9 señales de que su relación se está deteriorando

Nunca nos enamoramos de alguien esperando que termine. Cuando decidimos dejar entrar a alguien, esperamos que dure toda la vida, pero no todas las relaciones funcionan. No todas las parejas están destinadas a existir.

Pero si crees que estáis destinados a estar juntos y te encuentras perdiendo su amor, reconocer los signos de un relationship that’s slipping away podría ayudarte a reaccionar a tiempo y salvarlo o simplemente marcharte antes de que se ponga feo.

Tus conversaciones están en piloto automático

You no longer talk about what’s important to you, what bothers you or how you feel.

Your conversations are not personal, they are just as awkward as those you have with your co-workers – simple exchanges of meaningless information just to fill the silence.

No hay más confianza entre ustedes dos

You don’t feel comfortable when talking to your partner about your problems or fears anymore.

Sharing like you used to is now unimaginable, and trusting your partner is something you haven’t felt in a while.

You refrain from arguing because you simply don’t care enough to do so anymore

Primero vienen las discusiones por cualquier tontería, que antes pasabas por alto, pero con el tiempo incluso eso desaparece. Ya no te importa lo que pase entre vosotros, porque te sientes vacío y agotado.

You’re actually done with this relationshippero aún así tienes que admitirlo ante ti mismo.

Tu vida sexual está prácticamente muerta

And you are not bothered by it. There were days when you couldn’t keep your hands off of each other, and now all you are trying to do is stay away from each other.

And even if you decide to have sex, it’s no longer making love like it used to be. It’s just another chore to do.

Tu principal fuente de estrés es tu pareja

Estar con su pareja should take away your stress, not be the source of the stress. Once you realize this is happening, maybe it’s better to leave before your mental health comes into question.

You are constantly asking yourself whether they are the ‘one’

You are obsessed with ‘what ifs’, wondering if you made the right choice by choosing them. Wondering what could’ve been if you two had never met and what your life would look like without them in it.

We all sometimes wonder what our life would look like without our S.O., but if that thought constantly comes to your mind, maybe it’s time to make that thought happen.

Disfrutas más del tiempo lejos de tu pareja que del tiempo que pasas con ella

You can still remember how happy you two were together, all the laughs you shared and the good times you had. But that’s all they are now, distant memories of the couple you used to be.

¿Cuándo fue la última vez que hicieron algo juntos para divertirse? ¿Cuándo fue la última vez que os sorprendisteis mutuamente con algo que no fuera un feo silencio y un frío abrazo? ¿Cuándo fue la última vez que os sentisteis como una pareja?

The thought of being without them doesn’t bother you

As you keep wondering if they are the ‘one’, you realize it wouldn’t be so bad to be alone after all this time.

You no longer get upset when you think about them leaving; ending your relationship doesn’t seem so bad after all.

You know, deep down, that your future isn’t with them

As time passes by and your feelings start to fade, when all of the things that made you a couple have disappeared, you can finally admit to yourself that your future isn’t with them.

It’s no longer a scary thought, it’s not something that breaks your heart; it is like hearing a weather forecast and feeling nothing.

Not many relationships work out, but what’s important is not to hold on to doomed ones too hard. Maybe your ‘one’ is just a break-up away.