6 Mentiras comuns que pode ouvir do seu ex
Na maioria das vezes, os ex-namorados entram sorrateiramente nas nossas vidas, querendo voltar a fazer parte delas.
Sometimes it’s not even about second chances, it’s about reminding you that they are still there and that they have an influence on your life.
They might be doing it on a subconscious level but deep down they can’t really process the fact that you could actually be happy without them. They thought you couldn’t live without them.
Hell, even you thought you couldn’t but look at you, living and everything.
Apesar de ter continuado com a sua vida, tenha cuidado porque algumas emoções podem ainda ter ficado para trás e pode dar por si a cair nas suas mentiras.
Aqui está a lista das mentiras mais comuns que pode ouvir do seu ex:
1. “How are you?”
Depois de meses e meses sem qualquer contacto, de repente ele está interessado no seu bem-estar. Pois é. Onde é que ele estava quando passaste todas aquelas noites a chorar até adormeceres porque ele agia como um idiota?
Embora ele possa dizer que está apenas a ver como está ou que quer manter o contacto, provavelmente está a testar as águas. Só quer ver se ainda a pode ter de volta, se quiser. Se lhe responderes a uma mensagem, estás apenas a aumentar o ego dele.
2. “Can I come over? I just want to talk.”
Booty call alert. If all he wanted to do was talk he would ask you out to a public place. If he wants to come over, especially at night, you don’t have to think too hard about his intentions.
He is probably lonely and he might even miss you, but that doesn’t mean anything has changed. Sure, you can spend a great night together and he will probably go the next morning but that’s not something you want or need.
3. “I miss you.”
If you get this text at 2 a.m. know that he is just drunk and alone. He’s emotional and he might be regretting losing you. Those feelings of his are temporary.
Se ele fosse o homem de que precisavas, não teria necessidade de sentir a tua falta porque nunca te perderia.
4. “Nobody gets us.”
He is probably thinking about your friends and family and all the accidental bystanders who keep telling you, “You are better off without him.” Provavelmente, está a tentar vender-lhe uma história sem sentido que o que vocês tinham era especial e que ninguém podia entender isso a não ser vocês os dois.
Of course, there are tons of people who had a special relationship with their ex, but no, that doesn’t mean they are getting back together. There is a reason exes are in the past.
5. “I just want to be friends.”
Classic. It’s like saying, “I am not cut out to be your boyfriend. I am not ready to commit but I want you in my life.” Probably because you were his greatest support and someone who knew how to listen and understand.
If he hasn’t been a good boyfriend, he sure as hell doesn’t deserve to be your friend.
6. “I am really happy you are in love again.”
Of course, he is not happy for you. Ever since he saw your relationship status change, he can’t stop picturing you hooking up com outra pessoa. Somebody who isn’t him.
Ele pensou que seria dono do seu corpo e da sua mente durante toda a vida, apesar de já não fazer parte da sua vida. Esta é apenas a sua forma de entrar na sua cabeça.
