Nunca mais voltar para a pessoa que te quebrou

Eu sei, porque é que me deves dar ouvidos, certo?

But even if you don’t, you know deep down that your move is one big mistake.

Sabe-se que as coisas vão mudar durante uns dias ou assim, e assim que se baixa a guarda, ele será o mesmo pedaço de merda t ele sempre foi.

People don’t change that easily—especially the ones who think there is nothing wrong with them.

No fundo, sabes que ele é uma pessoa em quem não podes confiar. Ele falhou e desiludiu-vos.

You’ve cried by his side so many times, begging him to change. You’ve come close to a breakdown because you couldn’t take it anymore, and he swore on his life he would change.

Nesses momentos, ele teria dito tudo o que quisesses ouvir. Teria feito qualquer coisa só para acalmar a situação, para te acalmar, para poder continuar a fazer o que lhe apetecesse. Que sacana tão sorrateiro!

Mesmo que voltes para ele, achas mesmo que te podes abrir assim tão facilmente com ele?

Podes forçar-te a tentar, mas o teu subconsciente construirá muros altos à tua volta, muros que nem tu saberás que existem.

Even if you decide to make a huge mistake and let him crawl back to you, you won’t share anything with him.

You won’t tell him your secrets and your deepest emotions. You’ll keep your fears and your happiness to yourself.

Why? You know why. He never listened to you in the first place. He never cared for what you had to say. That’s him, the man of your dreams—a man to whom you so desperately kept dar segundas oportunidades .

Agora digam-me, ele mereceu-os?

He is a man you can’t rely on. Every time you needed help, every time you needed support, where was he? I’ll tell you where he was. He went out with friends.

He had more important business to attend to. He was always all over the place but never in the right place – never in your arms.

Sempre que ficavas triste, eras deixada sozinha a lutar contra os teus demónios. E tu deve deal with your troubles all by yourself, but you shouldn’t be realmente por si só.

Ele devia ter estado lá para ti. Ele deveria ter estado lá para enxugar as tuas lágrimas e abraçar-te quando choravas.

Do you remember how it felt to sit by this person, your eyes exploding with tears and your hands shaking in frustration and anger? Do you remember how low you fell, and he wasn’t there to help you get up?

Never go back to the person who wanted you all to himself but at the same time, didn’t care about you.

That’s how possessive and jealous people act. He wanted you all for himself, but he never dealt with you. He never gave you enough attention, and he would be jealous if you looked for it somewhere else.

He forbade you to hang out with your friends because he couldn’t handle the idea of you not being available to him all the time.

E sabes porque é que ele te ligava a toda a hora quando saías sem ele? He didn’t trust you at all.

You’ve discarded people who cared about you because of him. Was he really worth it? Was his fake love worth rejecting people who honestly cared about you?

Do you know how many people you’ve unknowingly hurt just to keep the relationship which was on its last breaths alive?

You’ve rejected people who love you because of some self-centered jerk who took your love for granted. An idiot who never appreciated you nor everything you did for him.

Just think about how much energy, time and, love you’ve wasted on someone who didn’t deserve it.

When you let your mind wander again, and when it wanders back to him, just remember that you’ve settled for way less than you deserve. Remember the pain of neglect you faced every day.

Remember every difficult situation you’ve faced alone because he chose not to be there – he chose something else as more important than you. Just remember…

Never go back to the person who swears he’ll change. Never believe his words because words don’t mean anything.

Tu, mais do que ninguém, devias saber isso. És a testemunha de que as palavras podem ser ditas facilmente, mas as acções não são tão fáceis de fazer.

Acreditar em acções. Acreditar em algo tão estranho para ele, algo que ele nunca fez, e nunca voltar para ele.

Don’t go back to the person who broke you because he’s the last person who can fix you. You’ll hold a grudge against him for the rest of your life.

Deep down, you’re going to blame him for not trusting anyone, for being extra cautious when it comes to love. Maybe you won’t be aware of it, but you’ll never act the same again.

He broke you. He can’t—and has no right to try to—fix you.

Ele pertence agora ao vosso passado. Ele é um verdadeiro exemplo de tudo o que nunca se deve fazer. Confia em mim, tens provas concretas atrás de ti.

You have examples and more importantly, you have unhealed wounds on your heart – wounds he gave you

He is everything you don’t deserve. Please, never go back to him.