É assim que uma rapariga que realmente te ama te vai tratar

Na sua vida, haverá muitas raparigas. E a maioria dessas raparigas terá sentimentos por si e mostrar-lhe-ão alguns tipos de emoções.

Alguns deles vê-lo-ão apenas como um amigo, outros sentir-se-ão apenas sexualmente ou fisicamente atraídos por si, outros apaixonar-se-ão por si e outros amá-lo-ão.

Mas de todas estas mulheres, uma destacar-se-á e só uma será especial. Apenas uma rapariga será única e diferente.

I am not going to tell you that you’ll recognize this girl the moment you lay your eyes on her, because that might not happen.

I am not going to tell you that you’ll feel like you’ve known her for your entire life and I am not going to tell you that you’ll feel like she is your soulmate.

Porque isso pode ou não acontecer.

It is possible for this girl to be the same as everyone else to you in the beginning and it is possible that you won’t see anything special in her at first.

But even if that happens, you’ll eventually see this girl’s worth and you’ll see her uniqueness.
No, you won’t see that she is different from others because of her looks or brains.

You’ll see how special this girl is by the way she treats you and you’ll see it by the way ela ama-o.

Porque esta rapariga vai tratar-te muito bem.

This doesn’t mean that she will be submissive to you and it definitely doesn’t mean she’ll nod her head to everything you have to say.

It doesn’t mean she’ll blindly support every decision you’ll make and that she’ll follow you through life as if she doesn’t have a mind of her own.

It doesn’t mean this girl will put up with you cheating on her and disrespecting her, because she definitely won’t.

It doesn’t mean she will allow you to manipulate her or abuse her in any way.

It doesn’t mean that this girl will think that you are perfect and that she won’t see your flaws.
E é exatamente isso que a tornará diferente de todos os outros.

Porque ela vai ver as tuas imperfeições e vai amar-te não apesar dos teus defeitos, mas por causa deles.

She will be different because she will see the real you and she will love the real you. And no—this girl will never try to change you because she will always respect your personality.

Mas, de alguma forma, ela será a única que conseguirá mudar-te.

Esta rapariga será o vento sob as suas asas.

She will inspire you to become a better man, not for her, but for yourself. You will want to be worthy of her love and respect and that is how you’ll change everything you should change on your own, without her ever pressuring you to do anything.

E sim, ela vai criticá-lo a si e às suas decisões. Mas só o fará cara a cara.

Ela defender-te-á de tudo e de todos, sem qualquer receio. E fará com que todos saibam o quanto ela se orgulha de te ter.

Mas esta rapariga nunca sairá do teu lado. Ela estará contigo no teu pior e no teu pior.

E amar-te-á sempre da mesma forma, porque o seu amor por ti será incondicional.

And the best part is that this girl will never ask for anything in return. She doesn’t need your gratitude and she doesn’t need you returning any favors.

She doesn’t want you buying her expensive gifts or taking her out to fancy dinners.

She will just want your love, respect and efforts. She will only want to see that you appreciate everything she’s done for you and that you are ready to put effort into this relationship.

She will only want to know that she is important to you and that you won’t violate her trust, that you won’t disappoint her and ruin everything the two of you have been building.

Portanto, basicamente, a única coisa que precisa de fazer é não ser suficientemente tolo para deixar esta rapariga ir, because trust me, you won’t find someone like her ever again.