Solteiro Vs. Numa relação - As vantagens e desvantagens do seu estatuto

Não há uma resposta certa ou errada para esta pergunta, porque toda a gente tem o direito de ter a sua própria opinião e de fazer a sua própria escolha.

Há muitas pessoas que dizem que quanto mais uma rapariga é educada e bem sucedida, mais provável é que ela é solteira. As raparigas solteiras podem fazer o que quiserem, têm o mundo todo só para elas.

É muito difícil responder se é melhor estar solteiro ou numa relação, tendo em conta as estatísticas que dizem que cerca de 43% das mulheres com idades compreendidas entre os 18 e os 49 anos não são casadas e que há mais mulheres com idades compreendidas entre os 25 e os 44 anos que decidem viver sozinhas do que há 30 anos.

Então, o que está a acontecer? Será que é mesmo melhor estar solteiro? Bem, é definitivamente melhor estar solteiro do que numa má relação.

There is a conception that single girls are incapable of having a deep relationship with someone. You should definitely know that people’s opinions  are not relevant to your life.

Uma das vantagens de ser solteiro é que raparigas solteiras são mais ambiciosos, encontram o seu final feliz na sua carreira e isso é ótimo. Isso normalmente significa que, por esse motivo, a sua vida afectiva não será tão importante para elas.

Além disso, as pessoas solteiras estão mais ligadas ao seu trabalho do que as casadas e, para além do trabalho, estão mais ligadas aos pais, irmãos ou irmãs, amigos, vizinhos e colegas. Se é solteiro, o lado bom é que pode namoriscar e divertir-se a toda a hora, mas infelizmente isso só dura pouco tempo.

At some point, it is not interesting anymore. The problem with being single is there is no support or romantic love in life, only some occasional relationships which don’t last and have no emotional meaning. Eventually, almost every single person starts missing that at some point in their life.

Estar numa relação significa não só estabilidade, mas também eficiência, porque se tem um apoio fantástico em tudo o que se faz e isso é muito motivador para qualquer pessoa.

The greatest benefit is that you are never alone—at any time of day or night, you can call the person you love. Your partner becomes your friend and someone you can rely on. That feeling of being in love, being close and intimate with someone, makes you happier and, research says, even healthier.

One of the shortcomings of being in a relationship is that you can’t have all the time for yourself without thinking about anyone else. No one is forcing you, even unintentionally, to mudar e adaptar-se a algumas coisas.

But there is also the fact that you don’t care about changes if you really love that someone. We can be happy alone, that is for sure. But not everyone wants that. People are supposed to love and be loved and that feeling of being in love releases a hormone of happiness in our body. We should not avoid love. Love is not bad, it is not pain.

Love is the greatest feeling of them all, it changes us, makes us better. People get disappointed in love because they didn’t meet the right person or maybe they were not the right person for that someone because they were not ready. But we shouldn’t give up, we must give love a second and third chance. If you had a bad experience, it doesn’t mean you should forget about love; at that moment, focus on yourself, and when you are ready, the right person will show up.

There are so many reasons why it is good to be single—for example, it cleans your mind, gives you creativity, it significantly increases your confidence, it gives you independence, helps you with your perception, reduces stress and anxiety, it helps you set priorities, improves your productivity, strengthens your relationships with other people in your life and, finally, you make yourself emotionally strong.

There are also many benefits to being in a relationship—for example, you don’t need to pretend that you are in the mood if you are not, you know that é amado e aceite, you can be yourself all the time, in a healthy relationship you can still experience the fun that a single person has, being able to fully trust someone is so important when trying to figure out your life, you can increase the status of your relationship slowly, without the pressure to jump into marriage that can come later in life, and you help recognize each other’s flaws and push each other to become a better person.

Some people spend their whole life single and they feel amazing, while others get married just to avoid other people’s comments. That is definitely wrong. In the end, we can conclude that there is no better or worse, there is only our inner guidance that tells us what is the best for us.