5 sinais de que ele está emocionalmente indisponível (nem se dê ao trabalho de sair com ele)
‘Emotionally unavailable’ não é um termo de género. Tanto os homens como as mulheres podem ser emocionalmente indisponível. Infelizmente, cada vez mais homens seguem esta última tendência de serem emocionalmente indisponíveis.
I don’t know is it out of fear of being hurt or because of the ‘I won’t be bound to anyone’ attitude. These guys can’t seem to open up to anyone and they certainly don’t want a commitment of any kind.
Por isso, assim que virem que as coisas se tornaram sérias entre vocês os dois, vão começar a afastar-se da relação com todo o tipo de desculpas.
To prevent yourself from dating an emotionally unavailable guy, read on and find out some of the signs that will tell you whether he’s unavailable or not.
1. Arranja sempre desculpas
He always has an excuse for everything. If you ask him out, he will politely turn you down. You won’t even know if he is uninterested or he’s just shy and uncomfortable.
That’s the catch. His excuses are ambiguous. He even may say that the timing is off and that it’s not a good time for him to date right now and crap like that.
Que se lixe! Se ele gosta mesmo de si, he wouldn’t be second-guessing his decision of spending time with you. He would fly to you if he could—if he really liked you.
2. Nunca faz planos concretos
We all have lives of our own and can’t really guarantee we will be at one place at a certain time because a lot of stuff can come up at the last minute.
Mas este tipo cancela sempre à última hora e nunca pode dizer com certeza que se vai encontrar consigo.
Again, he’s being very ambiguous. You don’t know where you stand with him. If he is acting like that now, be sure he will continue to act like that if the two of you start a relationship—ser inteligente e DON’T!
3. Vêem-se nos termos dele
He is around when he feels like it. It may happen that he pops up at your place, all of a sudden—all emotional—ready to talk about his feelings.
But guess what? This shows you he does care about needs, but only his own needs. He is not there for you when you need to talk and when you’re feeling sad.
In your time of need, he makes excuses, but when a fire is burning in his backyard, then he’s the first one to seek help to put it out.
4. He’s sending you mixed signals
He comes out strong and then he disappears. One moment, he is all over you. You are the best thing that has happened to him. He is promising you anything you can imagine. And you—stupidly enough—believe him.
Another moment, he is nowhere to be seen. You can’t reach him on his mobile; he is not calling you. You even don’t know if he’s alive or not. He seems to have disappeared from the face of the Earth.
Se os sentimentos dele em relação a si não forem consistentes, deixe-o de lado e continue a procurar alguém que realmente a mereça.
5. He doesn’t want to label your relationship
You’ve asked him a thousand times at what stage the two of you are, but you never got a full answer. He’s is avoiding telling you what he thinks and wants. That right there is a huge red flag!
Don’t let him string you along because if a certain amount of time has passed (let’s say 4-6 months) and you still don’t know where you’re standing at, believe me, nothing is going to change.
He doesn’t want to label your relationship porque ele quer-te por perto enquanto lhe convier.
Ladies, don’t waste your time with guys like that.
Sometimes, is hard to resist an ambiguous ‘bad boy’, but nothing good will come off of it.
Desaparece porque mereces mais do que isso!
