Nunca percas o teu tempo com um homem como este

Never waste your time with a man who can’t see your worth. With someone who can’t see how amazing you are, with someone who makes you feel like you are less worthy just because you are not perfect. No one is. Not even he is. And judging people and giving them a hard time just because they don’t fit into our idea of perfection is not okay. Making someone feel worthless is most definitely not okay. And you should never settle for someone who can’t see that you are your own perfection and you should be adored as such.

Never waste your time with a man who makes you stare at an empty screen and throws a tantrum if you don’t reply within seconds. You deserve more than crappy text messages and someone who can’t control his temper. You deserve someone who will be there for you and who will make you feel like you are the reason for their happiness. Someone who will talk to you on the phone till 3 AM and you will know it will be worth it to feel like crap in the morning. You deserve someone who texts you when they see a cute puppy or something that reminds them of you. And you deserve someone who will understand you cannot text back the same second you receive a message.

Nunca perca o seu tempo com um homem que acredita que tem sempre razão. Someone who is brainwashed into thinking that he is the smartest man alive and that he knows everything about everything. A man like that will never appreciate your opinions and he will often belittle them. A man like that doesn’t know how to take the blame if he messes something up, because he is always right. And to him, if he says that he did nothing wrong, he did nothing wrong. Never waste your time with someone who doesn’t appreciate your knowledge and your skills. You worked damn hard for them and you deserve to be acknowledged for them, the same as you would do for your partner. If he is not interested in doing the same for you, he’s not worth it.

Nunca perca o seu tempo com um homem que odeia ser tratado como o trata a si. Dizem que a melhor maneira de ver como é uma pessoa é tratá-la da mesma forma que ela o trata a si. Se ele ignora as suas necessidades e a si, faça-lhe o mesmo. Se ele está a fazer birras sem razão aparente, faça o mesmo. E no momento em que ele começar a ressentir-se de si por isso, esse é o momento em que tem de se afastar. É que, se um homem ama-te verdadeiramenteSe o homem não se importar consigo mesmo, vai certificar-se de que nunca mais a trata assim, porque agora sabe como pode ser uma merda. Mas um homem que só se preocupa consigo próprio só verá que não está a ser gentil com ele como sempre foi.

Nunca percas o teu tempo com um homem que te dá gás. With someone who makes you question your own sanity and your own memories. Someone whose words are so poisonous that they make you feel like you are on your own, that your friends and family don’t care about you. That’s not love and no matter what he says, trust yourself, trust your gut. And never waste your time, your health or your life with someone who is only playing with you. You know you deserve more.

Nunca perca o seu tempo com um homem que projecta as suas imperfeições em si. A man who’s accusing you of cheating is a man who cheated before. A man who is accusing you of flirting with other men is a man who flirts often. A man who makes you question your sanity, your knowledge or your skills is a man who is insecure about his. But it’s not your job to fix someone by breaking yourself. If he isn’t capable of dealing with his fears and insecurities in a more mature way, he is not worthy of your help. A relationship with such a man is nothing but a toxic pain in the ass.

E, por último, nunca perca o seu tempo com um homem que a faça sentir menos do que merece. Nunca percas o teu tempo com alguém que te faz sentir como se fosses tu não são suficientemente bonsO homem que não é perfeito ou que é sempre o culpado. Nunca perca o seu tempo com alguém que a faça comparar-se com outras mulheres, porque ele é incapaz de ser leal. Nunca perca o seu tempo com um homem que a faz sentir-se inamável, só porque ele é incapaz de amar. Ambos sabemos que todos merecemos mais do que isso.