L'elenco definitivo delle attrazioni: Edizione Ragazzi e Ragazze

Do you have a personal list of turn ons (and turn offs)? I bet you do. Wait, what does turn ons mean in the first place? What turns a person on? Well, it’s a very unique and in-depth question that differs from person to person.

Ciò che uno può trovare incredibilmente eccitante, a un altro può far ribrezzo. A ciascuno il suo!

Siamo tutti cablati in modo diverso, quindi non c'è da stupirsi che molte persone mantengano trovare cose nuove sono entusiasti.

Le fantasie sono la nostra evasione dalle costrizioni della vita di tutti i giorni, dove possiamo lasciar andare ogni limite e giudizio esterno e godere dei nostri desideri segreti e vaporosi.

Ma quando si tratta di fantasie, spesso sono molto diverse da quelle che ci eccitano nella vita reale.

Learn how to read his cues correctly and give him everything he really wants – use Il linguaggio del desiderio.

In our fantasies, we allow ourself to delve deep into our most intimate parts of our body and mind and don’t really have any barriers.

Ma nella vita reale i nostri punti di forza sono un'altra cosa.

What floats our boat in the sack isn’t necessarily in sync with our fantasie segrete and that’s awesome, as you find out more about yourself from these things than you thought you possibly could.

Uomini e donne hanno opinioni diverse su ciò che li eccita e li fa impazzire di desiderio sessuale e ciò che funziona per gli uomini di solito non è il caso delle donne e viceversa.

Firstly, we’re going to focus on what men find incredibly stimulating and appealing in women. What most of you will find most peculiar is the fact that not all of these things are of a physical nature.

Ci sono aspetti più sottili modi per eccitare un ragazzo and make him want you beyond your wildest dreams and you don’t even have to touch him to achieve it… Mi spiego meglio.

Ecco tutti i modi per eccitare un ragazzo senza toccarlo.

I più grandi stimoli per i ragazzi

Prendete il controllo e fate la prima mossa!

Mentre l'idea di Approcciare un ragazzo per primo e il fatto di mettersi in gioco chiedendogli di uscire per primo può sembrare scoraggiante, pensate a tutti i lati positivi della cosa.

Firstly, you’re showing him how impavido e feroce siete mettendo il controllo nelle vostre mani.

And he’s going to love a girl who doesn’t hesitate when she sees something that she wants!

Secondly, it’s going to give you courage to do this again (should this not work, of course) and see exactly what works and what doesn’t, by learning from your mistakes.

And thirdly, the worst thing that can happen is him saying, “No,” right? You can suck it up, it’s literally 2 seconds of your life, and then you can turn around and never see this dude again in your life!

But my guess is, he’s going to love a girl who knows what she wants and goes after it.

And he’s going to appreciate the fact that you don’t feel like men have to do everything first, so bonus points for that!

Look him straight in the eye (it’ll drive him nuts!)

Contatto visivo is one of the surest ways to get a man’s attention and far sì che lui ti desideri ardentemente (soprattutto durante pomiciata bollente sessions). It’s one of the most powerful things on the list of turn ons for men.

I know it’s a little scary to lock eyes with a guy you literally just met as it makes you feel a little vulnerable… but guess what?

Eye contact is freaking sexy and it’s a big turn-on to every guy! As a matter of fact, it’s one of the top turn-ons for them.

It doesn’t even matter whether you two just met or if you’ve been going out for a while.

When you’re sitting at a bar and talking about literally anything, make sure to keep eye contact and make him see how interested you are, in both him and what he has to say.

It’s a surefire way to make him realize you’re not messing around and that you want him. Badly.

And in turn, he’s going to get really excited about where this date might end… Just keep your eyes on the prize, and don’t forget to collect at the end of the night.

Fallo eccitare con gli sms!

If you’ve been with a guy for a while, this won’t be a problem but even if you’ve only been on a few dates, this is the perfect opportunity to break the ice and start with some steamy texting sessions.

There’s no better time than now, right? Then let’s get to it.

If you’re still not ready for a full-on sessione di sexting, that’s okay, it’ll come to you with time…

Per il momento potete iniziare con qualcosa di più innocente. Ecco alcune idee da inserire nella lista degli eccitanti per i ragazzi:

• I just got out of a long, hot shower… I wish you were here to help me dry off…
• My favorite pajamas are in the laundry, ah well… I guess I’ll have to wear that Maglietta che hai lasciato qui a dormire.
• Idea per domani. Netflix and chill? With a huge emphasis on the ‘chill’ part. ?
• Too bad our date had to end so abruptly… But hey, there’s no telling what tomorrow may bring… Can’t wait to make it up to you!
• Last night blew my mind! Ready for round two tomorrow? God knows I am… Clothing optional.

Depending on how long you’ve been seeing each other, choose one of these and accenderlo without having to move a muscle. You’ll be thanking me later.

Indossate il ROSSO!

In case you didn’t already know, it’s a known fact that the color red can increase a person’s blood pressure and heart rate, so use it to your advantage!

It’s widely known that it represents the color of passion, so licenziarlo! If you put on any red article of clothing, it’s a guaranteed turn-on.

He’ll desire you that much more, especially if that happens to be a hot dress (though it’s not required).

If you’re not feeling so daring, you don’t necessarily need to wear red on your body… your lips will do just fine! Many studies and new surveys have shown that men are much more drawn to women who wear fiery red lipstick (even though they don’t like too much make-up on a girl)!

Scegliete quindi una di queste due opzioni bollenti e fate in modo di fargli battere il polso e fargli schizzare gli occhi fuori dalle orbite. Fate solo attenzione a non farlo accendere troppo (soprattutto su un primo appuntamento)

Avere un segnale segreto che indica i pensieri cattivi!

Questo è un modo sicuro per eccitare il vostro uomo fino alle ossa! (Il gioco di parole è voluto!)

Here’s what you should do. Come up with a secret signal (it could also be a random word that only you two will know the true meaning of) for when you’re feeling naughty (leggi: arrapato) e desiderare di uscire dal luogo in cui ci si trova per darsi da fare.

Sapere che solo voi due capite quel gesto o quel segnale è eccitante a modo suo, ma anche l'idea di fare le cose di nascosto e di andare in un posto inopportuno per farlo è un livello di eccitazione completamente nuovo!

He’s going to be so turned on (as will you, let’s be honest) and he’ll take you the moment you sneak into the restaurant bathroom or wherever the hell you two are. If you add some Frasi per il turpiloquio to the equation, girl, he’ll lose his mind over you!

And then, going back, as if nothing ever happened, is going to be so satisfying and it’s going to make you so pleased with yourselves.

Il segnale può essere semplice come una strizzata d'occhio o un lancio di capelli, ma può anche essere una parola a caso che si inserisce nella conversazione e solo voi due saprete che significa una sveltina in bagno!

Caldo, vero? Ora andate a prendere il tuo uomo e inventate la vostra parola in codice, in modo da poterla provare la prossima volta che vorrete fare qualcosa di follemente sexy e selvaggio, senza che nessuno lo sappia.

Pretend you’re total strangers at a bar!

This works especially well if you’ve been together for a while and want to spice things up a bit.

First, you go to a bar and sit by yourself. Then your man can come along and introduce himself as if it’s the first time you’ve met each other. You play along, let him sit, buy you a drink and chat you up.

You can decide how you want this to play out. You can do this little role-playing bit for the rest of the evening if you wish. Let him seduce you as if he’s really trying to win you over and don’t make it easy on him. Make him sweat a little.

And when you finally let your guard down, you can take him home, and keep pretending like you don’t know each other… and let the fantasy take over.

There’s this raw sexual aspect of seducing a stranger in a bar. It makes a guy feel confident and capable and boosts his ego.

So give him the satisfaction and do as he pleases that night… stroke his ego (among other things… occhiolino, occhiolino) e far sì che le sue fantasie prendano vita.

He’ll be so turned on and EXCITED about your next role-play session. He won’t mind doing anything your mind can come up with.

Entrambi potete trarre vantaggio da questo gioco divertente e sexy. Giocate bene le vostre carte e il vostro uomo sarà al settimo cielo.

Let him know you’re not wearing underwear!

Ok signore, so che questo non ha bisogno di spiegazioni! Se siete stati intimi, questa è la mossa da fare per eccitarsi all'istante.

If he’s picking you up for a date, make sure to let him know you’re going commando by slowly and quietly whispering it in his ear as you’re entering the restaurant.

Don’t even look at him. Just say it and keep walking with a subtle smile on your face and just know that he is barely restraining himself at that very moment. Essere un civettuolo dea e lasciare che l'attesa cresca.

Just imagine how fun it’s going to be when you finally leave the restaurant and get inside your bedroom… he’s going to go crazy for you. And I mean buono pazzesco.

Making him wait for something can only increase his excitement and make it that much more worthwhile for you in the end. There’s a reason they say patience is a virtue.

Now that we’ve covered all the non-physical ways to turn a guy on, let’s get a little physical.

Ora che conoscete tutti i modi più sexy e frizzanti per farlo eccitare senza bisogno di toccarlo (anche se poi il contatto è più che gradito), ci sono altri modi per ottenere lo stesso identico risultato che prevedono il contatto fisico:

Fategli un massaggio!

I really don’t understand why people think that girls are the only ones who love massages, when guys enjoy them just as much, if not more!

Dopo essere tornati a casa da una lunga giornata di lavoro, fate in modo di far sedere il vostro uomo sul divano, rilassatevi accanto a voi e sorprendetelo con un bel massaggio ai piedi (che può essere preliminari sorprendenti).

Get some oil and slowly and gently rub it on his feet and move upwards if you want to take things a little further (and I bet he definitely wouldn’t mind).

Massage him with soft touches and get a little sensual as you move onto his next body part and from there, I’m pretty sure you know what to do.

Impeditegli di usare le mani!

Make it known that you’re in the mood but also establish some ground rules. You’re going to make him really happy… but under one condition. He is not allowed to use his hands.

That’ll make him crazy horny! If necessary, tie him to the bed and get to work. Slowly undress him and gently caress his body from his head to his toes.

Non potrà fare altro che gemere di eccitazione e ringraziare Dio per una fidanzata così fantastica, sexy e fantasiosa. grande vita sessuale.

And when it’s time for the main act, it’s your decision whether to keep his hands off limits or untie him. Decide what will turn him on more and get going.

Scambio di fantasie!

Tell him a secret fantasy that you’ve never told anyone and make him do the same.

Think of the sexual turn-ons you’ve got and spare no details. Not only will it turn him on, it will turn you on as well! And then carefully listen to his and if you’re not already on edge, you will be by the time he tells his story.

The whole point is to exchange sexy secret desires from trying new sex toys to kinks you’d never say aloud and if you’re feeling daring, make them come to life! I bet you’re turned on just thinking about this right now.

Go get him and delve deep into his secret desires, it’ll make you crazy satisfied in the end.

Indossate la lingerie che lui ama di più su di voi!

There’s nothing sexier than una donna fieramente sicura di sé who isn’t shy about showing her hot body!

And knowing that you have those sexy, lacy, red panties on, accompanied by a red, tiny bra… it’ll be a huge turn on for you, let alone for him.

Make him work for it and when you’ve had enough of teasing him, let him take your clothes off one article at a time… and be (pleasantly) surprised to see what you’re wearing.

Non solo si ecciterà da matti nel vedervi così sexy, ma vi farà anche sentirsi sexy e potenti anche.

Bendatelo!

Another way to seduce your guy is to break out the good, old blindfold! By doing that, you are denying him one of his senses, so he’s going to have to rely on his other ones to please you and his attention will be exactly where it needs to be.

He will be extra-sensitive to touch, as he won’t see it coming, so his excitement will be at an all-time high.

Probabilmente sarà pieno di pelle d'oca, aspettando con impazienza il vostro prossimo tocco, senza sapere quando aspettarsi che voi lo facciate. portarlo nella città dei matti.

The anticipation is what makes it so hot. He won’t be able to tell where you’ll touch him or kiss him next… so it will be one of his most memorable sexual encounters with you.

Okay, so now we’ve covered the ways guys love to be turned on and exactly how to do it in great detail.

Now that you’re fully equipped, you know what to do, ladies. And as for us girls, here are some sensual ways how you guy can return the favor and make your girl moan with excitement, in more ways than one.

I punti critici per i ragazzi

Se volete eccitare il vostro uomo come un professionista, ecco alcune cose che dovreste evitare di fare:

• Comportamento da stronza
• Unghie extra-lunghe
• Scarsa igiene
• Indossare troppo profumo
• Atto di mediazione
• Assillo
• Parlare ai bambini nel momento e nel luogo sbagliato

L'elenco delle attrazioni per le ragazze

Tell her you think she’s beautiful

This may sound cheesy to you but we’re really not that complicated! If you want to turn us on and make us feel special, you just need to use the right words.

Here’s the dealio. Tell your girlfriend how amazing you think she looks, when she least expects it, and she’ll be appreciative in more ways than one, if you’re lucky.

Accostatela al vostro lato del letto quando vi svegliate.

Trust me, she’ll love this. Feeling secure in your arms as she is opening her eyes is the best way to start her morning.

Questo la aiuterà a rilassarsi e a sentirsi protetta. Inutile dire che questo aiuterà anche accenderla. And if she’s feeling giving, it’ll pay off for you as well.

Toccatele delicatamente il ginocchio sotto il tavolo

It doesn’t have to be too sexual, just slowly and secretly brush her knee with your hand, without anyone noticing, or you can use your leg instead.

She’ll love the unexpected touch and probably get turned on by it. Unexpected touches have the power to drive anyone crazy (especially when they’re done in public). Try it!

Farla ridere

Riuscire a farla ridere è una delle qualità più importanti e attraenti in un uomo! Non c'è niente di più sexy di un buon senso dell'umorismo e sapere esattamente cosa farà piangere dalle risate la vostra ragazza.

Perhaps you haven’t thought of it like this before, but a great sense of humor is definitely on the list of eccitanti per le donne perché ci aiuta a rilassarci e dimostra impegno. E fare uno sforzo è dannatamente sexy!

And after she’s done laughing, there’s going to be plenty more action that follows. Girls really aren’t that complicated. Make her laugh and she’ll make it worthwhile.

Sussurrarle all'orecchio

I don’t know about you but I personally LOVE when a guy is whispering in my ear or nibbling my ear.

Here’s a tip for guys: It doesn’t even matter what you’re saying, as long as you put your face so close to hers and make her feel your warm presence next to her.

She will find it so hot and if you accompany it with a sexy little message in her ear… there will be goosebumps everywhere.

Massaggiatela dopo una giornata di lavoro difficile.

A good massage is always on the list of turn-ons. There doesn’t even need to be an excuse to give your girl a massage. Just show her your appreciation by gently massaging her neck, feet, or whichever part of the body you feel like.

Le piacerà il vostro tocco su tutto il corpo. Inoltre, è molto probabile che la situazione si trasformi in un batter d'occhio in qualcosa di più sensuale (o bollente).

After you’re finished with massaging her, going down on her would be a nice and smooth transition (if she feels like it, of course).

As for oral sex, here’s something interesting.

Uno studio di EdenFantasys ha preso in esame i più grandi eccitanti per uomini e donne quando si tratta di sesso. Il 76% per cento degli uomini ha dichiarato che praticare sesso orale alla propria partner li eccita moltissimo, contro il 56% per cento delle donne.

Sorprese

Most girls really can’t resist una bella sorpresa, be that sending her roses to her workplace, picking up her favorite candy bar on your way home, or getting her that pair of earrings she’s been eyeing for weeks.

Il punto è farle capire che la ascoltate! Sarà così grata e riconoscente e Dio solo sa in quanti modi potrà ringraziarvi.

Put her legs on top of you as you’re relaxing on the couch

Questo gesto le piacerà molto, perché dimostra quanto apprezziate la sua vicinanza e il suo tocco.

Lei ama sentirsi vicina a voi e questo gesto apparentemente piccolo è un modo sicuro per farla sorridere.

Apprezzerà questo piccolo segno di affetto più di quanto possiate comprendere in questo momento.

Toccatela il più spesso possibile

Girls love to feel your touch. It’s really that simple.

It doesn’t matter where you are, you could be at home, sitting on your couch, or at a bar, surrounded by friends… Touch her whenever you can and she’ll love every second of it.

Il tocco fisico innocente ci fa sentire così desiderati e caldi e probabilmente sarà lo stesso con la vostra ragazza. Un tocco gentile può essere molto utile.

Baciarla ovunque

Girls love to be kissed, that’s no secret. But instead of just kissing her lips, start somewhere else (like neck kisses).

Start kissing the back of her neck and slowly move to the front, then go down a little, around her breasts and wherever your imagination takes you. Be sensual as you’re undressing her.

Also, don’t be focused just on her lips. She will be all over you before you know it.

I punti critici per le ragazze

Se volete fare colpo sulla vostra ragazza ed eccitarla, evitate di fare queste cose:

• Scarso gusto nelle calzature
• Cattive abitudini di toelettatura
• Essere invadenti
• Comportamento presuntuoso
• Annoiarla
• Fissare altre donne
• Preoccupazione per il sesso

Buon divertimento!

I hope you’ve enjoyed the list of turn ons for him and her and that you’ll try some or all of the things above in the near future (if you haven’t already).

Prima che tu vada, ho una domanda da farti. Quali sono i vostri gusti? I’m sure you have more than one, so don’t be ashamed to share it with your partner (wink). Have fun!