Encontrou a sua alma gémea kármica? Estes são 9 sinais comuns

I’m sure you’ve already heard about the palavra karma e a palavra alma gémea mas e a alma gémea cármica?

Uma alma gémea cármica é uma combinação de ambos. Antes de começarmos a explicar este termo especificamente, precisamos de esclarecer uma coisa.

Provavelmente nunca pensou nisto, mas todas as relações que experimentamos na nossa vida são, de facto, cármicas.

Cada pessoa que encontramos está ligada a nós através de um acordo pré-vida e tem a ver com dívidas cármicas.

Isto inclui os seus pais, irmãos, amantes, amigos e também os seus filhos.

There’s a lot of buzz surrounding the word karma e cármico and it’s often misunderstood.

First of all, karma isn’t a bitch, as everyone likes to call her. It’s more of a righteous and strict mentor or a teacher.

Significa ação e todos sabemos que as acções têm consequências. Tudo o que fazemos ou pensamos conta como uma ação e, naturalmente, terá consequências.

So, if you ‘bump’ into your karmic alma gémea and they give you a hard time while also giving you the best time of your life, know that you have a soul contract with that person and that’s why you’re soulmates.

You’re bound to help each other’s souls to grow and livrar-se de parte da dívida cármica.

No entanto, este não é o belo conto de fadas amor story you’d expect. Not even close.

A maioria dos relações cármicas virar a sua vida de cabeça para baixo, deixá-lo numa confusão e nunca mais aparecer.

Yes, that means the relationship probably won’t last.

Not every soulmate story is the same and most of them aren’t picture-perfect or ‘healing’, at least not in a way you’d expect.

Uma relação com uma alma gémea cármica é um desafio, stressante, mas muito gratificante no final.

Unfortunately, until you’re ready to understand the important lesson that was thrown at you, you’ll probably feel angry, lost and sad.

Do you feel like you’re experiencing or have experienced this kind of relationship?

If you suspect your partner is your karmic soulmate, after reading these common signs, you’ll know for sure:

9 Signs You’ve Met Your Karmic Soulmate

It feels like they’re destined for you

“Know that we have met before and that we will meet again. I will find my way to you in the next life, and every life after that.” — Mia Hollow

There’s nothing quite like it. It’s a weird sense of knowing someone and you can’t explain how or why.

Every one of us has that hidden part of themselves they cannot communicate through words. That part can only be felt and there aren’t many people who can ‘feel us accurately’.

That’s a part of the tragedy of humans and their obsessive need for connection and an inability to achieve it fully… unless you experience relationships like this.

This person is probably not good for you, they’ve probably done things you wouldn’t forgive anyone else for

MAS, no teu coração, encontras sempre compreensão para com eles.

They feel like some extraordinary being, someone with special powers who can make you feel things like no one else can. That’s a karmic connection.

Um sentido de pensamento que conheceu-os numa vida passada and that they’re destined to reunite with you in this one.

Sente-se uma ligação imediata com eles

The first time you see this person, you’ll feel it immediately, you’ll feel the instant connection.

Algumas pessoas dizem que sentiram como se algo as tivesse atingido e outras relatam experiências intensas semelhantes.

Once you make eye contact, you’ll be hooked.

Maybe you’ll hate them at first, maybe you’ll dislike something about them; however, you will know right from the start that there is something more about that person.

After the first meeting, strangely, you’ll think about them often and wonder why. The next thing you know, you’re daydreaming about the moment you’ll ‘accidentally’ see them again.

Não é de surpreender que isso tenha acontecido pouco depois do primeiro encontro e que o sentimento intenso tenha ficado consigo.

Além disso, conheceram-se por acaso através de uma estranha sincronicidade. That’s when you definitely decide to find out what it is about that person that draws you in so powerfully.

Every feeling is ten times stronger when you’re with them

Once you start your relationship, you’ll notice that every feeling you normally experience in similar circumstances is ten times stronger and more intense when you’re with them, be it happiness, anger, sadness or excitement.

Tudo o que eles fazem tem um forte efeito em si e vice-versa. Parece um filme e as vossas conversas provavelmente soam como um.

However painful it is at times, it’s also extremely enjoyable when things are good. It’s almost like a drug. You’re willing to go through rough times to achieve periodical bliss.

You’re aware that something ‘isn’t quite right’ but you’re also aware this is a once in a lifetime experience that has something to teach you, so you ignore all the red flags.

This is also why after it’s done, there is nothing that matches this level of intensity and that’s why most people go through a numb phase and think they’ll never experience ‘true love’ again.

It’s also why most karmic relationships end up being romantic relationships too.

Ligam-nos ao nosso lado negro

“People will do anything, no matter how absurd, in order to avoid facing their own souls. One does not become enlightened by imagining figures of light, but by making the darkness conscious.” ― Carl Jung

Ter prazer, relações saudáveis is great, it’s preferable and normal. No entanto, por vezes, deixam-nos insatisfeitos.

Como assim? Este sentimento provém provavelmente da incapacidade de partilhar todos os aspectos de nós próprios.

It feels like there’s more to share with other people but we’re not allowed to or we’re scared of their reaction.

Há tantas restrições, tabus e coisas proibidas que a sociedade e a nossa educação nos impuseram enquanto crescíamos que nunca nos atrevemos a questionar ou a explorar alguns dos nossos lados secretos, necessidades ou desejos.

Well, that changes once we meet our karmic soulmate. Everything that has been lurking in the darkest corners of our mind is now brought to light and there’s nothing we can do about it.

Usually, we try to put it back where it was, hide it and move on as if nothing happened. But that’s not how it goes.

Once we consciously perceive the ‘dark side’ of ourself, there’s no going back, only making sense of it.

Of course, it makes us uncomfortable, ashamed and scared, like we’re not ‘good’ or ‘worthy’ of something. And that’s actually a good thing.

Yes, you’ll probably experience hell but you’ll evolve through it. That’s the point of a karmic relationship.

There’s no use in repeating positive affirmations and prayers if we’re looking away from the ‘problematic’ parts of ourself.

And this isn’t only about our bad habits, it’s about our very deeply rooted beliefs about ourself, about our life, our family members and relationships…

Desencadeiam os seus piores medos

Naturally, after your karmic partner opens Pandora’s box, all of your fears are on show and you have nowhere to hide.

É provável que o seu parceiro cármico o faça sentir inseguro e o faça questionar tudo sobre si próprio, incluindo a sua autoestima.

What’s interesting is that throughout all this time, you’ll feel bad and hurt but you’ll never feel lonely.

Isto deve-se ao seu reconhecimento inato de uma vida anterior.

Even though you don’t consciously comprehend that what’s happening is for your own good, no matter how confusing it seems, it is a soul lesson.

Your karmic partner doesn’t usually do this on purpose but they sure do push all the ‘wrong buttons’.

There’s probably no person who can trigger you more easily than them and that’s not a coincidence.

Not only is it not a coincidence, they’re ‘programmed’ to trigger you. Everything about karmic soulmates screams tough love.

This relationship can’t be avoided. Of course, if it becomes too toxic, a break-up is inevitable but however long they stay in our life, they will make their mark forever.

Your relationship has toxic moments and you don’t seem to care

“Impossible to let go… No longer knowing how to hold on.” ― Truth Devour

As almas reencarnam nesta vida para pagar a sua dívida cármica e essa dívida é algo que pode ser parcialmente, mas nunca completamente ou totalmente controlada.

It can definitely be eased by good actions and conscious living but in one way or another, we’ll be reminded of our past actions.

However, with care, something that could’ve been a lion’s bite can transform into a mosquito bite and that’s very important.

Still, when it comes to relationships like this, it’s hard to keep your cool, your rationality and your sense of true self.

When you’re with your karmic partner, you’re fighting your illusionary image of self. They are your (very clean and undistorted) mirror.

They subconsciously want you to see yourself as you truly are, without all the junk or other people’s influences that have accumulated over the years.

Naturalmente, isto significa um montanha-russa de emoções e uma relação que é frequentemente rotulada como tóxica.

Nevertheless, while it lasts, you don’t seem to care about the toxic parts, as long as there are good parts.

It’s extremely hard to keep a happy-go-lucky attitude when someone is constantly reminding you of your imperfections, whether you want them to or not.

É esse o seu objetivo e as lições da nossa alma vão para além dos rótulos, digam o que disserem.

This doesn’t mean anyone should stay in an abusive relationship, however; on the contrary, this is how they’ll learn not to be in one.

You can’t imagine your future with them

Apesar de um óbvio ligação da alma, deep down inside, you know you can’t imagine yourself with this person in the future.

You can’t imagine a peaceful or normal relationship with them and you definitely don’t want to stay in a tumultuous relationship for the rest of your life.

In fact, your mind doesn’t know what to do when you start thinking about it and your heart already knows that it’s probably doomed.

No entanto, quando pensa em perdê-los, o seu coração afunda-se e entra em modo de pânico. Saiba que isso é normal.

After all, it’s hard to guess what kind of a relationship you had in your previous lives and what kinds of emotional strings are attached between you two, in addition to those in this life.

Whenever we experience something intense, it could be connected with something we don’t remember from our past lives.

The point is that you know you won’t end up together and before you’re even done with them, you’ll start to mourn the relationship.

Separation from a person you’re very karmically connected to is a very painful but inevitable experience.

Eles mudaram a sua vida para sempre

After you meet your karmic soulmate, your life won’t be the same again, I can guarantee you that. Everything will feel different, you will feel different.

A lot of your personality will be changed or gone for good. You’ll start addressing yourself from the past as the ‘old you’.

You’ll stop relating to many things you used to like and your view of relationships will be forever changed.

It’s possible that you will lose some of your friends or find a new group of people who share your beliefs.

Um parceiro kármico traz grandes lições de vida num curto espaço de tempo e nem todos estão preparados para lidar com isso de forma positiva.

Para algumas pessoas, toda a experiência parece ser mais um fracasso. Algumas sentem-se usadas, traídas ou abandonadas depois de o seu parceiro as deixar.

You’ll need time to make sense of it all and recognize that that person was your teacher, regardless of how messed up some of the things that happened were at first sight.

This experience will change your life forever and you’ll remember it for the rest of your life.

Tornou-se mais consciente dos padrões que se repetem na sua vida

Uma das coisas que acontece no rescaldo destes acontecimentos é a clarificação de certas coisas na nossa vida que já não nos servem.

After you say goodbye to the inauthentic part of yourself, you’ll make room for stronger intuition and more awareness.

For example, you’ll start noticing how karma really works in everyday life or you’ll start noticing how you always bump into the same type of person over and over again and they always have the same effect on you.

You’ll start noticing and understanding the signs along the way better than before.

You’ll learn to see more subtle signs and you’ll be sure about their true meaning. You’ll learn how to cut the karmic ties and pay off the debt.

Outros tipos de relações

Para além de uma alma gémea cármica, existem alguns outros tipos de relações.

None of these relationships or their definitions are set in stone (meaning there’s no definite rules to them); however, they help us understand our experiences more easily.

Relações de chama gémea

“I look into your eyes and I’m sure that some divine artist dipped her brush in the same soul and used it to paint us both.” ― Cristen Rodgers

Este tipo de relação means that we’re not only connected to another person on a soul level but that we share one soul with them.

Unlike a traditional soulmate connection (the good kind), they’re not as comfortable or perfect. They have challenging aspects but not in the same way as a karmic relationship.

With this kind of relationship, one feels like they’re ‘home’ with their twin.

They feel like they’re whole again and can experience a genuine connection on every possible level; a mental connection (they sometimes even share a thought, read each other’s mind, etc.), an emotional connection, a spiritual connection as well as a connection between their physical bodies.

Ver também: Sinais de chama gémea: 22 maneiras de saber que encontraste a tua "alma espelho

Relações tradicionais de alma gémea

“Our souls speak a language that is beyond human understanding. A connection so rare the universe won’t let us part.” ― Nikki Rowe

As we already know, there isn’t only one type of soulmate.

A soulmate connection isn’t always romantic and can happen with anyone, including one of your friends, a family member, co-workers…

De todas as relações, as relações de alma gémea são as mais maduras, no sentido em que não há lições difíceis ou comportamentos tóxicos.

It’s almost like the two souls already had that in the past and now are here to lift each other up and help with each other’s life path.

Some of the signs you’ll see when you find your soulmate are:

• You feel an instant connection but everything about it is calming and not intense in a disturbing way

• You share similar or the same life goals and genuinely enjoy each other’s personality

• You’re not afraid to hang with each other in silence; as a matter of fact, you sometimes prefer it

• You rarely or never experience negative emotions from each other

• You have no problem apologizing or discussing any kind of matter

• There are no secrets or taboos between you two

Ver também: Estes são 6 tipos de almas gémeas que vais conhecer durante a tua vida

Relações cármicas

“Each relationship nurtures a strength or weakness within you.” ― Mike Murdock

The difference between a karmic soulmate and a karmic relationship is simply that a karmic relationship doesn’t end up as a romantic relationship as frequently as karmic soulmates do.

Also, they’re almost always toxic and abusive.

As relações kármicas podem acontecer com qualquer pessoa e, muitas vezes, com pessoas de quem não gostamos muito.

Por exemplo, as pessoas que nos fazem passar por um período traumático da vida, as pessoas que nos invocam o medo, etc.

Unfortunately, there’s usually some kind of dependency between the two and it’s hard to cut the strings.

Ver também: 12 sinais inegáveis de que você está num relacionamento cármico

Embrulhar

Em última análise, todas as relações que temos nesta vida são experimentadas para nos ensinar mais sobre nós próprios.

They’re here to break the illusion of separateness and to epitomize a universal connection.

Everything in the universe is connected and our life can’t be predicted as long as we have our free will.

That’s why a label like a alma gémea cármica é utilizado apenas como uma orientação e não como algo que defina completamente a sua relação com alguém.

Your experiences are unique and your existence is unique. The general rules or signs don’t always apply to everyone.

We’re allowed to have our own impressions and interpret life and the world as we see it.

That’s why we’re born different and born with the gift of intuition. We’re our own guru and teacher.

Afinal, o objetivo de qualquer tipo de ligação é recordar-nos a nossa verdadeira natureza, que é uma parte da consciência universal, um fenómeno belo e fascinante que forma a realidade e que escolhe experimentar-se através de nós.