A derradeira lista de atractivos: Edição Rapazes e Raparigas
Do you have a personal list of turn ons (and turn offs)? I bet you do. Wait, what does turn ons mean in the first place? What turns a person on? Well, it’s a very unique and in-depth question that differs from person to person.
O que uma pessoa pode achar incrivelmente excitante, outra pode sentir repulsa. A cada um o seu!
Todos nós temos uma forma diferente de estar, por isso não é de admirar que tantas pessoas mantenham descobrir coisas novas que os entusiasma.
As fantasias são o nosso escape dos constrangimentos da nossa vida quotidiana, onde podemos deixar de lado quaisquer limitações e julgamentos externos e desfrutar dos nossos desejos secretos e vaporosos.
Mas quando se trata de fantasias, estas são muitas vezes bastante diferentes das nossas verdadeiras excitações na vida real.
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In our fantasies, we allow ourself to delve deep into our most intimate parts of our body and mind and don’t really have any barriers.
Mas os nossos pontos de interesse na vida real são uma história diferente
What floats our boat in the sack isn’t necessarily in sync with our fantasias secretas and that’s awesome, as you find out more about yourself from these things than you thought you possibly could.
Os homens e as mulheres têm opiniões diferentes sobre o que os excita e os faz enlouquecer de desejo sexual e o que funciona para os homens não é normalmente o caso das mulheres e vice-versa.
Firstly, we’re going to focus on what men find incredibly stimulating and appealing in women. What most of you will find most peculiar is the fact that not all of these things are of a physical nature.
Há mais subtis formas de excitar um homem and make him want you beyond your wildest dreams and you don’t even have to touch him to achieve it… Deixe-me explicar melhor.
Aqui estão todas as formas de excitar um homem sem lhe tocar.
Os maiores atractivos para os homens
Assuma o controlo e dê o primeiro passo!
Embora a ideia de abordar um homem primeiro e o facto de se expor, convidando-o a sair, pode parecer assustador, mas pense em todos os aspectos positivos.
Firstly, you’re showing him how destemido e feroz é colocar o controlo nas suas próprias mãos.
And he’s going to love a girl who doesn’t hesitate when she sees something that she wants!
Secondly, it’s going to give you courage to do this again (should this not work, of course) and see exactly what works and what doesn’t, by learning from your mistakes.
And thirdly, the worst thing that can happen is him saying, “No,” right? You can suck it up, it’s literally 2 seconds of your life, and then you can turn around and never see this dude again in your life!
But my guess is, he’s going to love a girl who knows what she wants and goes after it.
And he’s going to appreciate the fact that you don’t feel like men have to do everything first, so bonus points for that!
Look him straight in the eye (it’ll drive him nuts!)
Contacto visual is one of the surest ways to get a man’s attention and fazer com que ele te deseje muito (especialmente durante amassos quentes sessions). It’s one of the most powerful things on the list of turn ons for men.
I know it’s a little scary to lock eyes with a guy you literally just met as it makes you feel a little vulnerable… but guess what?
Eye contact is freaking sexy and it’s a big turn-on to every guy! As a matter of fact, it’s one of the top turn-ons for them.
It doesn’t even matter whether you two just met or if you’ve been going out for a while.
When you’re sitting at a bar and talking about literally anything, make sure to keep eye contact and make him see how interested you are, in both him and what he has to say.
It’s a surefire way to make him realize you’re not messing around and that you want him. Badly.
And in turn, he’s going to get really excited about where this date might end… Just keep your eyes on the prize, and don’t forget to collect at the end of the night.
Deixe-o excitado com as mensagens de texto!
If you’ve been with a guy for a while, this won’t be a problem but even if you’ve only been on a few dates, this is the perfect opportunity to break the ice and start with some steamy texting sessions.
There’s no better time than now, right? Then let’s get to it.
If you’re still not ready for a full-on sessão de sexting, that’s okay, it’ll come to you with time…
Para já, pode começar com algo um pouco mais inocente. Aqui estão algumas ideias para colocar na lista de coisas que excitam os rapazes:
- I just got out of a long, hot shower… I wish you were here to help me dry off…
- My favorite pajamas are in the laundry, ah well… I guess I’ll have to wear that T-shirt que deixaste aqui para te deitares.
- Ideia para amanhã. Netflix and chill? With a huge emphasis on the ‘chill’ part. ?
- Too bad our date had to end so abruptly… But hey, there’s no telling what tomorrow may bring… Can’t wait to make it up to you!
- Last night blew my mind! Ready for round two tomorrow? God knows I am… Clothing optional.
Depending on how long you’ve been seeing each other, choose one of these and ligá-lo without having to move a muscle. You’ll be thanking me later.
Usar vermelho!
In case you didn’t already know, it’s a known fact that the color red can increase a person’s blood pressure and heart rate, so use it to your advantage!
It’s widely known that it represents the color of passion, so despedi-lo! If you put on any red article of clothing, it’s a guaranteed turn-on.
He’ll desire you that much more, especially if that happens to be a hot dress (though it’s not required).
If you’re not feeling so daring, you don’t necessarily need to wear red on your body… your lips will do just fine! Many studies and new surveys have shown that men are much more drawn to women who wear fiery red lipstick (even though they don’t like too much make-up on a girl)!
Por isso, escolha uma destas duas opções vaporosas e certifique-se de que o pulso dele acelera e os olhos saltam-lhe da cabeça. Mas cuidado para não o incendiar demasiado (especialmente numa primeiro encontro)
Ter um sinal secreto que signifique pensamentos marotos!
Agora, isto é um forma segura para excitar o vosso homem até aos ossos! (Trocadilhos à parte!)
Here’s what you should do. Come up with a secret signal (it could also be a random word that only you two will know the true meaning of) for when you’re feeling naughty (leia-se: excitado) e querem sair do sítio onde estão e começar a trabalhar.
Saber que só vocês os dois entendem esse gesto ou sinal é excitante à sua maneira, mas também a ideia de se esgueirarem e irem a um sítio inapropriado para o fazer é um nível totalmente novo de QUENTE!
He’s going to be so turned on (as will you, let’s be honest) and he’ll take you the moment you sneak into the restaurant bathroom or wherever the hell you two are. If you add some frases de conversa porca to the equation, girl, he’ll lose his mind over you!
And then, going back, as if nothing ever happened, is going to be so satisfying and it’s going to make you so pleased with yourselves.
Esse sinal pode ser tão simples como um piscar de olhos ou atirar o cabelo, mas também pode ser uma palavra aleatória que se introduz na conversa e que só vocês os dois saberão que significa uma rapidinha na casa de banho!
Quente, estou certo??? Agora vai buscar o seu homem e inventa a tua palavra de código, para que possas tentar da próxima vez que quiseres fazer algo muito sexy e selvagem, sem que ninguém saiba.
Pretend you’re total strangers at a bar!
This works especially well if you’ve been together for a while and want to spice things up a bit.
First, you go to a bar and sit by yourself. Then your man can come along and introduce himself as if it’s the first time you’ve met each other. You play along, let him sit, buy you a drink and chat you up.
You can decide how you want this to play out. You can do this little role-playing bit for the rest of the evening if you wish. Let him seduce you as if he’s really trying to win you over and don’t make it easy on him. Make him sweat a little.
And when you finally let your guard down, you can take him home, and keep pretending like you don’t know each other… and let the fantasy take over.
There’s this raw sexual aspect of seducing a stranger in a bar. It makes a guy feel confident and capable and boosts his ego.
So give him the satisfaction and do as he pleases that night… stroke his ego (among other things… piscadela, piscadela) e fazer com que as suas fantasias se tornem realidade.
He’ll be so turned on and EXCITED about your next role-play session. He won’t mind doing anything your mind can come up with.
Ambos podem lucrar com este jogo divertido e sensual. Basta jogar bem as suas cartas e o seu homem ficará encantado.
Let him know you’re not wearing underwear!
Muito bem, meninas, eu sei que esta não precisa de explicação! Se vocês os dois têm sido íntimos, este é o vosso movimento de eleição para uma excitação instantânea.
If he’s picking you up for a date, make sure to let him know you’re going commando by slowly and quietly whispering it in his ear as you’re entering the restaurant.
Don’t even look at him. Just say it and keep walking with a subtle smile on your face and just know that he is barely restraining himself at that very moment. Ser um sedutor deusa e deixar a expetativa crescer.
Just imagine how fun it’s going to be when you finally leave the restaurant and get inside your bedroom… he’s going to go crazy for you. And I mean bom louco.
Making him wait for something can only increase his excitement and make it that much more worthwhile for you in the end. There’s a reason they say patience is a virtue.
Now that we’ve covered all the non-physical ways to turn a guy on, let’s get a little physical.
Agora que já conhece todas as formas sensuais e vaporosas de o deixar quente e incomodado sem precisar de lhe tocar (embora o toque seja mais do que bem-vindo depois), há outras formas de obter exatamente o mesmo resultado que envolvem contacto físico:
Dá-lhe uma massagem!
I really don’t understand why people think that girls are the only ones who love massages, when guys enjoy them just as much, if not more!
Depois de chegar a casa após um longo dia de trabalho, faça com que o seu homem se sente no sofá, relaxe ao seu lado e surpreenda-o com uma bela massagem nos pés (que pode ser preliminares fantásticos).
Get some oil and slowly and gently rub it on his feet and move upwards if you want to take things a little further (and I bet he definitely wouldn’t mind).
Massage him with soft touches and get a little sensual as you move onto his next body part and from there, I’m pretty sure you know what to do.
Proíbe-o de usar as suas mãos!
Make it known that you’re in the mood but also establish some ground rules. You’re going to make him really happy… but under one condition. He is not allowed to use his hands.
That’ll make him crazy horny! If necessary, tie him to the bed and get to work. Slowly undress him and gently caress his body from his head to his toes.
Ele não conseguirá fazer outra coisa senão gemer de excitação e agradecer a Deus por uma namorada tão fantástica, sexy e imaginativa e óptima vida sexual.
And when it’s time for the main act, it’s your decision whether to keep his hands off limits or untie him. Decide what will turn him on more and get going.
Trocar fantasias!
Tell him a secret fantasy that you’ve never told anyone and make him do the same.
Think of the sexual turn-ons you’ve got and spare no details. Not only will it turn him on, it will turn you on as well! And then carefully listen to his and if you’re not already on edge, you will be by the time he tells his story.
The whole point is to exchange sexy secret desires from trying new sex toys to kinks you’d never say aloud and if you’re feeling daring, make them come to life! I bet you’re turned on just thinking about this right now.
Go get him and delve deep into his secret desires, it’ll make you crazy satisfied in the end.
Use a lingerie que ele mais gosta em si!
There’s nothing sexier than uma mulher ferozmente confiante who isn’t shy about showing her hot body!
And knowing that you have those sexy, lacy, red panties on, accompanied by a red, tiny bra… it’ll be a huge turn on for you, let alone for him.
Make him work for it and when you’ve had enough of teasing him, let him take your clothes off one article at a time… and be (pleasantly) surprised to see what you’re wearing.
Não só ele ficará louco de tesão ao vê-la assim tão sensual, como também a fará sentir-se sexy e poderoso também.
Vendem-lhe os olhos!
Another way to seduce your guy is to break out the good, old blindfold! By doing that, you are denying him one of his senses, so he’s going to have to rely on his other ones to please you and his attention will be exactly where it needs to be.
He will be extra-sensitive to touch, as he won’t see it coming, so his excitement will be at an all-time high.
Provavelmente, ele estará cheio de arrepios, esperando impacientemente o seu próximo toque, sem saber quando esperar que o faça levá-lo para a cidade louca.
The anticipation is what makes it so hot. He won’t be able to tell where you’ll touch him or kiss him next… so it will be one of his most memorable sexual encounters with you.
Okay, so now we’ve covered the ways guys love to be turned on and exactly how to do it in great detail.
Now that you’re fully equipped, you know what to do, ladies. And as for us girls, here are some sensual ways how you guy can return the favor and make your girl moan with excitement, in more ways than one.
O que é que os homens não gostam?
Se quer excitar o seu homem como um profissional, aqui estão algumas coisas que deve evitar fazer:
- Agir como uma cabra
- Unhas extra-longas
- Má higiene
- Usar demasiado perfume
- Agir mal
- Chateação
- Conversa de bebé no momento e local errados
A lista de atractivos para as raparigas
Tell her you think she’s beautiful
This may sound cheesy to you but we’re really not that complicated! If you want to turn us on and make us feel special, you just need to use the right words.
Here’s the dealio. Tell your girlfriend how amazing you think she looks, when she least expects it, and she’ll be appreciative in more ways than one, if you’re lucky.
Puxa-a para o teu lado da cama quando acordas
Trust me, she’ll love this. Feeling secure in your arms as she is opening her eyes is the best way to start her morning.
Isto ajudá-la-á a relaxar e a sentir-se protegida. Escusado será dizer que também ligá-la. And if she’s feeling giving, it’ll pay off for you as well.
Tocar-lhe suavemente no joelho por baixo da mesa
It doesn’t have to be too sexual, just slowly and secretly brush her knee with your hand, without anyone noticing, or you can use your leg instead.
She’ll love the unexpected touch and probably get turned on by it. Unexpected touches have the power to drive anyone crazy (especially when they’re done in public). Try it!
Fazê-la rir
Ser capaz de a fazer rir é uma das qualidades mais importantes e atraentes num homem! Não há nada mais sexy do que um bom sentido de humor e saber exatamente o que fará a sua rapariga chorar de riso.
Perhaps you haven’t thought of it like this before, but a great sense of humor is definitely on the list of excitação para as mulheres porque nos ajuda a relaxar e mostra esforço. E fazer um esforço é muito sexy!
And after she’s done laughing, there’s going to be plenty more action that follows. Girls really aren’t that complicated. Make her laugh and she’ll make it worthwhile.
Sussurrar-lhe ao ouvido
I don’t know about you but I personally LOVE when a guy is whispering in my ear or nibbling my ear.
Here’s a tip for guys: It doesn’t even matter what you’re saying, as long as you put your face so close to hers and make her feel your warm presence next to her.
She will find it so hot and if you accompany it with a sexy little message in her ear… there will be goosebumps everywhere.
Dar-lhe uma massagem depois de um dia difícil de trabalho
A good massage is always on the list of turn-ons. There doesn’t even need to be an excuse to give your girl a massage. Just show her your appreciation by gently massaging her neck, feet, or whichever part of the body you feel like.
Ela vai adorar o seu toque em todo o seu corpo. Além disso, há grandes probabilidades de isto se transformar em algo um pouco mais sensual (ou vaporoso) num piscar de olhos.
After you’re finished with massaging her, going down on her would be a nice and smooth transition (if she feels like it, of course).
As for oral sex, here’s something interesting.
Um estudo da EdenFantasys analisou os maiores atractivos para homens e mulheres quando se trata de sexo. 76% por cento dos homens afirmaram que fazer sexo oral na sua parceira os excita muito, em comparação com apenas 56% por cento das mulheres.
Surpresas
Most girls really can’t resist uma agradável surpresa, be that sending her roses to her workplace, picking up her favorite candy bar on your way home, or getting her that pair of earrings she’s been eyeing for weeks.
O objetivo é fazer com que ela veja que a ouve! Ela ficará muito grata e agradecida e só Deus sabe todas as formas de lhe agradecer.
Put her legs on top of you as you’re relaxing on the couch
Ela vai adorar este gesto, pois mostra o quanto aprecia a sua proximidade e o seu toque.
Ela adora sentir-se perto de si e este gesto aparentemente pequeno é uma forma segura de a fazer sorrir por dentro.
Ela vai apreciar este pequeno sinal de afeto mais do que é capaz de compreender neste momento.
Toca-lhe sempre que puderes
Girls love to feel your touch. It’s really that simple.
It doesn’t matter where you are, you could be at home, sitting on your couch, or at a bar, surrounded by friends… Touch her whenever you can and she’ll love every second of it.
O toque físico inocente tem uma forma de nos fazer sentir tão desejados e quentes e provavelmente será o mesmo com a sua rapariga. Um toque suave pode ser muito útil.
Beija-a em todo o lado
Girls love to be kissed, that’s no secret. But instead of just kissing her lips, start somewhere else (like neck kisses).
Start kissing the back of her neck and slowly move to the front, then go down a little, around her breasts and wherever your imagination takes you. Be sensual as you’re undressing her.
Also, don’t be focused just on her lips. She will be all over you before you know it.
Desvantagens para as raparigas
Se quer impressionar a sua rapariga e excitá-la, evite fazer estas coisas:
- Mau gosto no calçado
- Maus hábitos de higiene
- Ser insistente
- Agir de forma arrogante
- Aborrecê-la
- Olhar fixamente para outras mulheres
- Preocupação com o sexo
Desfrutar!
I hope you’ve enjoyed the list of turn ons for him and her and that you’ll try some or all of the things above in the near future (if you haven’t already).
Antes de ires, tenho uma pergunta para ti. Quais são os seus pontos fortes? I’m sure you have more than one, so don’t be ashamed to share it with your partner (wink). Have fun!
