5 juegos tontos de pareja que nunca deberías aguantar

Tristemente, los juegos mentales se han convertido en parte de casi todas las relaciones románticas de hoy en día.

Even though a little bit of chase and uncertainty can bring sparks to your love life, you always have to respect yourself more than to agree on some childish games which serve as an ego boost to another person and which won’t bring you anywhere.

That is exactly why we’re bringing you a list of 5 immature and pointless relationship games you should never put up with, despite the depth of your feelings for someone.

1. Actuar con indiferencia

Una de las peores cosas citas modernas nos ha traído es la mentira de que sentir y, sobre todo, mostrar emociones es vergonzoso.

Exponer vulnerabilidades se considera la luz verde para que la otra persona tenga permiso para aprovecharse de ti y hacerte daño.

That is exactly why acting heartless and pretending to be indifferent to your loved one is sadly nothing uncommon in today’s relationships.

However, this isn’t something you should tolerate or put up with.

Besides being childish and immature, it is also a sign of weakness—it shows that you’re scared of getting hurt and that you allow your fear to control you.

It is perfectly natural that you want to feel loved and wanted by your romantic partner and requiring attention doesn’t make you pathetic or needy.

2. Juegos fríos y calientes

I’m sure you’ve been in a situation where your boyfriend isn’t consistent in his behavior.

One day, he is the best man you could ever wish over: he acts like he loves you unconditionally and as if he’d never leave you.

Sin embargo, en cuanto te cercioras de sus emociones, su comportamiento cambia drásticamente. De repente, se vuelve distante y frío.

After all this relationship experience, you’ve become sick and tired of these hot and cold mind games and you’re wondering if you should play along.

Pues déjame decirte que lo único adulto que puedes hacer es alejarte de alguien que obviamente no está seguro de ti, por mucho que le quieras.

3. Ponerte celoso a propósito

Let’s face it—jealousy is a part of every relationship and it only shows that you’re scared of losing the person you love.

Sin embargo, hay una gran diferencia entre celos sanos y pensando que es la única prueba de amor.

Por lo tanto, si un hombre hace todo lo posible por ponerte celosa a propósito, sólo demuestra sus inseguridades profundamente arraigadas.

No, you’re not imagining things and he’s probably doing everything he can just to make you crazy and to play with you.

A guy like this is obviously nothing more than an immature brat who doesn’t deserve a place in your life, let alone you becoming exasperated over him.

4. No saber a qué atenerse

If a man can’t make up his mind about you, the only choice you have is to dump his sorry ass and move on with your life before he drags you into his twisted games and before it becomes too late for you to get out of this almost relationship undamaged.

The last thing you need is wasting years on someone who can’t commit and without ever being certain about where you stand.

You need a mature man who knows what he wants and isn’t afraid to get it.

A loyal and faithful man who won’t keep his options open and who will treat you like you’re the only woman in the world.

5. Hacerte esperar

Una cosa es que un hombre necesite tiempo y espacio para aclarar sus ideas y saber lo que quiere.

Sin embargo, es completamente diferente si está usando esto como excusa para seguir engañándote todo el tiempo que quiera.

Remember that you’re worth more than a guy who is trying to make you wait to make up his mind about you, who is making you wait for him to commit or who is making you wait for a simple text or phone call.

Don’t allow anyone treating you like a segunda opción and don’t ever allow yourself to put your life on hold for the sake of some other person!