Non tornate mai dalla persona che vi ha rotto

Lo so, perché dovresti ascoltarmi, vero?

But even if you don’t, you know deep down that your move is one big mistake.

Sapete che le cose cambieranno per qualche giorno o poco più, e non appena abbasserete la guardia, sarà lo stesso pezzo di merda è sempre stato così.

People don’t change that easily—especially the ones who think there is nothing wrong with them.

Nel profondo sapete che è una persona di cui non potete fidarvi. Ha fallito e ti ha deluso.

You’ve cried by his side so many times, begging him to change. You’ve come close to a breakdown because you couldn’t take it anymore, and he swore on his life he would change.

In quei momenti, avrebbe detto tutto quello che volevate sentire. Avrebbe fatto di tutto per calmare la situazione, per calmarvi, per poter continuare a fare quello che voleva. Che bastardo subdolo!

Anche se tornassi da lui, pensi davvero che potresti aprirti così facilmente con lui?

Potete sforzarvi di provarci, ma il vostro subconscio costruirà intorno a voi muri altissimi, che nemmeno voi saprete che ci sono.

Even if you decide to make a huge mistake and let him crawl back to you, you won’t share anything with him.

You won’t tell him your secrets and your deepest emotions. You’ll keep your fears and your happiness to yourself.

Why? You know why. He never listened to you in the first place. He never cared for what you had to say. That’s him, the man of your dreams—a man to whom you so desperately kept dare una seconda possibilità .

Ora ditemi, se li meritava?

He is a man you can’t rely on. Every time you needed help, every time you needed support, where was he? I’ll tell you where he was. He went out with friends.

He had more important business to attend to. He was always all over the place but never in the right place – never in your arms.

Ogni volta che eri triste, eri lasciato solo a combattere i tuoi demoni da solo. E tu dovrebbe deal with your troubles all by yourself, but you shouldn’t be davvero da soli.

Avrebbe dovuto essere lì per te. Avrebbe dovuto essere lì per asciugare le tue lacrime e abbracciarti quando piangevi.

Do you remember how it felt to sit by this person, your eyes exploding with tears and your hands shaking in frustration and anger? Do you remember how low you fell, and he wasn’t there to help you get up?

Never go back to the person who wanted you all to himself but at the same time, didn’t care about you.

That’s how possessive and jealous people act. He wanted you all for himself, but he never dealt with you. He never gave you enough attention, and he would be jealous if you looked for it somewhere else.

He forbade you to hang out with your friends because he couldn’t handle the idea of you not being available to him all the time.

E sai perché ti chiamava sempre quando eri fuori senza di lui? He didn’t trust you at all.

You’ve discarded people who cared about you because of him. Was he really worth it? Was his fake love worth rejecting people who honestly cared about you?

Do you know how many people you’ve unknowingly hurt just to keep the relationship which was on its last breaths alive?

You’ve rejected people who love you because of some self-centered jerk who took your love for granted. An idiot who never appreciated you nor everything you did for him.

Just think about how much energy, time and, love you’ve wasted on someone who didn’t deserve it.

When you let your mind wander again, and when it wanders back to him, just remember that you’ve settled for way less than you deserve. Remember the pain of neglect you faced every day.

Remember every difficult situation you’ve faced alone because he chose not to be there – he chose something else as more important than you. Just remember…

Never go back to the person who swears he’ll change. Never believe his words because words don’t mean anything.

Voi più di tutti dovreste saperlo. Lei è il testimone del fatto che le parole possono essere pronunciate facilmente, ma le azioni non sono così facili da fare.

Credere nelle azioni. Credere in qualcosa di così strano per lui, qualcosa che non ha mai fatto, e non tornare mai da lui.

Don’t go back to the person who broke you because he’s the last person who can fix you. You’ll hold a grudge against him for the rest of your life.

Deep down, you’re going to blame him for not trusting anyone, for being extra cautious when it comes to love. Maybe you won’t be aware of it, but you’ll never act the same again.

He broke you. He can’t—and has no right to try to—fix you.

Ormai appartiene al vostro passato. È un vero esempio di tutto ciò che non si dovrebbe mai fare. Fidatevi di me, avete prove concrete alle spalle.

You have examples and more importantly, you have unhealed wounds on your heart – wounds he gave you

He is everything you don’t deserve. Please, never go back to him.