I migliori esempi di lettera d'amore al fidanzato a distanza

When you and your BF are far away from each other, you don’t have the chance to declare your love as often as you’d want. Since you can’t talk to him in person all the time, you want to put your feelings into words and you got the idea to write a love letter to long distance boyfriend.

Che meraviglia! Inoltre, è molto meglio che mettere una canzone d'amore sulla sua bacheca dei social media o inviargli un mucchio di emoji d'amore su WhatsApp. Una lettera a distanza scritta a mano lettera d'amore è molto più personale e lo lascerà sicuramente a bocca aperta.

If it’s his birthday, Valentine’s day, or il vostro anniversario and you’re out of gift ideas- I assure you that this will be the best gift he’ll ever receive. Just seeing an envelope with your name on it will make his heart skip a beat.

But this doesn’t mean that you have to wait for a special occasion to scrivi una lettera al tuo uomo. In fact, you’ll probably surprise your loved one even more if you send it just because.

Potete ravvivare il tutto inserendo nella busta una vostra foto o aggiungendo una Aprire quando Scheda (you tell him when to open the letter- Open when you miss me, Open when it’s your birthday, Open when we get into a fight, Open when you’re having a hard day…).

L'elenco definitivo delle lettere d'amore al fidanzato a distanza

So, if you dig this idea but you’re not sure about how to pen your feelings down- I’ve got you covered. Here are some sample lettere d'amore per lui che lo farà piangere a dirotto.

#1 Lettera al fidanzato a distanza

Al mio dolce amore,

Darling, I know we’re so far apart right now, but I want you to know that I feel your closeness now more than I ever have before.

You know how they say that distance makes the heart grow fonder? Well, I guess they’re right.

Perché Ti amo ora più che mai.

At first, I know I was a little hesitant about this whole long-distance thing, and I wasn’t sure if we could make it work.

Ma ora sono così felice di essermi fatta convincere da te, perché questa relazione a distanza è stata di gran lunga la cosa migliore della mia vita. Voglio che tu sappia che ti penso sempre.

I think about you the moment I wake up because for a split second I expect to see your face right next to mine, but when I turn around I realize that you’re not there.

In quel momento il mio cuore affonda un po' e mi vengono le lacrime agli occhi. Ma poi ricordo la promessa che ci siamo fatti e scelgo di essere forte. Per te, per me e per il nostro rapporto.

Devo ammettere che ho la mia buona dose di giorni difficili. There are days when I fall on hard times and I don’t think I can do this.

Ci sono giorni in cui l'unica cosa che vorrei fare è lasciarmi tutto alle spalle, prendere il primo aereo per venire da te e godermi te più di quanto potrei mai fare su Skype, FaceTime o WhatsApp.

Ma poi mi ricompongo e mi rendo conto di quanto sarebbe sciocco. Dopo tutto, questo non è per sempre.

You’re going to come back and we’re going to be just as happy as we were back in scuola superiore.

Ricordi come ci scrivevamo quelle piccole note d'amore fingendo di sapere cosa fosse l'amore a distanza?

I’d write you those messaggi d'amore carini con citazioni d'amore every time we weren’t in class together.

We’d hang out during recess, after school, and every single night, never getting bored of each other.

Le mancano mai quei giorni?

Eravamo solo due giovani ragazzi, innamorati pazzi, che si scrivevano stupide lettere d'amore a distanza, fingendo di essere mondi lontani quando invece eravamo a pochi passi l'uno dall'altro.

Se solo sapessimo allora quello che sappiamo adesso. Le cose hanno davvero uno strano modo di risolversi.Voglio ringraziarvi per avermi dimostrato che nessuna distanza può separare un amore così forte.

Mi sento davvero fortunato ad essere al tuo fianco, anche se per ora siamo fisicamente lontani. Insomma, cos'è la distanza?

You’re only a phone call away and our constant chains of text messages get the job done that I barely even realize you’re not there half the time!

I feel you with me all the time – I’ve never felt that way with anyone else.

I’m no stranger to long-distance love, but it never really worked out for me in the past. And now I know why – because none of them were you!

Ci vuole un uomo vero to be able to make a woman feel so damn loved even when he’s mille a chilometri di distanza. E tesoro, mi fai sentire amata come non avrei mai pensato fosse possibile!

I hope you know how much I love you. I hope you never question my loyalty because I’d never do anything to jeopardize what we have. You’re too precious to me.

Dopo tutti quei barboni con cui uscivo, finalmente so cosa si prova a stare con un uomo che sa prendersi cura della propria donna.

I finally feel as loved as I should’ve felt a long time ago. But thank God it never worked out in the past because you’re the best thing that’s ever happened to me.

And I’d gladly go through all the heartbreak again if it would lead me back to you!

I will love you through thick and thin, through all of our ups and downs, on the days you don’t love yourself.

I’ll cherish you when you’re here and even more so when you’re away.

If there’s one thing I’ve learned from our long-distance relationship, it’s that once you find something worth fighting for, you never let it go.And that is my promise to you. I won’t let you go no matter how challenging it gets.

I won’t let you go when this distance thing becomes too much to handle.

I can’t promise that I won’t shed a tear every now and then, because Mi manchi da morire!

But knowing that every single day I’m a day closer to seeing you is what helps me push forward.

E infine, voglio ringraziarvi per avermi fatto credere in amore vero di nuovo.

Sapete tutto delle mie disgrazie passate e dei miei cuori infranti. Sai quanto sia stato difficile per me abbattere di nuovo i miei muri. E tu sei stato così paziente e delicato con me.

You never pressured me. You never made me feel like I wasn’t worth the wait.

You were there and you made me feel like love was still an option for me, and you’ve kept on proving it ever since.

I’ve never met a man quite as phenomenal as you, my love. I’ve never really known how deeply one can be loved until you showed me all I was missing.

And now, I feel more in love with a man who’s hundreds of miles away than I ever did with someone who was right beside me. And that says something.

So now, even though we’re worlds apart, I’m writing you this lettera d'amore come segno del mio amore eterno.

We may not be able to kiss each other, hold each other, or be each other’s rock in person for the time being.

But when you know that a person’s there for you regardless of the miles separating you, then you’re certain you’ve found something special.

And you, my sweet love, are the most special person I’ve ever let into my life.

Ti amerò finché il sole non cesserà di splendere e gli uccelli non canteranno più.

Ora e per sempre,

Il vostro unico e solo

#2 Lettera al fidanzato a distanza

Ciao a te,

You know I’m not a romantic type so I bet this is the last thing you expected from me. But here I am, writing you a love letter.

That’s right- just like in those old romantic movies I usually roll my eyes on. Well, I guess love changes us all. At least, it changed me.

It’s been exactly 176 days, 11 hours, and 17 minutes since I last hugged you. But hey, who’s counting?

Durante questo periodo, abbiamo scambiato un paio di migliaia di messaggi di testo. And all of them were great but I’m pretty sick and tired of not being able to pour my heart out to you the way I would want it to.

Inoltre, c'è qualcosa di così grazioso e sofisticato in una vera lettera.

So I guess I am a hopeless romantic, after all. I’m picturing you, opening the mailbox, expecting to find another electricity bill or something like that.

Ma eccola lì, una piccola e graziosa busta con il vostro nome sopra, che vi invita ad aprirla. È meglio che non pensiate due volte a chi ve l'ha mandata! Lol!

No, the paper isn’t all wet because of my tears- it’s my perfume. I know we can’t be next to each other and that’s why I sprayed it all over the entire letter- so you could have a trace of me miles away.

You must be wondering if I have something important to tell you. Is it something I don’t have the courage to tell you in person so I decided to write you this nota d'amore?

Don’t worry- it’s nothing like that. I’m just writing to tell you that you’re the love of my life. I know you know that but hey, it can’t hurt to hear it again, can it?

I have to admit it: there are days when I’m frightened to death that we won’t make it. I get an anxiety attack just by thinking that this damn distance will manage to do us apart.Poi, cerco di immaginare la mia vita senza di te per un solo secondo. E solo quel momento mi basta per essere certo di una cosa: io e te passeremo l'eternità insieme.

You know how I know? Because it’s impossible for me to see my future without you by my side.

I don’t care how physically apart we are- what matters is that our hearts are always near. I don’t exist without you. You give my life meaning and our final union is the only thing I’m looking forward to.

In fact, it’s pretty much the only thing that’s keeping me alive. The only thing that gives me what it takes to make it through all the bad days, through all the storms and hardships. The only thing that’s keeping my head above the surface.

The point is that I would drown if I didn’t have you. You’re the silver lining to my every cloud and the light to all of my darkest tunnels.

Dicono che il vostro persone care are usually your weaknesses. But that’s not how things roll when it comes to us.

On contrary, you’re my biggest strength. You’re the motivation that helps me wake up every morning. In fact, I would probably never fall asleep if I weren’t picturing the two of us finally together.

It’s like I’m looking at us right now, as we speak. I imagine us with two kids, a golden retriever, a white-fenced house, and the whole package- you know, just like in the movies.

Ma anche se nulla di tutto ciò si trasformasse in realtà, voglio che tu sappia una cosa: tu da solo saresti più che sufficiente per me. Sì, voglio essere la madre dei tuoi figli e vivo per il giorno in cui we’ll get married e comprare una casa insieme.

Fino ad allora, dovrò accontentarmi del lato vuoto del mio male ogni sera. Devo accontentarmi dei tuoi messaggi del buongiorno e della buonanotte e di guardare il tuo bel viso su Skype o FaceTime.

Tuttavia, ciò che conta di più è averti al mio fianco, in un modo o nell'altro. E spero davvero che saremo presto l'uno accanto all'altra.

I’m not talking about weekends or visits. I’m talking about really being next to each other.

I hope that our happily ever after is close and that I won’t have to wait for eternity until it becomes real life and not just my dream.

In fact, I don’t only hope- I’m sure in us like I’ve never been sure about anything in my life so far. Some people keep telling me not to expect too much because long-distance romances don’t always end well.

I’ve even heard comments that I’m wasting precious years of my youth waiting for you. But I know that’s not true.So che quello che abbiamo è reale. So che questo è amore vero e nessuno può farmi cambiare idea.

I don’t trust you because of your promises only. I don’t trust you because of everything you do for me.

Non ho dubbi su di voi perché sento che mi ami. I feel it even when we’re physically apart and even when there is an ocean between us.

I feel it with every inch of my being and with every atom of my body. I feel it because you’re my second half and my soulmate. And that’s how I know you’ll be la mia persona per sempreAnche.

Potrebbe sembrare una sciocchezza, ma ogni volta che vedo una sequenza ripetuta di numeri, I know that’s you thinking of me. And I smile because I know that you also know.

Isn’t that strange? If someone told me a few years ago that it’s possible to be this connected with the person you only see in person a few times a year, I wouldn’t believe them.

But here we are, proving that miracles do exist. Proving that we’re stronger than all the obstacles on our way and proving that we’re invincible.

Please, let’s just stay that way. I’m not asking anything from life besides that- for our relationship to remain perfect as it is. And of course, to spend the rest of my mornings waking up next to you.

Ti amo and I always will- please don’t ever forget that.

#3 Lettera al fidanzato a distanza per il suo compleanno

I don’t know when exactly you’ll get this but please, open when the clock strikes midnight on your birthday. (scrivetelo sulla busta!)

Al mio persona speciale sul suo giorno speciale,

Don’t worry- I haven’t run out of gift ideas. Your birthday present is on its way (or maybe it already arrived), so see this letter as a long birthday card.

Prima di augurarti buon compleanno, voglio fare una piccola riflessione sulla nostra bellissima storia d'amore.

You don’t have to believe me but from the first time I saw you, I knew you’d make a difference in my life. And that’s exactly what you did: you rocked my world from across the world.

That’s why I celebrate il tuo compleanno è anche il mio giorno. Celebro il giorno della tua nascita perché, senza di te, nulla sarebbe più come prima nella mia vita.

I am so sad that I can’t be next to you on this special day. It breaks my heart not being able to throw you a real sorpresa di compleanno o guardarti mentre soffi le candeline sulla tua torta di compleanno.

I want to cry every time I imagine you waking up alone, in a cold bed on your birthday morning. Please, don’t let my absence ruin your big day. I’m begging you to have a blast with your friends and to enjoy your birthday as much as you can.

I can promise you this: it’s your last birthday without me. This time, next year, all of our plans will come through and we’ll finally be forever together.

You’ll watch the clock strike midnight holding my hand. I’ll give you il bacio più succoso di sempre, I’ll bring you a birthday breakfast in bed and we’ll spend the entire day together, haunting for your surprises.

You know I’d give anything to make all of that happen this year as well but sadly, it can’t be done. I would cry my eyes out if it would do me any good but it is what it is- for now. The only thing that’s keeping me alive is hope that soon, all of this will be over.

Ogni volta che mi manchi (praticamente ogni secondo di ogni giorno), prendo una delle tue vecchie camicie e ci dormo dentro. Cerco di non lavarle il più a lungo possibile, così posso sentire il tuo profumo.

Whenever I miss you, I remember how far we’ve come and our journey puts a smile back on my face. I bet you didn’t forget the two of us a few years ago.

We were basically a couple of teenagers who didn’t have a clue about what they were doing with their lives. We were frightened and we both had our share of doubts that this would never work.Oh ragazzi, quanto ci siamo sbagliati! Non avevamo idea come questi relazioni a distanza rotolo uniforme. Ma sapevamo una cosa: che ci amavamo.

Qualcuno potrebbe definirci coraggiosi. Tuttavia, so solo che avevamo fiducia l'uno nell'altro. Credo che entrambi sapessimo che eravamo destinati a stare insieme fin dal primo giorno.

That’s how it goes with soulmates- you recognize each other. And that’s exactly what happened to us: we clicked and we bonded.

Eccoci qui, a distanza di anni da quel momento, ancora insieme. Sì, questi anni senza di te sono stati così lunghi.

But I’m sure about one thing: each day was worth it because it brought us together to our final goal. Each tear, each “I miss you” love message, every time we had to fall asleep alone, every event we had to attend without our plus ones, all the hardships… it was all worth it.

It wasn’t easy- I’ll be honest with you. I had my ups and downs. There were days when I wanted to leave everything behind and catch the first plane that would lead me straight in your arms.

Quando ero arrabbiata con te perché non mi stavi vicino ogni volta che avevo voglia di baciarti. Quando morivo di gelosia solo vedendo le mie amiche fare cose apparentemente ordinarie con i loro fidanzati, come tenersi per mano, passare una giornata a caso su una spiaggia o andare a fare shopping.

Tutti quei capodanni, anniversari, Natali e altre date importanti che abbiamo dovuto trascorrere separati. Mi si spezza il cuore solo a ricordarlo.

All those Happy Birthday songs I had to sing to you over the phone, all those times you weren’t here to hold me when I needed them most, and all those text emojis that should have been real kisses. All that distance…

Nevertheless, I’m not sorry- not even a bit. I don’t see these years as wasted.

Instead, I think that they’ve only made our love more powerful. I think I care for you this deeply partially because I know how it feels to live without you.

As much as this distance sucks, I guess it brought something good along. Ironically, even though we’re physically apart most of the time, exactly that situation is what brought us spiritually closer.I appreciate your presence because I’m constantly aware of your absence. I never thought of taking you for granted because even when we’re together, I know it’s not permanent.

So, when we finally unite, I promise you one thing: I won’t spend a minute away from you. I’ll be the clingiest girlfriend you could ever imagine. And I’m not even ashamed to admit it.

I’ll spoil you and every day will feel like it’s your birthday.

I miss you all the time but today, I miss you more than ever. And I live for the day when I won’t have to miss you anymore.

Ti amo a pezzi, ora, per sempre e per sempre. Avere il il compleanno più felice di sempre!

#4 Lettera di ringraziamento al mio fidanzato a distanza

Al mio unico e solo,

I tell you that I love you all the time but I can’t remember what was the last time I told you one simple grazie. It’s not your birthday, our anniversary, or Valentine’s day but I just want you to know how much I appreciate everything you’re doing for me.

I would be nothing without you. You’re my rock and my biggest support.

I won’t lie- both of us know that sometimes, I can be weak. I tend to lose hope and fall into desperation quite easily. But when that happens, it’s enough for me to see your name on my phone screen.

E così, in un batter d'occhio, tutti i miei pensieri ansiosi spariscono. Mi basta sentire la tua voce per sentirmi calma e più forte che mai.

You’re the one who brought us here. You’re the one who kept convincing me that we had what it took to overcome all the obstacles on the way.

Quello che continuava a promettere che tutto sarebbe andato bene e che potevamo uscire vivi da questa relazione di coppia.

Well, guess what- you were right all along. The truth is that we still haven’t beaten this distance but we’re almost there.

We’ve never been closer to our goal and happy ending. And that’s all because of you.

Quindi grazie per questo. Grazie per essere il miglior fidanzato del mondo.

Grazie per avermi sopportato fin dal primo giorno della nostra LDR. So che a volte posso essere una vera spina nel fianco.

So che gestirmi non è un gioco da ragazzi. Ma in qualche modo hai trovato il modo di farlo.

Hai trovato il modo di lottare con i miei demoni e di scacciarli tutti. Hai trovato il modo di lottare con le mie tenebre e di tirarmi fuori da esse.

Hai trovato un modo per combattere tutte le mie paure.

So, thank you for being my savior. Yes, you’re not just my BF- you’re also my own personal superman.

But I have to admit you something- I still haven’t gotten one fear- the biggest of them all. I’m still dead scared of losing you.Don’t get me wrong: it’s not that I feel this way because of something you do. Your actions don’t make me insecure in any way possible.

It’s just that I couldn’t stand the fact of having to go through life alone. Yes, you’re not here next to me all the time but just knowing that you and I sleep under the same sky every night gives me comfort.

I think I would literally die if I didn’t have the chance to call you whenever I’m upset or hurt. You’re the only one who gives me the tranquillity I desperately need whenever I feel like I’m about to lose my mind.

Grazie per essere la mia migliore amica. Sai, quando dico a tutti che io e te siamo migliori amiche, lo penso davvero.

Sì, ho le mie amiche, ma nessuna può competere con te. Hai questa straordinaria capacità di sii il mio amante e il mio migliore amico at the same time and that’s something no man before you could ever do.

You’re there to hear me out. Come on, how many nights have you spent on the phone, listening to me sob uncontrollably for some silly thing that didn’t even matter in the morning?

But you never told me to back off. You’ve never accused me of being a drama queen (even when that was the least you could call me).

You’ve never been too busy or too tired to deal with my issues.

Instead, you’ve always been there. Even though you couldn’t hold my hand, you were to console me with your soothing voice.

Lì per condividere il silenzio con me, lì per ascoltare i miei infiniti problemi, lì per asciugare le mie lacrime e lì per riportare il sorriso sul mio volto.

And that’s exactly what makes you my person and my life partner.

Thank you for showering me with positivity every time I’m down. You’re the one who turned me into the most optimistic girl ever.

Perché ogni volta che ho pensato che non ci fosse via d'uscita, mi hai mostrato la luce. Ogni volta che ero convinto che tutto fosse perduto, mi hai dimostrato il contrario.

Grazie per aver abbattuto i muri intorno al mio cuore. Per aver guarito tutti i miei traumi profondamente radicati e per avermi mostrato che il vero amore esiste.Grazie per avermi mostrato che non tutti gli uomini sono uguali e per avermi ridato fiducia nell'amore. Grazie per avermi dimostrato che i veri gentiluomini non sono una specie estinta e che i principi su cavalli bianchi esistono davvero.

Soprattutto, grazie per avermi accettata così come sono. Grazie per avermi rispettata come persona e come donna.

Grazie per non avermi mai chiesto di cambiare e per amare tutte le mie imperfezioni (e sappiamo entrambi che ce ne sono molte).

Grazie per avermi mostrato che i chilometri non sono nulla e che, quando l'amore è reale, anche la distanza più grande può essere colmata.

Grazie per avermi regalato la più bella storia d'amore di sempre.

Grazie per avermi reso felice. Grazie per avermi amato e per avermi permesso di amarti. Grazie per avermi insegnato cos'è l'amore.

Grazie per avermi dimostrato che sono amabile e per avermi insegnato come amare me stesso– I really needed that more than anything. Thank you for convincing me that I’m enough just the way I am.

Thank you for showing me my worth. Hey, if a guy thinks I’m valuable enough to love me from this much distance, that’s got to mean something, doesn’t it?

My heart beats for you only. You’re the l'amore della mia vita and I couldn’t be more grateful for that. Despite all the space between us, I love you more and more with every day that comes.

Per concludere:

Whichever letter to long distance boyfriend you choose- you won’t go wrong. Don’t worry about not writing it by yourself- you can always add an inside joke or something like that to make it more personalized.

Trust me: it’s your loving intention that counts.