10 tipos de namorados que vão tornar a sua vida um inferno

O amor é difícil, tal como as relações, especialmente com todas estas tendências de encontros como o ghosting e o love bombing.

E ainda por cima, há alguns tipos de homens muito maus que deve evitar como a peste, porque eles vão tornar a sua vida num inferno.

Even as you’re reading this now, someone popped into your head and you can remember the hell he put you through.

I’m sure that you even know more types of men to add to this list but these are the worst of the worst.

Acabado de sair de uma relação

These men are never ready to fully commit to you and give you what you need and that’s a steady and healthy relationship.

He’s too stuck in the past to look to the future. Maybe he’s just using you as a rapariga de recuperação ou tentou esconder o facto de ter acabado de sair de uma relação, o que é ainda pior.

He’s not honest with you from the very beginning and you can’t expect a healthy relationship if it was built on dishonest foundations.

The worst thing he can do to you is lead you on until you fall in love madly and deeply, and just when you think that you’re getting there, he’s not ready to move on.

He’s not ready for another serious relationship and the moment he realizes it, he will ghost you.

Homens sem ambição

Men who have no ambitions will always hold you back. They’re perfectly fine with being stuck in one place, doing nothing and living from day to day.

You can’t expect a future with that kind of man because he’s not interested in working for it.

And even if you try to motivate him, you’ll just end up losing your own motivation.

There’s nothing less attractive than men with no ambitions, especially these days where you need to put in one hell of an effort to make your life good.

Homens com problemas de raiva

One moment he’s fine, the next all hell breaks loose. Men with anger issues will hide this for as long as they can but you can actually see the signs of this.

If something isn’t done his way, he gets all nervous, pissed and he shuts down completely.

He’s not interested in talking about it, he’s not interested in looking for a solution. And trust me, the only thing he’s interested in is screaming and punching something.

If you ever come across this type of man, run for your life, because who can say that one day you won’t be the one he punches?

Viciados em trabalho

Ao contrário dos homens pouco ambiciosos, elas só pensam no trabalho, no sucesso e no esforço.

Mas o que acontece quando precisamos que ele abrande e aproveite o momento connosco?

For him, work is the only priority in his life. He can tell you that it’s not like that but when you need him, he’s at work.

When he’s late to dinner, you know he’s at work. When he leaves you hanging, you know he did it because of work.

And you can’t expect him to make you and his relationship with you his priority, because work is the only love of his life that he’s willing to make sacrifices for.

Homens possessivos

Estes são os homens que agem como sanguessugas emocionais. Por causa da sua possessividade, lentamente tiram-nos tudo aquilo de que gostamos.

Quando queres passar algum tempo com os teus amigos, ele faz-te sentir culpada e obriga-te a ficar com ele.

Quando precisas de ver a tua família, ele vai contigo ou faz-te ficar em casa mais uma vez.

They’re good at manipulating and getting what they want, which is you. And he practically has no life of his own, so he takes away yours as well.

He will act all clingy and needy, while justifying it with being so in love with you that he can’t think about anything or anyone else.

Homens emocionalmente imaturos

These men are selfish by nature and generally believe that their way is the only way. And when things don’t go as planned, they pull away and disappear.

They’re never about fixing the problem, that’s not really their thing.

It’s much easier to give up and move on to the next victim.

Outro sinal de um homem emocionalmente imaturo is that he’s unable to commit. For him, love is nothing but a game and there’s no need to be serious if you’re just playing.

But the thing is, he’ll be playing with your emotions and your heart, not his.

Maníacos por controlo

Also, masters of manipulations and mind games are control freaks. He believes that his way is the only way but he won’t do it obviously.

He will slowly manipulate you into doing things his way that it’s actually terrifying when you think about it.

O jogo dele é a crítica constante até começares a duvidar de ti própria e dos teus conhecimentos, para que vás ter com ele para pedir ajuda. Nessa altura, é muito mais fácil para ele manipulá-la ainda mais.

He also criticizes your friends and family, assuring you that they’re bad for you and that he is the only one who wants you.

Once his game finishes, he’s the only one you can count on, because he has driven away all the other people from your life.

Fodilhão

Rapazes de merda are good at one thing—seducing women. His game will make you fall head over heels for him and leave you thinking that he’s the only one out there.

Ele faz-nos sentir a mulher mais sortuda do mundo, a mais espantosa e a mais bonita, e basicamente vicia-nos no seu amor.

But let’s be real, he’s not able to commit. Or love at all, to be honest.

You will fall for him so deeply that once he leaves, it’ll take you eternities to get out of it.

And while you’re with him, you’ll constantly wonder why you can’t keep him and if he is cheating on you.

A incapacidade dele de se manter fiel vai tirar-lhe a confiança e nenhum homem vale isso.

Homens emocionalmente indisponíveis

If you’ve ever been in a relationship with someone evasive, who constantly makes excuses or simply never talks about their feelings, you know the pain of loving someone emotionally unavailable.

Utilizam a crítica, a manipulação ou a raiva para criar uma distância entre os dois, o que faz com que se sinta deprimido, destroçado ou rejeitado.

When you’re in love with someone emotionally unavailable, you feel like a constant giver, like you’re screaming at a brick wall and nothing is happening.

He won’t even blink, while you’re falling apart on the other side. And that’s what breaks you in the end.

Narcisista

O pior dos piores. Um inferno ambulante, uma maldição com cara de anjo.

Manipulam-nos até ao esquecimento, fazendo-nos acreditar que não somos ninguém e que devemos estar gratos por o termos na nossa vida.

How screwed up it is to be grateful for your abuser but they’re that good at the manipulation game.

He uses you to feel better about himself, stripping you naked of your confidence and self-love until there’s nothing but pain and hatred left. And before you even know it, you have nothing.

You have lost everything that made you who you are and he’s the one who took it.

E detetar um narcisista is not an easy task, that’s why they are so dangerous.

But if you do spot one, run away as fast as you can. He’s nothing but a leech who will leave a trail of pain behind.