5 coisas de que os narcisistas têm mais medo
Narcissistic people love to show off and to act like they’re scared of nothing, but that is far from the truth. Narcissists are actually big babies when things get turned around on them.
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Today we bring you 5 things that will rock every narcissist’s world.
1. Rejeição e abandono
When a narcissist feels rejected, he will get mad – pardon, he will rage. He will do anything in his power to make threats to you and make you feel bad. When you reject him, this means you rejected everything he wants you to see and believe he is, and it makes him question his own existence and everything he stands for.
Also, leaving him is out of the question and he will do everything he can to make you stay. He is too afraid to confront his own emptiness and that’s why he needs you actually. He will fight tooth and nail to avoid it, even if it means he has to destroy you in the process.
2. Ser ignorado
Ignorá-lo é literalmente uma das as piores coisas que se pode fazer a um narcisista. Alimenta-se de atenção e, sem ela, perde o seu combustível narcísico e tem uma morte lenta.
Se ele se sentir ignorado, dar-lhe-á razões para o odiar; pelo menos assim reconhecerá a sua existência e a atenção negativa ainda é melhor do que nenhuma atenção.
3. Crítica
Criticar toda a gente à sua volta é basicamente o seu trabalho, mas eles detestam ser criticados. Criaram inconscientemente um mecanismo de defesa contra tudo o que as faça sentir imperfeitas ou rotuladas como toda a gente.
They lose rationality and common sense when their weaknesses and vulnerability are exposed – it truly terrifies them.
4. Ser gozado
A narcissist is completely incapable of ever laughing at himself. Why? Because he has no sense of humor but you can be sure that he’ll laugh at you when you fall and break your arm or chuckle at someone else’s discomfort.
You wouldn’t believe it, but narcissists are very sensitive.
The only problem is that their sensitivity doesn’t extend toward anyone else but themselves. As he is constantly trying to present himself in the best light, poking at his facade or even worse, at his true self, will confront him with that terrifying emptiness that constantly haunts him.
5. Ser desrespeitado
Let’s be honest, all of the things mentioned above can be acceptable to a normal person, but being disrespected is something we’re all afraid of. Of course, a narcissist will take this to another level.
This fear hunts a narcissist all the time and just thinking about it gives him imaginary personal attacks even when they don’t exist.
Mais uma vez, expõe a sua verdadeira face, aquela que está constantemente a tentar esconder.
Desrespeitar um narcisista desencadeia todos os mecanismos de defesa que ele é capaz de ter e ele usa a raiva, a mentira, a projeção, a negação e o falso afeto só para manter a fachada e evitar o horror de reconhecer que perdeu a sua verdadeira face.
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