8 características de uma rapariga que consegue seduzir qualquer homem

You’re probably wondering how she does it. Well, it isn’t rocket science, it’s so much easier than that. I’ll put it as simple as it can be, right at the beginning. O segredo é sermos nós próprios.

Sê confiante e orgulhoso do que és. Mostre sempre o seu verdadeiro "eu". Deixar de estar obcecado com o que achas que alguém vai gostar, porque isso nunca serás tu.

You can only pretend to be something you’re not. Honesty beats false appearance anytime.

You’re probably thinking: “Yeah right, this is total BS. We all know that pretty girls get all the guys,” but hear me out.

Se quer atrair o tipo de homens que só se preocupam com a aparência física, esteja à vontade e faça-o.

But, if you are looking for something more serious and more meaningful, listen to advice and never try to be something that you’re not because that false picture of you will fall apart sooner or later and then you’re back to square one.

Most men want simple, down-to-earth girls to be their girlfriends and that’s why these traits win them over every single time:

Ela é auto-confiante

She is the kind of girl who knows she’s got it. She feels comfortable in her own skin and that shows.

Quando a vemos caminhar, ficamos cegos pela sua confiança que brilha de dentro para fora. Ela sabe que tem o que é preciso e usa-o para seduzir quem ela quer.

Confidence is something you can’t make or buy. You have to have it and own it.

She is so proud of who she is and she isn’t planning to change for anybody’s sake, which is totally visible from her attitude.

She doesn’t need anyone to tell her she looks like a million bucks because she already knows it.

She doesn’t need anyone to reassure her because she never doubts herself.

 Ela é independente

She can take her own shit and handle it like a ‘big girl’ without asking anyone for help. Men get so turned on by that.

They like a woman who’s competent and independent to be by their side. They want to see that girl as their potential wife and they love that she will always fight for herself and what she wants.

If a woman can’t handle her own stuff and things such as work problems, or basic, everyday stuff and asks her man for help all the time, os homens têm a sensação de estarem a ser sufocados.

Os homens odeiam absolutamente o facto de a namorada não conseguir funcionar sem eles.

Ela é inteligente e trabalhadora

It’s not sexy dating someone who acts like they never left high school. Men who interest you have matured and so have their taste in women.

Eles querem uma mulher capaz ao seu lado, alguém que seja inteligente e trabalhadora, que saiba usar o seu cérebro e fazer as suas próprias escolhas e chegar às suas próprias conclusões.

Querem mulheres que sejam iguais a eles em todos os aspectos e que os desafiem continuamente a nível intelectual.

É isso que os leva a quererem ser melhores e mais inteligentes. É isso que os leva a quererem ser as melhores versões de si próprios.

Os homens precisam de um desafio e estas mulheres têm o cérebro para os desafiar.

Ela cuida do corpo e da mente

She doesn’t have to look like a Victoria’s Secret Angel, but she takes care of her body. She nurtures it along with her mind.

She knows she needs to feel healthy in order to be healthy. She does this only because of her own sake and no one else’s, as it should be.

Ela quer parecer e sentir-se bem, não por causa do homem que está ao seu lado, mas por causa de si própria. E ele, por outro lado, sente-se orgulhoso por ela pensar e sentir-se assim.

Ela cuidará da sua mente e do seu corpo para que possa ser saudável e estável, tanto por dentro como por fora.

Ela é dedicada

She will always be by her man’s side. She will never turn her back on him. She will support him in all situations.

Even when he’s wrong, she will be there for him and try to break it to him gently that he is wrong. And she will succeed in that.

Ela será sempre fiel a ele e nunca o trairá, especialmente se estiverem comprometidos um com o outro.

Being devoted is something you either do or don’t.

Bem, os homens vêem isso e retribuem o favor. Acredite ou não, eles não são todos iguais.

Ela não é uma prostituta

Materialistic things don’t mean much to her. And that is what he really likes.

If he’s going to look for a serious relationship, he will run miles away from gold-diggers. That can be a one-night thing, but nothing more.

This doesn’t mean that men will never surprise women with something shiny or any kind of a gift.

It only means they don’t like women who are obsessed with material stuff and who are asking for it all the time.

This kind of girl deserves all the surprises and gifts because she doesn’t ache for them.

Ela nunca lhe vai roubar a virilidade

She will let him act like a man. She knows that women are one thing and men are completely another. She will never make him do ‘girly’ stuff because she knows that is the place to draw the line.

Ela nunca se importará quando ele sair com os rapazes, porque gosta de ver jogos ou porque anda a ver outras mulheres.

That is something every guy does and if he tells you he doesn’t, he’s lying. But that’s all completely normal.

She knows she can’t change himPor isso, ela aceita-o como ele é.

Ela faz com que os homens queiram melhorar

Ela é tão boa que fará com que qualquer homem dê o seu melhor. Ela fará com que ele se questione sobre si próprio e fará com que ele traga as armas grandes e leve as coisas a sério.

Ela estará lá para os dois, para o bem e para o mal, e fá-los-á querer tornar-se pessoas ainda melhores do que já são.

Men find themselves thinking about a future that is different and better. They act more responsible and there is one simple reason for that—her.