You’re probably wondering how she does it. Well, it isn’t rocket science, it’s so much easier than that. I’ll put it as simple as it can be, right at the beginning. The key is to be yourself.
Be confident and proud of what you are. Show your true self every time. Stop obsessing over what you think someone will like because that will never be you.
You can only pretend to be something you’re not. Honesty beats false appearance anytime.
You’re probably thinking: “Yeah right, this is total BS. We all know that pretty girls get all the guys,” but hear me out.
If you want to attract the kind of guys who only care about physical appearance, then be my guest and do it.
But, if you are looking for something more serious and more meaningful, listen to advice and never try to be something that you’re not because that false picture of you will fall apart sooner or later and then you’re back to square one.
Most men want simple, down-to-earth girls to be their girlfriends and that’s why these traits win them over every single time:
She is self-confident
She is the kind of girl who knows she’s got it. She feels comfortable in her own skin and that shows.
When you see her walking, you get blinded by her confidence shining from the inside out. She knows she has what it takes and she uses it to seduce the one she wants.
Confidence is something you can’t make or buy. You have to have it and own it.
She is so proud of who she is and she isn’t planning to change for anybody’s sake, which is totally visible from her attitude.
She doesn’t need anyone to tell her she looks like a million bucks because she already knows it.
She doesn’t need anyone to reassure her because she never doubts herself.
She is independent
She can take her own shit and handle it like a ‘big girl’ without asking anyone for help. Men get so turned on by that.
They like a woman who’s competent and independent to be by their side. They want to see that girl as their potential wife and they love that she will always fight for herself and what she wants.
If a woman can’t handle her own stuff and things such as work problems, or basic, everyday stuff and asks her man for help all the time, men get the feeling they are being suffocated.
Men absolutely hate the fact that their girlfriend cannot function without them.
She is smart and hard-working
It’s not sexy dating someone who acts like they never left high school. Men who interest you have matured and so have their taste in women.
They want a capable woman by their side, someone who is smart and hard-working, who can use her brain and make her own choices and come to her own conclusions.
They want women who will be equal to them in all aspects and who will continuously challenge them on an intellectual level.
That is what makes them want to be better and smarter. That is what makes them want to be the best versions of themselves.
Men need a challenge and these women have the brains to challenge them.
She takes care of both her mind and body
She doesn’t have to look like a Victoria’s Secret Angel, but she takes care of her body. She nurtures it along with her mind.
She knows she needs to feel healthy in order to be healthy. She does this only because of her own sake and no one else’s, as it should be.
She wants to look and feel good, not because of her man standing beside her, but because of herself. And he, on the other hand, is proud she thinks and feels that way.
She will take care of her mind and body so she can be healthy and stable from both the inside and outside.
She is devoted
She will always be by her man’s side. She will never turn her back on him. She will support him in all situations.
Even when he’s wrong, she will be there for him and try to break it to him gently that he is wrong. And she will succeed in that.
She will always be faithful to him and she will never cheat, especially if they have committed to each other.
Being devoted is something you either do or don’t.
Well, men see this and they will return the favor. Believe it or not, they are not all the same.
She is not a gold-digger
Materialistic things don’t mean much to her. And that is what he really likes.
If he’s going to look for a serious relationship, he will run miles away from gold-diggers. That can be a one-night thing, but nothing more.
This doesn’t mean that men will never surprise women with something shiny or any kind of a gift.
It only means they don’t like women who are obsessed with material stuff and who are asking for it all the time.
This kind of girl deserves all the surprises and gifts because she doesn’t ache for them.
She will never steal his manhood
She will let him act like a man. She knows that women are one thing and men are completely another. She will never make him do ‘girly’ stuff because she knows that is the place to draw the line.
She will never mind when he goes out with the guys, because he enjoys watching games or because he checks out other women.
That is something every guy does and if he tells you he doesn’t, he’s lying. But that’s all completely normal.
She knows she can’t change him, so she accepts him for who he is.
She makes men want to improve themselves
She is that good that she will make any man bring out the best he can. She will make him wonder about himself and she will make him bring out the big guns and take things seriously.
She will be there for the both of them for better or for worse and she will make them want to become even better people than they already are.
Men find themselves thinking about a future that is different and better. They act more responsible and there is one simple reason for that—her.