O que significa realmente um amor eterno e como valorizá-lo (+ citações)
Do you know what undying love truly means? It’s so much more than what we watch on TV shows or read in romance novels and books.
I searched for its meaning in an English dictionary and it explains it as ‘having strong feelings for another person that are unlikely to change’.
Would you agree with this definition? Honestly, I can’t agree with it because for me, it’s a poor and oversimplified definition. The part ‘unlikely to change’ sounds especially wrong to me.
Undying love is constant; it’s permanent and eternal. Para mim, it’s a love story of two people that has no ending. It’s that special, real, amor verdadeiro que nem mesmo a morte pode quebrar.
Infelizmente, hoje em dia, a maioria das pessoas utiliza e compreende estas duas palavras de forma muito incorrecta.
They say it when they don’t actually mean or feel it, and that’s why it has become hard for us to believe in this kind of love today.
But, trust me, it does exist and you should never lose faith in it because one day, it’ll happen to you. One day, you’ll meet your alma gémea and they’ll show you how special and beautiful that feeling truly is.
O que é o amor eterno?
Most people would say that it’s the same as true love, but I say that it’s way more than that.
You can truly love someone, and one day, your feelings can simply disappear… you can leave that person and forget about them as you never really loved them.
Well, that’s the main difference between undying and amor verdadeiro. Quando se trata de amor eterno, não há como esquecer.
Os seus sentimentos pela outra pessoa nunca desaparecerão completamente, independentemente do que aconteça entre vocês.
You’ll love them forever and even more than that. You’ll love them even if God takes them away from you.
Esse amor será a única constante na sua vida. Todas as outras coisas na sua vida podem mudar, mas os seus sentimentos por essa pessoa permanecerão sempre os mesmos.
Quando pensamos nesse amor eterno e sem fim, duas coisas nos vêm à mente. A primeira é o amor que temos pelo nosso Criador, e a segunda é o amor que um pai tem pelo seu filho.
Penso que todos concordamos que esses são os tipos de amor mais puros, mais profundos, mais fortes e mais poderosos, e esses tipos de amor são definitivamente as definições mais reais de amor eterno.
This eternal kind of love creates a bond between two people… a strong and powerful bond that no one and nothing can ever break.
It’s when two people decide to walk through life holding hands together and promise each other they’ll never let go of each other’s hand no matter what.
Este amor eterno e duradouro significa amar alguém pelo que ele realmente é. Significa amar alguém profunda, honesta e incondicionalmente, apesar de todos os defeitos e imperfeições que essa pessoa possa ter.
When we have that undying kind of love for someone, that person becomes your world. You’re ready to sacrifice everything to keep them by your side.
O seu principal objetivo para o resto da sua vida será fazer com que essa pessoa se sinta respeitada, apoiada e, claro, o mais importante, amada.
Now, you may be thinking about how it’s the same as loving someone unconditionally.
Sim, amor incondicional is quite similar to undying love, but once again, it can also disappear while this undying type of love can’t.
And, that’s what makes it so special, so unique. That’s what makes it the purest and deepest kind of love. That’s why this eternal kind of love is the most powerful force in the entire universe.
8 Formas saudáveis de praticar o amor eterno numa relação
Compromisso
Se prometeres a alguém um amor eterno, isso significa que tens de ser empenhado para eles e só para eles.
Isto significa que tem de confiar plenamente neles e mostrar-lhes que eles também podem confiar em si.
Significa que temos de aceitar essa pessoa como ela é e não tentar mudá-la de forma alguma. É preciso aceitar os seus defeitos e imperfeições e amá-los apesar de tudo isso.
That person should be involved in all of your plans for the future because, after all, they’re the only ones you see yourself with in your future.
Celebrem o vosso amor todos os dias
O vosso amor é a vossa maior motivação na vida e merece ser celebrado todos os dias. Don’t ever take your significant other for granted because they should always be on the very top of your priority list.
Encontre uma forma de mostrar ao seu parceiro todos os dias o quanto o ama e o quanto ele significa para si.
Eles têm o lugar mais especial na sua vida e no seu coração, e deve recordar-lhes isso constantemente.
Every day is Valentine’s Day for couples who love each other in this eternal, undying kind of way.
You must keep that spark alive in your relationship because without it, you won’t be able to keep that promise of undying love.
Colocar as suas necessidades ao mesmo nível ou acima das suas próprias
When you truly love someone and you think you’ll love them forever, their needs will be equally or even more important than your own.
Undying love is unselfish. This means that you’re willing to put the happiness of another person ahead of your own.
That doesn’t mean you should be ignoring your own needs; it simply means that you’re prioritizing your love above everything else.
Passar tempo de qualidade juntos
If you feel this type of love for someone, you’ll make that person a priority in your life. That means that you’ll always be willing to make time for them if they need you, even in your busiest schedule.
No matter how long you two are together, you’ll still be trying to get to know each other because you’ll want to know every little thing about your partner, and that will, for sure, create a strong, unbreakable bond between you.
Ser o seu maior fã
No matter what your partner wants to do, and even if you don’t agree with their decisions sometimes, you should always be right behind them supporting them in every step they make in life.
Estar sempre presente para o seu parceiro é um amor verdadeiro e eterno. Your relationship will always be a work in progress, so put the effort in it together, build it together and you’ll grow old together.
O amor físico também é importante
Intimidade and physical touch also play a great role in expressing your eternal love for your SO. That’s what keeps that flame burning in your relationship.
Beije o seu parceiro inesperadamente. Beije-lhe a mão ou beije-o na testa. Mostre o seu amor através de toque físico pois isso aumentará a confiança entre vós e reforçará também a vossa ligação emocional.
Ser mais afetuoso
Don’t be romantic and affectionate only on some special occasions. O seu parceiro merece ser mimado com afeto todos os dias.
Devem ser constantemente recordados do quanto os ama e se preocupa com eles. Deve tentar mostrar-lhes o quanto significam para si todos os dias.
Don’t wait for some special occasion to surprise them with a gift. Buy them a piece of jewelry or a new book just because, and add a greeting card with a beautiful romantic message in it.
Plan a romantic weekend getaway for just the two of you. Be silly and flirty around each other, and no matter how long you are together, you should always behave like two ‘crazy in love’ teenagers.
As pequenas coisas são as mais importantes
A história verdadeira é que pequenas coisas é o que mais importa quando se trata deste tipo de amor eterno.
This is how you interact and behave with your partner every day. It’s that good night kiss you give to them every night before bedtime just to wish them sweet dreams.
It’s when you text them in the middle of the day just to say you miss them or to see how they are.
It’s when you give them a little back massage after they have had an exhausting day at work or the little love notes you leave in their lunch box or around the house.
That’s also when you surprise them with a gift without any reason or when you cook their favorite meal and surprise them with a romantic dinner.
Estas são algumas pequenas coisas que podemos fazer todos os dias pelos nossos entes queridos, e essas coisas são as mais importantes porque são, de facto, o maior indicador de amor eterno.
Citações de amor eterno
The true meaning of undying love can also be explained simply through these following quotes, so it’s definitely important to check them out, too.
Além disso, falei sobre as pequenas coisas que mais importam numa relação, bem, esta é a sua oportunidade de ser romântico e mostrar ao seu SO o quanto o ama.
1. “Loyalty ignites undying love.” – Shubha Vilas
2. “Love is like a friendship caught on fire. In the beginning, a flame, very pretty, often hot and fierce, but still only light and flickering. As love grows older, our hearts mature and our love becomes as coals, deep-burning and unquenchable.” – Bruce Lee
3. “Then, I smile, and in haste . . . I can’t help it! I worship your silhouette. How I gaze and can’t help but stare. I place my hands in your red hair. It is wonderful knowing you have found my undying love. But, now I’ll end this and say goodnight and await the day to be with you through the night and wake with you in my arms underneath the morning light.” – Hazel Cartwright
4. “Limitless undying love which shines around me like a million suns calls me on and on across the universe.” – John Lennon
5. “A man who had never spoken love to me, who had never needed to, for I knew he loved me as surely as I knew I lived. For where all love is, the speaking is unnecessary. It is all. It is undying. And, it is enough.” – Diana Gabaldon
6. “The three ingredients of a successful union between two… humor, commitment and undying love.” – Bill Cosby
7. “Undying love, attention and sacrifice is an essential fuel for relations.” – Alok Jagawat
8. “I have nothing to offer you other than the undying love of my broken heart.” – Angivel of Zanarcadia
9. “Love, for some people, is undying even if one lost the partner.” – Diana Palmer
10. “Love is undying, of that I feel certain. I mean deep, abiding, cherishing love. The love that gives protection even as you, my guardian angel, gave me protection long after you had gone, and continue to give this very day… A love beyond Death – a love that makes Life alive!” – Ruskin Bond
11. “The lesson learned: never take your loved ones for granted. And, if you’re ever lucky enough to find that one person in life who makes you love more than any other person could possibly make you love, you treat every day together as if it were your last. You cherish every moment.” – Sebastian Cole, Sand Dollar: A Story of Undying Love
12. “If she loves you back, no woman is going to complain about the hour if a man calls her to proclaim his undying love.” – Linda Kage
13. “You might never comprehend my madness, but it stands behind my undying love for you. You’re the object of my everything. I’m sorry I’ve been stupid lately.” – Crystal Woods, Write like no one is reading 2
14. “Before you pledge your undying love to someone, make them promise they won’t die.” – Robert Breault
15. “Do not think of this as the end. Think of this as the beginning of eternity together. I have always loved you, I will always love you. Heaven will not stand between us and Hell hath no fury that can burn bright enough to keep me from you.” – Grace Willows, The Write To Love
16. “Did she still love him like she said she always would? Time changes people, and even those who claim undying love have a change of heart when they’re hurt.” – Ella Dominguez
17. “Papa loves you with a dying and infernal love,” the youngest girl said. “Undying,” the eldest girl corrected. “And eternal.” – Martine Leavitt
18. “I loved him. I hated him. I wanted to kiss him. I wanted to strangle him. I was a walking, talking contradiction. There were days I was so torn by my conflicting emotions that I thought I would be ripped in half. Staring at my best friend and secret object of my undying love, I wondered if I would ever get off this crazy train of emotions swirling around inside me. I didn’t like feeling this way, but the truth was I couldn’t remember a time I didn’t feel this aching need to completely immerse myself in all things Daniel Lowe.” – A. Meredith Walters
19. “One day, you will be old and wrinkled and I will still love you.” – V.E. Schwab
20. “Undying love is the key to many locks.” – Alok Jagawat
Conclusão
Undying love is the purest, the most beautiful, and the most honest kind of love. But, unfortunately, it’s very rare today.
It got lost somewhere in this bad, very damaged world. It just couldn’t survive in these bad times because it’s so pure and honest. Nowadays, love, in general, has become a simple word for some people.
You can’t believe when someone says that the love they feel for you is eternal because that’s too strong of a feeling to believe from someone just like that.
Se tens alguém que provou que te ama honesta e incondicionalmente, então aconselho-te honestamente a cuidar dessa pessoa e a retribuir esses sentimentos da mesma forma.
It’s truly very rare today to meet someone who’ll love you that way, so if you’re such a lucky person, hold on to that person and don’t ever let them go.
If you’ve met that kind of love, don’t you ever do something to jeopardize it, and be thankful to God every second of your life for Him giving you the opportunity and sending you the person who has changed your entire thinking about true, undying love.
