5 jogos estúpidos de relacionamento que nunca deves tolerar
Infelizmente, os jogos mentais tornaram-se parte de quase todas as relações românticas actuais.
Even though a little bit of chase and uncertainty can bring sparks to your love life, you always have to respect yourself more than to agree on some childish games which serve as an ego boost to another person and which won’t bring you anywhere.
That is exactly why we’re bringing you a list of 5 immature and pointless relationship games you should never put up with, despite the depth of your feelings for someone.
1. Atuar com indiferença
Uma das piores coisas encontros modernos nos trouxe é a mentira de que sentir e, sobretudo, mostrar emoções é vergonhoso.
A exposição de vulnerabilidades é considerada como o sinal verde de que a outra pessoa tem autorização para se aproveitar de si e o magoar.
That is exactly why acting heartless and pretending to be indifferent to your loved one is sadly nothing uncommon in today’s relationships.
However, this isn’t something you should tolerate or put up with.
Besides being childish and immature, it is also a sign of weakness—it shows that you’re scared of getting hurt and that you allow your fear to control you.
It is perfectly natural that you want to feel loved and wanted by your romantic partner and requiring attention doesn’t make you pathetic or needy.
2. Jogos quentes e frios
I’m sure you’ve been in a situation where your boyfriend isn’t consistent in his behavior.
One day, he is the best man you could ever wish over: he acts like he loves you unconditionally and as if he’d never leave you.
No entanto, no momento em que se tem a certeza das suas emoções, o seu comportamento muda drasticamente. De repente, ele torna-se distante e frio.
After all this relationship experience, you’ve become sick and tired of these hot and cold mind games and you’re wondering if you should play along.
Bem, deixe-me dizer-lhe que a única coisa adulta a fazer é afastar-se de alguém que, obviamente, não está seguro de si, por muito que o ame.
3. Fazer-te ciúmes de propósito
Let’s face it—jealousy is a part of every relationship and it only shows that you’re scared of losing the person you love.
No entanto, existe uma grande diferença entre ciúme saudável e pensar que é a única prova de amor.
Por isso, se um homem está a fazer o seu melhor para a deixar ciumenta de propósito, isso só mostra as suas inseguranças profundamente enraizadas.
No, you’re not imagining things and he’s probably doing everything he can just to make you crazy and to play with you.
A guy like this is obviously nothing more than an immature brat who doesn’t deserve a place in your life, let alone you becoming exasperated over him.
4. Não saber qual é a sua posição
If a man can’t make up his mind about you, the only choice you have is to dump his sorry ass and move on with your life before he drags you into his twisted games and before it becomes too late for you to get out of this almost relationship undamaged.
The last thing you need is wasting years on someone who can’t commit and without ever being certain about where you stand.
You need a mature man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to get it.
A loyal and faithful man who won’t keep his options open and who will treat you like you’re the only woman in the world.
5. Fazer-te esperar
Uma coisa é um homem precisar de algum tempo e espaço para desanuviar a cabeça e descobrir o que quer.
No entanto, é completamente diferente se ele estiver a usar isso como uma desculpa para continuar a enganá-la durante o tempo que quiser.
Remember that you’re worth more than a guy who is trying to make you wait to make up his mind about you, who is making you wait for him to commit or who is making you wait for a simple text or phone call.
Don’t allow anyone treating you like a segunda opção and don’t ever allow yourself to put your life on hold for the sake of some other person!
