Vi respinge perché cerca di proteggere il suo cuore.

No, non è senza cuore. So che sembra una dura. E la verità è che è molto più forte di quanto si possa pensare.

Ma allo stesso tempo, ha ancora una bambina sensibile nascosta dentro di sé.

You know, the truth is that this girl has been through a lot and she isn’t ready to put up with you if you are not the man for her.

She had her heart broken more than once and she was hurt multiple times in the past. But this doesn’t mean she has ever allowed herself to take on the role of a victim.

Invece, ha preso in mano la situazione e ha deciso che è l'unica in grado di proteggersi.

Ha capito che il suo cuore è la cosa più preziosa del mondo e che lei è l'unica che può guarirlo. L'unica che può assicurarsi di non essere mai più ferita.

Ma nel profondo ha ancora paura che il suo cuore venga spezzato di nuovo.

E questo è l'unico motivo per cui ha costruito questi muri spessi e alti intorno a sé. L'unico motivo è diventata guardinga.

Vi sta allontanando perché è terrorizzata. Ha paura di amare di nuovo e che il suo cuore vada ancora una volta in frantumi.

She is doing it because she’s used to being on her own. Because life has taught her that she shouldn’t count on anyone and that people will betray her sooner or later.

This girl will never give you a place in her life until she sees that you really deserve it. Because she’s done settling for less.

And because she’d rather remain alone, in case you turn out to be a man who isn’t right for her.

You see, she doesn’t plan on wasting years of her life, waiting for you to change. Waiting for you to see her true value and waiting for you to love her for real.

This girl hasn’t lost her faith in love. She just knows it is a risk and you’ll have to try hard and prove it to her that it’s a risk worth taking with you.

The truth is that deep down, she is afraid of getting too attached because she doesn’t want to end up giving you her entire self while you don’t give her anything back.

She doesn’t want to be the only one putting all the effort in while you couldn’t care less.

She isn’t letting you in because she doesn’t believe you just yet. Because she is positive that you’ll end up hurting her, the same way every other man in her life did.

That you’ll end up taking advantage of her love and that you’ll just use her.

She isn’t showing you the depths of her heart and she isn’t showing you her love because she is afraid that you won’t love her back the way she expects to be loved. The way she deserves to be loved.

She isn’t showing you her vulnerabilities and insecurities because she’s been keeping them hidden inside for far too long. Because she doesn’t want to give you a chance to use them against her.

She doesn’t trust you because she had her trust violated multiple times before. She doesn’t rely on you because she learned that she is the only person she can count on.

This girl doesn’t give you her entire heart because she is afraid that she’ll end up losing herself if she does something like this once again.

Vi sta allontanando perché cerca di difendersi. Sta cercando di proteggere i suoi sentimenti comportandosi come se non ne avesse.

Cerca di proteggersi da tutte le lacrime e da tutto il dolore emotivo che potreste causarle se ve lo permettesse.

She isn’t making you a priority because she is scared that you’ll put her last.

That you’ll start taking her for granted and that you’ll stop trying, the moment you see you have her. That you’ll start thinking that she’ll always stay by your side, no matter what. Because trust me—she won’t.

Ti volterà le spalle nel momento in cui vedrà che non sei l'uomo che merita di averla. Nel momento in cui vedrà che la stai maltrattando.

Si allontanerà da voi non appena noterà una mancanza di apprezzamento, di rispetto o di amore in questa relazione.

D'altra parte, se si dimostrarle che siete degni del suo amore then trust me—this girl will love you like no other. You just have to be patient.