Perdoa-te a ti próprio por amares a pessoa errada

If you don’t hold grudges against anyone, why are you holding them against yourself? If you’re able to forgive the people around you for doing things unintentionally, why can’t you forgive yourself? You didn’t know he was going to hurt you.

You didn’t know he would take you for granted. You didn’t know!

Por isso, perdoa-te a ti próprio por apaixonar-se pela pessoa errada.

No one will tell you that they’re messed up when they meet you. No one will tell you all about their faults, flaws or demons when they meet you.

And no one will tell you that their love is not the love for you. And there’s no way knowing if you don’t give it a chance.

And I know that you hate yourself for giving the wrong people chances, I know you’re angry with yourself for staying with the wrong people.

But you’re not a quitter and you never have been. When you love, you love wholeheartedly. And when you choose someone, you do it every single day with your entire being.

And that’s what makes you so special, that’s what makes you so amazing.

Nunca deixes que as pessoas erradas te tirem isso, porque as pessoas certas estão mesmo ao virar da esquina do teu desgosto.

Perdoa-te por teres confiado nas pessoas erradas.

Nunca se sabe quem vai jogar com a nossa confiança e quem a vai manter segura. Nunca se sabe quem o respeitará por confiar nele e quem o tratará como um tolo.

But imagine how sad and lonely your life would’ve been if you had pushed everyone away and held it all inside yourself.

Imagine how pressured you would have felt and how fed up you would’ve been. Let it all go and let it all out.

Haverá sempre pessoas que vos mostrarão que a confiança é complicada, mas também haverá pessoas que vos mostrarão que they’re worthy da vossa confiança.

Perdoa-te por teres deixado entrar as pessoas erradas.

Quando deixamos alguém entrar, confiamos que ele manterá o nosso coração seguro. Quando deixamos alguém entrar, deixamos que ele veja as partes mais profundas e obscuras de nós.

And sometimes it doesn’t work out. Sometimes they don’t know how to hold you, sometimes they don’t know how to share silence with you. And sometimes they don’t want to learn.

Mas haverá pessoas que terão a honra de vos abraçar à noite. Haverá pessoas que terão a honra de te amar e de ouvir o bater do teu coração.

Haverá alguém que te beijará na testa e sentirás como se tivesse beijado a tua alma.

Alguém que verá todos os teus defeitos e os beijará na mesma. Alguém que te ajudará a pegar em todos os teus pedaços partidos e a beijá-los juntos. Perdoa-te por deixares entrar as pessoas erradas, para poderes dar uma oportunidade às pessoas certas.

Perdoa-te por amares a pessoa errada.

I know it hurts, I know you feel stupid for loving someone so bad. I know you’re angry for letting yourself fall for someone so shallow and mean. But you didn’t know. And don’t let him hurt you any longer.

Don’t let his toxic words poison you any longer. Let them go, let him go. Forgive yourself for loving an idiot, because it taught you something much more valuable.

It taught you that it’s not love if it hurts. It taught you that there is a bunch of assholes out there who are only interested in playing with your emotions and heart.

Ensinou-vos que há psicopatas, fuckboys and shit-boys who don’t know how to love. But just because they don’t know how, it doesn’t mean you’re not worth it.

So, don’t deny yourself the chance of meeting someone who will be everything you ever needed and everything you never thought you needed, because you’re still mad at yourself.

Don’t let all those idiots from your past chase away your happiness.

Deixa-os onde eles pertencem e pega fogo a tudo. Mereces mais do que estar preso no passado com as pessoas erradas.

Look to the future with the right ones. Even if you have to be the One for yourself, it’s still better than lost in the past.