Le 5 cose di cui i narcisisti hanno più paura
Narcissistic people love to show off and to act like they’re scared of nothing, but that is far from the truth. Narcissists are actually big babies when things get turned around on them.
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Today we bring you 5 things that will rock every narcissist’s world.
1. Rifiuto e abbandono
When a narcissist feels rejected, he will get mad – pardon, he will rage. He will do anything in his power to make threats to you and make you feel bad. When you reject him, this means you rejected everything he wants you to see and believe he is, and it makes him question his own existence and everything he stands for.
Also, leaving him is out of the question and he will do everything he can to make you stay. He is too afraid to confront his own emptiness and that’s why he needs you actually. He will fight tooth and nail to avoid it, even if it means he has to destroy you in the process.
2. Essere ignorati
Ignorarlo è letteralmente una delle le cose peggiori che si possono fare a un narcisista. Si nutre di attenzioni e senza di esse perde il suo carburante narcisistico e muore lentamente.
Se si sente ignorato, vi darà dei motivi per odiarlo; almeno in questo modo riconoscerete la sua esistenza e un'attenzione negativa è sempre meglio di nessuna attenzione.
3. Critica
Criticare tutti coloro che li circondano è praticamente il loro lavoro, ma odiano essere criticati. Hanno inconsciamente creato un meccanismo di difesa contro tutto ciò che li fa sentire imperfetti o etichettati come tutti gli altri.
They lose rationality and common sense when their weaknesses and vulnerability are exposed – it truly terrifies them.
4. Essere presi in giro
A narcissist is completely incapable of ever laughing at himself. Why? Because he has no sense of humor but you can be sure that he’ll laugh at you when you fall and break your arm or chuckle at someone else’s discomfort.
You wouldn’t believe it, but narcissists are very sensitive.
The only problem is that their sensitivity doesn’t extend toward anyone else but themselves. As he is constantly trying to present himself in the best light, poking at his facade or even worse, at his true self, will confront him with that terrifying emptiness that constantly haunts him.
5. Mancanza di rispetto
Let’s be honest, all of the things mentioned above can be acceptable to a normal person, but being disrespected is something we’re all afraid of. Of course, a narcissist will take this to another level.
This fear hunts a narcissist all the time and just thinking about it gives him imaginary personal attacks even when they don’t exist.
Ancora una volta, espone il suo vero volto, quello che cerca costantemente di nascondere.
Mancare di rispetto a un narcisista fa scattare ogni meccanismo di difesa di cui è capace e usa la rabbia, la menzogna, la proiezione, la negazione e il falso affetto solo per mantenere la facciata e per evitare l'orrore di riconoscere di aver perso il proprio vero volto.
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