9 segni che la vostra relazione si sta allontanando

Non ci innamoriamo mai di qualcuno aspettandoci che finisca. Quando decidiamo di far entrare qualcuno, speriamo che duri tutta la vita, ma non tutte le relazioni funzionano. Non tutte le coppie sono destinate ad essere tali.

Ma se credete di essere destinati a stare insieme e vi ritrovate a perdere il loro amore, riconoscendo i segni di una relationship that’s slipping away potrebbe aiutarvi a reagire in tempo e a salvarlo o ad andarvene prima che la situazione diventi spiacevole.

Le vostre conversazioni hanno il pilota automatico

You no longer talk about what’s important to you, what bothers you or how you feel.

Your conversations are not personal, they are just as awkward as those you have with your co-workers – simple exchanges of meaningless information just to fill the silence.

Non c'è più fiducia tra voi due

You don’t feel comfortable when talking to your partner about your problems or fears anymore.

Sharing like you used to is now unimaginable, and trusting your partner is something you haven’t felt in a while.

You refrain from arguing because you simply don’t care enough to do so anymore

Prima vengono i litigi per ogni piccola cosa, che prima venivano spazzati via, ma con il tempo anche quelli scompaiono. Non vi interessa più quello che succede tra voi due, perché vi sentite vuoti e svuotati.

You’re actually done with this relationshipma devi comunque ammetterlo a te stesso.

La vostra vita sessuale è praticamente morta

And you are not bothered by it. There were days when you couldn’t keep your hands off of each other, and now all you are trying to do is stay away from each other.

And even if you decide to have sex, it’s no longer making love like it used to be. It’s just another chore to do.

La vostra fonte di stress numero uno è l'altra persona che avete accanto.

Stare con il proprio partner should take away your stress, not be the source of the stress. Once you realize this is happening, maybe it’s better to leave before your mental health comes into question.

You are constantly asking yourself whether they are the ‘one’

You are obsessed with ‘what ifs’, wondering if you made the right choice by choosing them. Wondering what could’ve been if you two had never met and what your life would look like without them in it.

We all sometimes wonder what our life would look like without our S.O., but if that thought constantly comes to your mind, maybe it’s time to make that thought happen.

Il tempo trascorso lontano dal partner vi piace di più di quello trascorso con lui.

You can still remember how happy you two were together, all the laughs you shared and the good times you had. But that’s all they are now, distant memories of the couple you used to be.

Quando è stata l'ultima volta che avete fatto qualcosa insieme per divertirvi? Quando è stata l'ultima volta che vi siete sorpresi l'un l'altro con qualcosa di diverso da un brutto silenzio e un freddo abbraccio? Quando è stata l'ultima volta che vi siete sentiti una coppia?

The thought of being without them doesn’t bother you

As you keep wondering if they are the ‘one’, you realize it wouldn’t be so bad to be alone after all this time.

You no longer get upset when you think about them leaving; ending your relationship doesn’t seem so bad after all.

You know, deep down, that your future isn’t with them

As time passes by and your feelings start to fade, when all of the things that made you a couple have disappeared, you can finally admit to yourself that your future isn’t with them.

It’s no longer a scary thought, it’s not something that breaks your heart; it is like hearing a weather forecast and feeling nothing.

Not many relationships work out, but what’s important is not to hold on to doomed ones too hard. Maybe your ‘one’ is just a break-up away.