4 sinais de que os sinais mistos dele significam que ele não está interessado em sair com você
Não há nada mais frustrante no mundo dos encontros do que um rapaz que mostra que está interessado e depois deixa de estar.
You don’t even realize he’s benching you. You make excuses for him, and then you say he’s sending you mixed signals.
Adivinha o quê? Não há sinais contraditórios. É preciso ter mais cuidado quando ler um homem.
Estes são os sinais de que ele não está interessado em namorar consigo:
He doesn’t want to know more about you and your life.
He doesn’t want to understand you better. The truth is, when we like someone very much, we want to know everything about that person.
We want to know what their mother’s maiden last name was, who their best friend in school was, and what kind of pizza they like.
If you like someone, you’re dying to get more information about them.
So, if he doesn’t ask you to tell him something about yourself or your life, he is sending you signals that he’s not interested in getting to know you better and dating you.
Ele espera demasiado tempo para a convidar para o próximo encontro.
He doesn’t seem determined to see you again and he waits a few days to call. That can be a clear sign that he isn’t really feeling it.
Maybe the reason he still invites you out from time to time is the fact that he has nothing else to do—he is just looking for someone to kill time with.
O que se passa é que ele continua a enviar-lhe mensagens de texto entre os encontros, só para se manter em contacto e mantê-la informada.
Mas, se gostarmos realmente de alguém, faremos um esforço para encontrar algum tempo e passá-lo com essa pessoa especial.
Hot and cold behavior like this clearly doesn’t send that message!
He doesn’t share much about himself.
If he is not interested in sharing things about himself, that’s a bad sign, too.
A troca de informações sobre nós próprios significa que estamos a construir a nossa relação sobre uma boa base.
But, if a guy doesn’t really want to date you, he won’t bother to make that effort.
Ele tem sempre uma desculpa.
He couldn’t make it because his fish died. He stayed at work late. Yup, the dog ate his homework, too.
If a guy showers you with excuses, it’s because he doesn’t really want to let you go, but he also doesn’t really want to date you.
Ele não sabe o que deve fazer consigo.
Se ele quiser namorar consigo, vai arranjar tempo e aparecer, levá-la a sair, enviar-lhe mensagens e telefonar-lhe. Ele não vai fazer jogos de "quente e frio" consigo.
Boys play games—men don’t.
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