Se vi sentite in sintonia con queste 5 cose, siete estremamente attraenti

If there’s some topic people will never stop talking about, then it must be what makes someone beautiful and how to know if people find us attractive.

One thing people don’t realize is that Essere attraenti non è tutto rose e fiori. While you might think they have everything easy just because of their looks, you’re actually wrong.

Anche la ricerca ha dimostrato che trovare il vero amore è molto più difficile per le persone attraenti. This is exactly because others want to be with them solely because they are attracted to their physical look and don’t care about what’s underneath the surface.

L'allenatore di appuntamenti Jacob Lucas confirms that being attractive is not so easy, but hey, someone’s gotta do it, right? All jokes aside, attractive people actually have 5 common things they share, see if you relate to any of them.

1. You don’t have many friends of the same gender

Lucas inizia il suo video dicendo che le persone attraenti spesso hanno difficoltà a farsi amici dello stesso sesso.

Se vi siete mai accorti di frequentare molte persone di sesso opposto, ma avete nessuno o pochi amici del suo stesso sesso, it might be a good sign you’re attractive. Jacob says:

“This is because a lot of people are jealous of you because of your good looks and they see you as competition.”

Su questo punto le opinioni sono discordanti. Alcuni sono d'accordo con lui perché ha senso gli altri sono talvolta intimoriti dalle vostre qualità and they can’t stand someone else is better than them.

However, others say they are actually more eager to be friends with someone attractive. I think this is the case but only if you’re also confident in your looks so you don’t have a problem being around other beautiful people. 

2. Spesso gli altri vogliono rendervi insicuri

You’ve been bullied many times throughout your life? People use jokes to hide the fact they’re actually insulting you? Yeah, you probably have something they don’t have.

Giacobbe lo spiega dicendo:

“This is because your good looks makes them feel insecure and they wanna make you feel the same way.”

Quando le persone sono cattive con voi, especially if they’re commenting something negative about your looks, they’re probably just reflecting their insecurities onto you. 

Questo è sicuramente vero, perché una persona veramente felice e soddisfatta di sé non sprecherebbe mai il suo tempo e le sue energie per far sentire male gli altri. Al contrario, vuole sollevarli, non trascinarli verso il basso.

3. Being with you boosted your ex’s ego

Ho un'amica che è estremamente bella e attraente. Tutti vogliono stare con lei o almeno intorno a lei. Quando si è lasciata con il suo ragazzo, è diventato improvvisamente così pieno di sé perché sapeva di essere con il cattivo che tutti desiderano.

Come dice il dating coach:

“This is because once before they managed to get you and it makes them think there’s something special about them. When in reality they were just in the right place at the right time and got lucky that you picked them.”

Oof, this might be hard to hear for some people… But yeah, when you’re really attractive everyone will feel flattered they know you or once had a chance to be with you. 

4. Le persone cercano di fare colpo su di voi

Le persone si vantano in continuazione quando sono intorno a voi?

Jacob dice:

“This is because they are trying to impress you so you feel more attracted to them.”

Questo dimostra che they want to show you they’re worthy of you. They’re trying to gain your attention and make you think you’re on the same level as them so you’re compatible. 

If they only knew that being authentic and genuine could get them further than bragging about their money, clothes, or accomplishments maybe they would actually end up with someone even if they’re out of their league.

5. Everyone’s surprised you’re single

Last but not least, if you literally shock others every time you mention you’re single, then be sure you’re attractive! 

People often assume that if you’re super pretty, smart, and have all the qualities everyone searches for, you must be taken. Of course, they’re surprised when that’s not the case. You would also pick the most beautiful flower from the garden, wouldn’t you?

People were pretty honest in the comments, although I’m not sure about modest. Molte persone hanno detto di aver sperimentato tutte e 5 le cose. and everyone’s jealous of them. Some were enlightened and realized that maybe they are attractive after all. 

Altri erano più umoristici o pessimisti. and said they didn’t relate to any of these signs. A top comment with the most likes under this video was:

“I have 0 friends. I must be extremely gorgeous.”

E voi? Avete mai affrontato questi problemi? Pensate che questo sia un test accurato di attrattività? or it’s more complicated than this?