5 stupidi giochi relazionali che non dovresti mai sopportare

Purtroppo oggi i giochi mentali sono diventati parte integrante di quasi tutte le relazioni sentimentali.

Even though a little bit of chase and uncertainty can bring sparks to your love life, you always have to respect yourself more than to agree on some childish games which serve as an ego boost to another person and which won’t bring you anywhere.

That is exactly why we’re bringing you a list of 5 immature and pointless relationship games you should never put up with, despite the depth of your feelings for someone.

1. Agire con indifferenza

Una delle cose peggiori incontri moderni ci ha portato la menzogna che provare e soprattutto mostrare emozioni sia vergognoso.

Esporre le vulnerabilità è considerato il segnale di via libera che l'altra persona ha il permesso di approfittarsi di voi e di farvi del male.

That is exactly why acting heartless and pretending to be indifferent to your loved one is sadly nothing uncommon in today’s relationships.

However, this isn’t something you should tolerate or put up with.

Besides being childish and immature, it is also a sign of weakness—it shows that you’re scared of getting hurt and that you allow your fear to control you.

It is perfectly natural that you want to feel loved and wanted by your romantic partner and requiring attention doesn’t make you pathetic or needy.

2. Giochi caldi e freddi

I’m sure you’ve been in a situation where your boyfriend isn’t consistent in his behavior.

One day, he is the best man you could ever wish over: he acts like he loves you unconditionally and as if he’d never leave you.

Tuttavia, nel momento in cui si è certi delle sue emozioni, il suo comportamento cambia drasticamente. All'improvviso, diventa distante e freddo.

After all this relationship experience, you’ve become sick and tired of these hot and cold mind games and you’re wondering if you should play along.

Beh, lasciate che vi dica che l'unica cosa adulta da fare è allontanarsi da qualcuno che ovviamente non è sicuro di voi, per quanto possiate amarlo.

3. Farti ingelosire di proposito

Let’s face it—jealousy is a part of every relationship and it only shows that you’re scared of losing the person you love.

Tuttavia, esiste un'enorme differenza tra sana gelosia e pensare che sia l'unica prova d'amore.

Pertanto, se un uomo fa del suo meglio per farvi ingelosire di proposito, dimostra solo le sue insicurezze profondamente radicate.

No, you’re not imagining things and he’s probably doing everything he can just to make you crazy and to play with you.

A guy like this is obviously nothing more than an immature brat who doesn’t deserve a place in your life, let alone you becoming exasperated over him.

4. Non sapere da che parte stare

If a man can’t make up his mind about you, the only choice you have is to dump his sorry ass and move on with your life before he drags you into his twisted games and before it becomes too late for you to get out of this almost relationship undamaged.

The last thing you need is wasting years on someone who can’t commit and without ever being certain about where you stand.

You need a mature man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to get it.

A loyal and faithful man who won’t keep his options open and who will treat you like you’re the only woman in the world.

5. Farvi aspettare

Un conto è se un ragazzo ha bisogno di tempo e spazio per schiarirsi le idee e capire cosa vuole.

Tuttavia, è completamente diverso se sta usando questo come una scusa per continuare a portarti avanti per tutto il tempo che vuole.

Remember that you’re worth more than a guy who is trying to make you wait to make up his mind about you, who is making you wait for him to commit or who is making you wait for a simple text or phone call.

Don’t allow anyone treating you like a seconda scelta and don’t ever allow yourself to put your life on hold for the sake of some other person!