Ela não precisa de um herói. Ela só precisa de alguém que a ame.

Every tale that has a happy ending started off with a princess that needs saving and a prince who ends up being a hero. Those tales are not what life looks like. In reality, we don’t have castles and fairies.

That because we’re not princesses.

We are strong girls who don’t need to be saved from anything. We are used to fighting for everything we want in life. And it’s okay.

We never even asked to be saved. We like who we are and that’s not going to change. We don’t need a prince who’s going to save us.

We don’t need a hero. We are our own heroes. We just need to be loved.

Ser uma mulher alfa who has everything under control is not that easy. It’s actually pretty exhausting. We need to rest from time to time.

Without refueling, we couldn’t function this well. But even when we’re resting, our brains can’t stop working.

We constantly think of many things, such as reflecting on what we did in life or thinking about what to expect from it next. While imagining our future, it’s really hard to imagine someone next to us.

For some of us, it’s even impossible. A lot of guys we meet are intimidated by our personalities.

Querem simplesmente ser heróis para as suas namoradas. Querem sentir que são a solução para todos os seus problemas.

Bem, lamento dizer-vos isto, mas a verdade é que a única coisa de que precisamos é de amor. You see that we’re not asking for much.

Só precisamos de um ombro amigo para chorar quando nos sentimos sobrecarregados por tudo. Precisamos de alguém que pegue na nossa mão e nos leve à piza.

We need guys who are happy to have us in their lives. We just want to be looked at like we’re masterpieces.

Let’s be real—that’s every girl’s dream.

Truth to be told, we are really busy. We work on ourselves all the time, and we won’t stop until we become what we truly want to be.

Alguns de nós querem ser médicos, outros talvez abrir uma loja de flores, e outros estão simplesmente a tentar ser mais felizes na vida.

It doesn’t matter what the goal is. If you’re not ready to love your girlfriend and hold her hand through everything she’s planning on doing, then you should take a step back.

She’s ready to give you the support she expects from you. Ela precisa que sejas um homem de verdade com quem ela possa contar.

She needs someone who’s going to laugh with her, cry with her, and take her places she’s never been to.

Ela precisa de sentir aquele brilho de amor de vez em quando. Ela precisa de se sentir viva.

Even strong women are sometimes weak. Sometimes they get overwhelmed with everything and then forget why are they doing what they’re doing.

Quando a sua namorada chega a este ponto, deve saber como agir. Deve abraçá-la e dizer-lhe que tudo vai correr bem.

That’s all she needs. Is she asking for too much? I don’t think so. But sometimes it’s hard for guys to give that to their girlfriends.

All these women are asking for is to be loved, but their men would rather be their heroes and make some great gestures without any meaning—not to mention that most of the guys would be the happiest if they got to play with girls’ feelings.

Não há nenhuma mulher neste mundo que aceite este tipo de relação.

O resultado final é que if you’re not an macho alfaNão tens nada a ver com uma mulher alfa. Se não fores o teu próprio herói, tal como ela é, então podes esquecê-la.

She will not settle for anything less than what she deserves. She’s not going to be your mum; she can’t take care of you like that.

She will be your lover and your best friend only if you’re willing to be hers.

This combination will guarantee you a happy relationship. If she thinks you’re not good enough for her, then you should respect her decision.

Mas, se estiveres pronto para a amar da forma que ela precisa de ser amada, então prepare-se para viver o melhor momento da sua vida com ela.