9 Sinais de que a sua relação está a desaparecer

Nunca nos apaixonamos por alguém, esperando que acabe. Quando decidimos deixar alguém entrar, esperamos que dure uma vida inteira, mas nem todas as relações resultam. Nem todos os casais estão destinados a ficar.

Mas se acreditam que estão destinados a ficar juntos e dão por si a perder o seu amor, reconhecer os sinais de um relationship that’s slipping away pode ajudá-lo a reagir a tempo e salvá-lo ou a sair antes que a coisa fique feia.

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You no longer talk about what’s important to you, what bothers you or how you feel.

Your conversations are not personal, they are just as awkward as those you have with your co-workers – simple exchanges of meaningless information just to fill the silence.

Não há mais confiança entre vocês dois

You don’t feel comfortable when talking to your partner about your problems or fears anymore.

Sharing like you used to is now unimaginable, and trusting your partner is something you haven’t felt in a while.

You refrain from arguing because you simply don’t care enough to do so anymore

Primeiro vêm as discussões sobre cada pequena coisa que costumavam ignorar, mas com o tempo até isso desaparece. Já não se importa com o que acontece entre vocês os dois, porque se sente vazio e esgotado.

You’re actually done with this relationshipmas, mesmo assim, temos de o admitir a nós próprios.

A sua vida sexual está praticamente morta

And you are not bothered by it. There were days when you couldn’t keep your hands off of each other, and now all you are trying to do is stay away from each other.

And even if you decide to have sex, it’s no longer making love like it used to be. It’s just another chore to do.

A sua principal fonte de stress é a sua cara-metade

Estar com a pessoa amada should take away your stress, not be the source of the stress. Once you realize this is happening, maybe it’s better to leave before your mental health comes into question.

You are constantly asking yourself whether they are the ‘one’

You are obsessed with ‘what ifs’, wondering if you made the right choice by choosing them. Wondering what could’ve been if you two had never met and what your life would look like without them in it.

We all sometimes wonder what our life would look like without our S.O., but if that thought constantly comes to your mind, maybe it’s time to make that thought happen.

Aprecia mais o tempo que passa longe do seu parceiro do que o tempo que passa com ele

You can still remember how happy you two were together, all the laughs you shared and the good times you had. But that’s all they are now, distant memories of the couple you used to be.

Quando foi a última vez que fizeram algo juntos para se divertirem? Quando foi a última vez que se surpreenderam um ao outro com algo que não fosse um silêncio feio e um abraço frio? Quando foi a última vez que se sentiram como um casal?

The thought of being without them doesn’t bother you

As you keep wondering if they are the ‘one’, you realize it wouldn’t be so bad to be alone after all this time.

You no longer get upset when you think about them leaving; ending your relationship doesn’t seem so bad after all.

You know, deep down, that your future isn’t with them

As time passes by and your feelings start to fade, when all of the things that made you a couple have disappeared, you can finally admit to yourself that your future isn’t with them.

It’s no longer a scary thought, it’s not something that breaks your heart; it is like hearing a weather forecast and feeling nothing.

Not many relationships work out, but what’s important is not to hold on to doomed ones too hard. Maybe your ‘one’ is just a break-up away.