5 sinais de que é mais do que um caso de uma noite

Há um número muito reduzido de pessoas que têm a capacidade emocional para se envolverem numa relação de uma noite.

Especialmente as mulheres, porque tendemos a apaixonar-nos por qualquer pessoa que nos dê atenção e esquecemo-nos do facto de que, por vezes, recebemos essa atenção de um homem apenas para que ele possa simplesmente entrar nas nossas calças.

We’ve all found ourselves in that awkward situation where we continued to text a person with whom we’ve had sex, not seeing the signs that he is not interested in us anymore.

Para evitar estas situações, há alguns sinais que mostram que é mais do que uma simples noite e que ele também desenvolveu sentimentos verdadeiros por si.

Ele envia-lhe mensagens

Most of the time, you will only get silence from a man whom you’ve hooked up with.

After that one night with you, he probably doesn’t want to stay in contact with you, simply because he wants to avoid awkwardness.

Because, hey, it was only sex for him, with no strings attached. So when he really does text you the next morning, it means that you made him think about you and the night you’ve spent together, so it was more than just sexual pleasure.

If that message is more than, “Thanks, it was fun,” and if he sends you a good morning text, it means that you’ve made an impression. It shows that he’s interested in you.

Ele menciona um segundo encontro

He tells you that he wants to see you again. He even makes plans and tells you before he goes out the door the next morning that he’s looking forward to seeing you again.

Acho que a mensagem aqui é muito clara. Ele gosta de si. Quer levar-te a um encontro a sério para te conhecer melhor. Quem sabe?

Maybe he wants the same as you do—a meaningful relationship. Also, if the sex was great, he can’t get enough of you.

He doesn’t block you on social media

If he doesn’t mind having you on his Friends List after the hook-up, he does want to have you in his life.

If he blocks you, you know it’s over, and he won’t ever have to see your face again and he’s good with that.

But in case he doesn’t block you or even more than that, he adds you on Facebook (if he didn’t already have you there) then he wants to stay in contact after that. Qualquer um destes sinais indica que ele a quer realmente na sua vida.

Ele diz-lhe logo as suas intenções

Men don’t like to play around, so he will, most probably, spill the beans.

Se ele a quiser por mais do que uma noite, vai mostrar-lhe isso com o seu comportamento; vai preparar-lhe o pequeno-almoço e dar-lhe um beijo na testa.

He won’t even make you think twice about his intentions and that’s what makes him so lovable and it shows that his intentions are good.

If he avoids the topic and is very awkward about it then it’s not likely that you two will continue to a relação séria.

Ele convida-vos para a sua casa

This is whether it’s for the first night that you hooked up or if some days have passed and he has invited you to come to his house.

Mesmo que ele só queira foder contigo, estás lá com ele, tens o privilégio de comer a comida dele, usar a casa de banho dele e ver televisão juntos.

It’s the perfect setup where you can make him see how wonderful you are.

Se um homem a deixa entrar no seu espaço privado, deve estar ciente do facto de que é muito especial para ele.

It’s kind of weird what we are ready to do to impress a guy after a one-night stand, but the important thing here is that we don’t rush it. You need to remember that if it’s not meant to be, you can’t do much about it.

Actually, you can’t do anything about it if a guy doesn’t want you to be in his life.

If all he wants is sex, why would you want to be loved only under the sheets? It’s not worth your time. It’s not worthy of your love.