5 segni che è più di una semplice avventura di una notte

C'è un numero così esiguo di persone che ha la capacità emotiva di impegnarsi davvero in un'avventura di una notte.

Soprattutto le donne, perché tendiamo a innamorarci di chiunque ci dia attenzioni e ci dimentichiamo del fatto che a volte riceviamo quelle attenzioni da un uomo solo per poter entrare nelle nostre mutande.

We’ve all found ourselves in that awkward situation where we continued to text a person with whom we’ve had sex, not seeing the signs that he is not interested in us anymore.

Per evitare queste situazioni, ci sono alcuni segnali che dimostrano che per lui siete più di una semplice avventura di una notte e che anche lui ha sviluppato dei veri sentimenti per voi.

Ti manda un messaggio

Most of the time, you will only get silence from a man whom you’ve hooked up with.

After that one night with you, he probably doesn’t want to stay in contact with you, simply because he wants to avoid awkwardness.

Because, hey, it was only sex for him, with no strings attached. So when he really does text you the next morning, it means that you made him think about you and the night you’ve spent together, so it was more than just sexual pleasure.

If that message is more than, “Thanks, it was fun,” and if he sends you a good morning text, it means that you’ve made an impression. It shows that he’s interested in you.

Parla di un secondo appuntamento

He tells you that he wants to see you again. He even makes plans and tells you before he goes out the door the next morning that he’s looking forward to seeing you again.

Credo che il messaggio sia molto chiaro. Gli piaci. Vuole uscire con te in un vero appuntamento per conoscerti meglio. Chi lo sa?

Maybe he wants the same as you do—a meaningful relationship. Also, if the sex was great, he can’t get enough of you.

He doesn’t block you on social media

If he doesn’t mind having you on his Friends List after the hook-up, he does want to have you in his life.

If he blocks you, you know it’s over, and he won’t ever have to see your face again and he’s good with that.

But in case he doesn’t block you or even more than that, he adds you on Facebook (if he didn’t already have you there) then he wants to stay in contact after that. Entrambi sono segnali che indicano che ti vuole davvero nella sua vita.

Vi dice subito le sue intenzioni

Men don’t like to play around, so he will, most probably, spill the beans.

Se vi vuole per più di una notte, ve lo dimostrerà con il suo comportamento: vi preparerà la colazione e vi darà un bacio sulla fronte.

He won’t even make you think twice about his intentions and that’s what makes him so lovable and it shows that his intentions are good.

If he avoids the topic and is very awkward about it then it’s not likely that you two will continue to a relazione seria.

Vi invita a casa sua

This is whether it’s for the first night that you hooked up or if some days have passed and he has invited you to come to his house.

Anche se vuole solo scopare con te, sei lì con lui, hai il privilegio di mangiare il suo cibo, usare il suo bagno e guardare la televisione insieme.

It’s the perfect setup where you can make him see how wonderful you are.

Se un uomo vi lascia entrare nel suo spazio privato, dovete essere consapevoli del fatto che siete molto speciali per lui.

It’s kind of weird what we are ready to do to impress a guy after a one-night stand, but the important thing here is that we don’t rush it. You need to remember that if it’s not meant to be, you can’t do much about it.

Actually, you can’t do anything about it if a guy doesn’t want you to be in his life.

If all he wants is sex, why would you want to be loved only under the sheets? It’s not worth your time. It’s not worthy of your love.