Estes são os 5 jogos mentais que os psicopatas emocionais fazem com as mulheres

Todos nós gostamos de pensar que somos únicos. Mas, o que normalmente esquecemos é que também somos todos humanos.

E faz parte da nossa natureza cometer erros. É da nossa natureza confiar numa pessoa, quer ela o mereça ou não.

These things can happen to anyone—no matter how special and unique they are.

Usually, women who were victims of mind games in a relationship weren’t aware they were being abused. And that is completely normal.

Being in that state of infatuation and so-called love, most women don’t get that some things shouldn’t be the way they are.

Even if they see something is wrong, they will let it slide because they think they are in love with that person—that emotional mind-playing psychopath.

That’s why it’s important to have an objective perspective of your love life. Of course, due to your head-over-heels-in-love state, you are unable to think straight.

O resultado?

No que diz respeito à sua relação e à forma de lidar com ela, precisa de apoio dos seus amigos e familiares ou de um profissional.

É impossível escrever todos os jogos mentais que as pessoas fazem umas com as outras, porque cada casal é diferente e, por isso, age de forma diferente.

However, there are some of the most common mind games emotional psychopaths play on women. If you’d like to know more about the patterns of their behavior, I suggest you check out my new book aqui.

Gaslighting

Esta é a mãe da manipulação. Todos os mestres da manipulação utilizam esta técnica para vos fazer ver ou pensar coisas que não existem.

Gaslighting é um termo psicológico definido como:

“A form of emotional abuse where the abuser manipulates situations repeatedly to trick the victim into distrusting his or her own memory and perceptions… [The term is derived] from the British play turned movie, ‘Gas Light,’ where a husband attempts to drive his wife crazy using a variety of tricks causing her to question her own perceptions and sanity.”

Culpabilização

Sempre que ele quer algo de ti e tu não estás de acordo com isso, ele faz-nos sentir culpados. Ele chantageia-nos literalmente com emoções.

For example, if he wants money from you and he asks for it all the time, the first time you say ‘no’, he will guilt-trip you.

He will say that you don’t care about him and that you don’t love him. He will do pretty much anything just to get what he wants. Destruir um psicopata é a única solução neste caso.

Ameaça

This is not just a mind game. It’s also abuso emocional e mental.

Your psycho boyfriend will threaten to leave you for every little thing. And since you are in love with him, you won’t and don’t want that to happen, so you cave in.

Esteja ciente do facto de que ele sabe isso, muito bem.

Ele sabe que vai conseguir o que quer porque tem a certeza de que o amas e que o vais ouvir.

Also, there are a lot of times when he will threaten to hurt you or your family. This is real emotional—bordering on physical—abuse.

A lot of women will give in and do what he says out of fear. Don’t be one of them!

Mudança de temas

Se alguma vez apanhaste o teu namorado psicopata numa mentira e tive a coragem de o confrontar, eu
sei que ele saiu vencedor.

You see, emotional psychopaths will somehow change the topic through your conversation—whether with an argument or sweet talk.

In the end, you will be fighting or talking about something completely different than what you were started to talk to him about. That’s one of their mind games.

They are ‘beautiful liars’

It is commonly known that emotional psychopaths are smooth liars. They lie all the time but with such skill and sweet words that you don’t even see it coming.

Mesmo que os apanhem a mentir, manter-se-ão calmos sob pressão.

Contam-vos as histórias mais inacreditáveis e vocês compram-nas.

Além disso, como já foi referido, sabem como distraí-lo com as suas palavras encantadoras.

Now, that you’ve read some of the mind games emotional psychopaths play on women, don’t stay delusional if it’s happening to you.

Don’t lie to yourself because you won’t be able to lie for much longer. Release yourself from the pain he’s causing you and just leave him.

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