ed estremamente prezioso.

You don’t take any time spent with him for granted and you don’t mind doing anything with him.

Potreste fare un picnic al parco vicino a un lago, con tutti i vostri cibi preferiti e il vino, oppure potreste essere nella vostra stanza, sul vostro letto, ad ascoltare musica. Ogni cosa è un'emozione che rende la vostra giornata indimenticabile.

Volete conoscere ogni minimo dettaglio della sua vita

With all your ex boyfriends, you really couldn’t care less about their childhood or their weird fears and insecurities since they were little.

It just wasn’t serious enough for you to care. But with this one, boy, has that changed!

Vi preoccupate letteralmente di tutte le piccole cose che lo hanno reso quello che è oggi.

Com'era da bambino, quali manifesti adornavano le sue pareti quando era adolescente e quante cose imbarazzanti ha fatto durante il suo primo anno di università!

Vi preoccupate della sua famiglia e volete conoscerla bene, perché anche la sua famiglia è diventata importante per voi.

You don’t have to pretend to care about how his grandma is anymore, because with him, you really do care!

E questo è il più grande segno di vero amore. L'interesse per il suo passato e per la sua famiglia vi rende veramente e completamente innamorate di lui.

You don’t mind making small sacrifices for him

Normally, you wouldn’t be a fan of taking care of just anyone’s dog for a whole week (you love dogs, but it’s a big responsibility and what if you mess something up – yikes!) But if he asked you, you’d have no problem.

It wouldn’t even be something you had to think about. You love this guy and you know how much he adores his fur-buddy, so you’d be happy to take that worry off his mind!

His dog is safe with you and you’re happy to be able to help.

And making any compromise is not a big deal anymore. You’re totally okay meeting him halfway. And this is how you know you’ve found a guy for the long haul.

You used to hate having to compromise for a guy, but with him, you don’t mind letting him have his way every now and then, because he’d do the same for you. And there’s pure understanding from both sides.

You often notice little things that you know he’d love

You’ll be doing your weekly shopping at your favorite grocery store and you’ll see a new pack of crisps and you immediately think he’d love it, so you buy it for him to try!

You’re talking with a friend and she’s raving about this new band that’s playing the next day in the city, and you just know that he’d be a fan as it’s the exact same music he listens to daily!

With him, it’s really easy to know what he’d be a fan of and what he’d hate.

E adori quei momenti in cui sai che qualcosa lo renderebbe felice, e quindi glielo fornisci. Ti fa sentire felice dentro.

Questo è un enorme segno rivelatore del fatto che si è testa in giù for him. He’s literally in your every thought and he never fails to put a huge smile on your face.

Si perde la cognizione del tempo

With him, time becomes an irrelevant part of your life. You don’t even care what day it is – oftentimes you even forget! All you know is one minute you’re cuddling on your sofa and whispering sweet nothings to each other, and what feels like a minute later, it’s already evening and you’ve spent your whole day there.

That’s what happens when you’re in love. Time simply flies, because when you’re with that person, there’s nowhere else you’d rather be and every second is your own personal paradise.

You literally need to have conversations with yourself where you talk yourself into actually going to work. It’s just too tempting to stay with him all day long.

Vi sentite più energici che mai

You normally don’t just wake up upbeat and ready to take over the day.

You most certainly aren’t excited about going to work and hitting the gym afterwards.

But since you’ve been with him, you’re full of this newfound energy that you just can’t wait to spend somewhere!

You might even be talked into climbing a freaking mountain (but you’d have to really think about that one).

Ha questo effetto straordinario su di te, in cui credi di poter fare qualsiasi cosa e allo stesso tempo senti di voler fare così tanto.

Work isn’t a hassle anymore because you know you’re seeing him afterward! Gym is your favorite part of the day because you absolutely love being in shape for him. Life has become such a fun adventure and you wouldn’t change a thing!

You don’t mind his imperfections

You’re perfectly fine with him being a flawed human being (like we all are!).

You wouldn’t change any aspect of his physical appearance nor any of his traits. You notice those little quirks he has, but you don’t find them annoying.

You know it’s a part of who he is and you don’t want to be that person who has to have the perfect boyfriend. You make it work through all of your ups and downs!

And that’s how you know it’s real love that you’re feeling. When you truly love someone, you accept them exactly the way they are.

But when it’s lust, you want to mold them into the perfect person for you.

L'amore ti fa vedere oltre i difetti. L'amore è altruista, gentile e rassicurante. Voi don’t need perfectionSi richiede solo sforzo e impegno.

Pensieri finali

L'amore è una cosa davvero meravigliosa. Incontri una persona e improvvisamente tutto il tuo mondo inizia a ruotare intorno a lei.

You care about where he is and who he’s with, and you often wonder if he’s okay.

His emotions affect you greatly– if he’s suffering, you feel pain too!

Il pensiero di perderlo è insopportabile e lo si ama per ogni sua piccola mania e difetto.

Avete smesso di voler cambiare lui. Non serbate più stupidi rancori per cose irrilevanti.

You love him just the way he is and you know the feeling is mutual. If all of this pertains to you, congrats – you are truly and irrevocably in love!

Per la prima volta in assoluto, vi sentite così eccitati e allo stesso tempo spaventati. Trovarlo è stata una tale benedizione, ma temete di poterlo perdere un giorno e questo vi pietrifica.

You often get scared that he’s going to stop loving you or realize that he can do better.

Don’t worry if this is also the case. That’s what love does to people, its effect is both overwhelmingly majestic and scary AF!

Continuate a coltivare l'amore che condividete e rimanete la stessa persona attraverso tutto questo.

Remember, you’re the one he chose and you’re the one he fell in love with. For as long as you stay committed and loving to each other, there’s nothing that can tear you apart.